Is it too late?

[iamsilkspectre]

Hi, y'all!

A few weeks ago I broke up with my boyfriend. The relationship lasted about five years and I always considered myself to be straight. In these weeks, however, I started to talk more and more with a friend from middle-school. She's always been bisexual (well, at least since I've known her) and we've been closer and closer, to the point of getting really intimate a few days ago (to say it plainly, yes, we had sex). I feel weird realizing I might be starting to develop emotions towards her, I never considered myself to be even bi-curious. But something's happening and I know it. The thing is, I'm 18, shouldn't that be kind of "too late" to be questioning my sexuality? Has any of you questioned your sexuality in your late teens?

PS: Sorry about my English :P

[Almostahero]

Actually people of all ages have questioned their sexuality.

[Sports Boy]

I've checked out other sex forums for older people and there are tons of people in middle age and even older who are discovering their gay and/or bi sides. I live in PA/USA and a 90 year old ex-US senator from here, who was married for 50 years, married a guy who is like 35. He said sometimes you just can't control who you fall in love with at any age. The best part is that his kids all support him.

[Kaeneus]

Nah, there's nothing like 'too late'. Past is the past. You like this girl now, right? Can't change that. It is what it is. You're a girl who likes a girl, thems the facts, whether it's 'too late' or not isn't gonna change anything. It's possible you could have repressed something or even just never met a girl you liked. You're fine :)

[lemondrop]

Nawww it's not too late, there are some people who lived 40years as a straight and then BAM and they have relationship with the same gender

[Bull]

You are okay! I had a 2 month relationship with a guy when I was 17. It was awesome. Had never been curious about experimenting before that. Then was in an awesome relationship with a girl for almost a year before I left for college. Now I am with a guy. It is all good. Enjoy the relationship and no worry!

[Miss Ophelia]

You are obviously enjoying what you are doing and the fact you are getting "emotions" for the other girl just highlights your feelings for her. If you are both happy and enjoying the situation, just go with it.

[DoodleSnap]

People go through shifts in their sexuality at nearly every stage in life. The fact that you are honest enough with yourself to realise that is great - it's not too late or too early. Whatever is right for you is right for you.

[GoodBoyPesareKhob]

you can enjoy with both males and females, be brave

[jainfelix90]

There is nothing to worry. It's common to get confused about your sexuality, there is no age limit for it. If you ar happy with this relationship then enjoy it in your way.

[Living For Love]

Please don't bump old threads. :locked: