wrong impression?

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theres this guy at school and we have been really close for a long time, id call him one of my bestfriends. but within the last month or so, we've been hookinh up at parties and i told him that i didnt want to give him the wrong impression (as 2 years ago he told me he liked me) and i didnt want him to start getting feelings for me or think we were "together"
but my thing is that i still believe that i can go out and kiss other peole but i think if he did, i would be a little jealous and bothered by it?? im not sure if thats just werid or what? i know that i dont have any real feelings for him and i dont want to get into a relationship for ages. i dont know what to do?????:

[Almostahero]

It sounds like you are being possessive and controlling. You want to be able to have him on the side while you go out and do whatever you want. Either as a backup plan or just a go to. That is selfish and not really thinking of his feelings. The real question is do you really think of him as a friend? I mean why would you not want a friend to be happy with someone else if you don't want to be with them?

Either be his friend and not screw with his emotions and support him in however he decides to date.
Be his girl and be loyal to him.
But don't be the kind of girl that screws around with him and hurts him.

Becuase what it sounds like, you are not doing any of these things. Don't hurt him just for selfish reasons.

[Hudor]

It sounds like you are being possessive and controlling. You want to be able to have him on the side while you go out and do whatever you want. Either as a backup plan or just a go to. That is selfish and not really thinking of his feelings. The real question is do you really think of him as a friend? I mean why would you not want a friend to be happy with someone else if you don't want to be with them?

Either be his friend and not screw with his emotions and support him in however he decides to date.
Be his girl and be loyal to him.
But don't be the kind of girl that screws around with him and hurts him.
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I agree with this. If he's admitted before that he likes/liked you, hooking up with him was giving him the wrong impression pretty much but since you cleared the air that should have been fine. Now wanting/trying to stop him from hooking up with others would only screw up his feelings. If you don't want to be with him, don't lead him on like that.