Rape fantasy

[CrimsonKnighmare]

Is it wrong.

[RJH98]

As long as you don't act on it. It's probably hormones anyway

[CrimsonKnighmare]

Hmm OK thanks

[TheLotus]

Well it's just a fantasy. People are into all types of things so it's really nothing serious unless you actually act in it, then it will probably be bad

[CrimsonKnighmare]

Lol ok

[SethfromMI]

^ well you asked if a rape fantasy was wrong. fantasy being the key word. if you don't act on it whatever. if you do, prepare to share a jail cell with Bubba or Jared from Subway

[vboy]

u just have to make shure that the fantasy stays a fantasy

some things just belong inside ur head but there is nothing wrong wi a bit of imagination

[Hermes]

There is no thought police. You can fantasise about anything you like but if what you fantasise about would be illegal to carry out, as it is in the case of rape, you need to be absolutely sure you never would carry it out.

[ska8er]

Its normal to fantasize just
don't get stupid and act on it.

[CrimsonKnighmare]

I would never rape a person but. In porn I do enjoy the moans and man handleing

[Zachary G]

^ well you asked if a rape fantasy was wrong. fantasy being the key word. if you don't act on it whatever. if you do, prepare to share a jail cell with Bubba or Jared from Subway

Exactly! (LoL - Bubba or Jared, thats funny)

[Blablabla36489]

No, it's not okay! Rape is something terrible and I think that even a thought about it can lead in a wrong way. Don't get me wrong, I don't want to make you feel bad, but I recommend you to carefully think about it and make a decision to fight these fantasies because they're not healthy for sure.

[BeautyBelle]

I think fantasies are fantasies, they're very personal. I bet we all have fantasies that would be really disturbing to other people. As long as you treat people right, I would never judge somebody for their private thoughts.

[CrimsonKnighmare]

No, it's not okay! Rape is something terrible and I think that even a thought about it can lead in a wrong way. Don't get me wrong, I don't want to make you feel bad, but I recommend you to carefully think about it and make a decision to fight these fantasies because they're not healthy for sure. don't tell me your innocent if your innocent you wouldn't be on this site huehue

[NickS]

as long as you don't act on it, I think its fine for you to fantisize about whatever you want just keep in mind that its just a fantasy and that sometimes its best to keep it that way (this is one of those times lol)

[Bluebyrd]

I fantasise about killing people from time to time. Is it morally wrong? Yes. But as long as I don't do anything about it, no one is being harmed and it's fine. Likewise with you.

[CuteDawg10]

Everyone else has said it, but I might add on as well. Yes it is fine to fantasise, but don't act on it.

[ValentinClarke]

Is it wrong.

Being a fantasy is fine. There are things in the BDSM culture, which could help you somewhat act these feelings out. Rape is wrong. Just don't do that, and research BDSM a bit, and maybe you'll find it could be for you.
Valentin

[everlong]

You can't help what your fantasies are. As long as you don't actually rape someone, you're fine.

[Merk]

Used to hate a girl on my street for betraying me, I'm glad now that I didn't do what I was thinking to her. I was like 12 by the way.

[JellyBelly31]

Is it wrong.
It really depends, are you doing the rapeing or getting raped?
Either or doesn't matter as long as you don't do it. :)

[GoGoDiego]

Well. Rape fantasies sometimes puts me to sleep.

[CrimsonKnighmare]

Well. Rape fantasies sometimes puts me to sleep.

Lol why?

[GoGoDiego]

Hahahaha. Idk why. I fantasized raping my close friend and I fell asleep minutes later.

[Jstr]

there is a fine line between "dominate" and "rape"
having fantasies about rape is wrong, don't act upon it either (not that I'm worried you will)
but being dominate in sex/porn is completely different because you have mutual consent

-To sum it all up-
having fantasies about raping someone is NOT GOOD if you do end up fantasizing again, just stop the urge as soon as possible
being dominate in sex/porn is different completely due to mutual consent.

[KBar33]

There is a part of the human psyche that we have all had since the dawn of mankind. It's the primitive part of ourselves that civilized society has been able to keep locked up. For most of us it stays dormant and is not acted upon due to cognitive restructuring throughout the evolution of societal and cultural norms. It is the part of us that ever so slightly seeps into our fantasies, because fantasy within itself is simply an escape from the reality of our circumstances.

In your case, you derive some sexual pleasure from the idea of being in control over somebody else. Often times this results from a history or background of not having control over things in your own life. I don't know your story or anything about you, but I know that both you and me have had our own strife and conflicts. I know that deep down in every single person on this planet is that primal neanderthalic urge to act in ways that modern society has deemed to be irreconcilable in a civilized society. This is of course with good reason, we want to make sure that we are a moral society, but I do not blame you for having these urges. You know full well that rape is a reprehensible thing to actually do, but I will not thought police you like some people will.

The phrase actions speak louder than words still holds ground to this day, if I say that I don't like you face and I wish it was punched, you've harmed nobody. If I say that I hate your face and violently punch you, now we have a problem that we can actually fix.

As long as you know that actual rape is reprehensible then think whatever the hell you want. But I can't and won't judge you for a darker part of the human psyche that only you have had the balls to admit is there.

[Atlantis]

There is a part of the human psyche that we have all had since the dawn of mankind. It's the primitive part of ourselves that civilized society has been able to keep locked up. For most of us it stays dormant and is not acted upon due to cognitive restructuring throughout the evolution of societal and cultural norms. It is the part of us that ever so slightly seeps into our fantasies, because fantasy within itself is simply an escape from the reality of our circumstances.

In your case, you derive some sexual pleasure from the idea of being in control over somebody else. Often times this results from a history or background of not having control over things in your own life. I don't know your story or anything about you, but I know that both you and me have had our own strife and conflicts. I know that deep down in every single person on this planet is that primal neanderthalic urge to act in ways that modern society has deemed to be irreconcilable in a civilized society. This is of course with good reason, we want to make sure that we are a moral society, but I do not blame you for having these urges. You know full well that rape is a reprehensible thing to actually do, but I will not thought police you like some people will.

The phrase actions speak louder than words still holds ground to this day, if I say that I don't like you face and I wish it was punched, you've harmed nobody. If I say that I hate your face and violently punch you, now we have a problem that we can actually fix.

As long as you know that actual rape is reprehensible then think whatever the hell you want. But I can't and won't judge you for a darker part of the human psyche that only you have had the balls to admit is there.

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