Mom walked in on me

[DMan98]

So earlier today I was watching porn and jacking off. I do this every day the same way because if someone comes upstairs I can hear them coming and I can hear my door open.

So today, I watched about a 10 minute video, and right as I finished cumming and leaned back in my chair to relax and get a tissue my mom says something. I don't think ive ever paniced more in my life!

She was talking about how mad and disgusted she was with me that I would watch girls do that (I was watching a girl masturbate not sex) and she was going off on me.

The worst part is I have no clue how long she was there. I never heard my door open or heard her coming down the hall. I feel so embarrassed. I just need some help with this situation.

She hasn't taken anything from me but it hasn't even been a full day yet. IDK what she'll do after she thinks about it. What should I say to defend myself?

[Amber98]

really??

i think your moms over reacted.. she had to say absolutely nothing since masturbation is something natural that everyone does. i think you should be proud of yourself and if she talks anymore about it you should tell her that you're a boy inside your room doing your thing and she has no right to say anything about it.

[ksdnfkfr]

that was really rude of your mom to invade your privacy like that.

[MechaSniper]

really??

i think your moms over reacted.. she had to say absolutely nothing since masturbation is something natural that everyone does. i think you should be proud of yourself and if she talks anymore about it you should tell her that you're a boy inside your room doing your thing and she has no right to say anything about it.

I agree with her. Your mom shouldn't walk in on you unannounced

[LunarScorpio]

Bad luck :p


The best thing you can really do is to speak to them, say it is normal. It was probably a reaction because she was shocked. It will not be easy though

[Saint of Sinners]

I don't think she has a right to do anything to you.

[JamesSC]

She is your mom. For that to be, she would have had to have done sexual stuff in her time too, don't sweat it.

[sweet_girl24au]

Your mum is over-reacting. It's probably just a bit of a shock to her.....lets face it, it's not something you want people to see you doing.

A few years ago when my folks were away for the night I went downstairs and for some reason my older bro was in the lounge room jacking off and I accidentally just opened the door to go in, saw what was going on and kinda squealed and quickly shut the door and ran back to my room. He freaked. Later on he was real embarrassed and was saying sorry I was just like "it's ok I'm sorry!"

[everlong]

Huge over reaction. I guess she doesn't know that's a completely normal thing to do?

[deregisterme]

Bad luck. I'd try and avoid the situation. If she brings it up, remain calm and quiet. I think most mums still see their sons as sweet little boys and probably refuse to accept that puberty, with all the things that go with it are a part of growing up. Hopefully, if she has been speaking to your dad, he may have calmed her down a bit (he would have been a horny teen boy once). Take the lecture if you get one, and just be a bit more careful next time!

[ninja789]

my aunt did that with her son :(

[chrisjenkins]

I don't get why parents care. 99% of guys jerk off.

[JamesSC]

I don't get why parents care. 99% of guys jerk off.
Well thats probably a fake figure...

[Ben101]

that was really rude of your mom to invade your privacy like that.

I agree, she should've knocked. I just wouldnt say anymore of it to your mum or anyone.

[chrisjenkins]

Well thats probably a fake figure...

I'm exaggerating obviously. I'm just saying a large majority do and I think parents must be aware of that. Why act so horrified when you see it?

[JamesSC]

I'm exaggerating obviously. I'm just saying a large majority do and I think parents must be aware of that. Why act so horrified when you see it?
I see your point.

[Jeonard]

just say it is a natural thing and she is going to have to deal with it

[Kjcj]

Say "Momma, boys will be boys... You caught me being a boy".... My grandma seen on the history on my phone where i had watched porn and she told everyone!! I have never been so pissed off in my life.... When my mom caught me watching it she really diddnt catch me she was using my iPod and I told her what I told you to tell your mom and she was alright about it.... she just told me to wait till I was more age appropriate...

[daniel 2014]

Was it rude for your mom to enter without knocking? Yes. But for everyone saying that she is over reacting and has no right to be mad... is wrong. Pornography is illegal under the age of 18... i would tell you to apologize and tell her you will not watch porn anymore. Regardless if you stop or not. Although stopping is the right thing to do.

[DarkHorse4eva]

your mom is overreacting if she takes any of your stuff

just say that it's normal and almost every teen does it

[backjruton]

Say "Momma, boys will be boys... You caught me being a boy".... My grandma seen on the history on my phone where i had watched porn and she told everyone!! I have never been so pissed off in my life.... When my mom caught me watching it she really diddnt catch me she was using my iPod and I told her what I told you to tell your mom and she was alright about it.... she just told me to wait till I was more age appropriate...

Haha.. I've been at it since 10 or 11 and my parents never said this to me. No matter how annoying I find them I guess I'm very lucky, my mum only said she's worried I would turn out like her grandad that raped her because she thinks he watched a lot of porn back in his day too or something. I'm still not too full on the details here

And to this...
So earlier today I was watching porn and jacking off. I do this every day the same way because if someone comes upstairs I can hear them coming and I can hear my door open.
So today, I watched about a 10 minute video, and right as I finished cumming and leaned back in my chair to relax and get a tissue my mom says something. I don't think ive ever paniced more in my life!
She was talking about how mad and disgusted she was with me that I would watch girls do that (I was watching a girl masturbate not sex) and she was going off on me.
The worst part is I have no clue how long she was there. I never heard my door open or heard her coming down the hall. I feel so embarrassed. I just need some help with this situation.
She hasn't taken anything from me but it hasn't even been a full day yet. IDK what she'll do after she thinks about it. What should I say to defend myself?

Is this the first time you've been caught by her? Because my parents have known not to open my door without knocking ever since the first time I was caught and since then I think they've been fine. I've never had anything taken off me for something bad I did because my mum knows it will only make me worse (and my dad doesn't even threaten to because he's nice like that) so I don't really know how other people feel but I know it's something I would never do to my kids if I had kids which I don't want because I even suck at taking care of myself.

As for something you should say, just tell her you needed a way to relieve your stress or something. And if she asks what's stressing you... I don't know what to do. But I masturbate to relieve stress sometimes because I find it really hard to communicate to people in reality so I can't really tell anyone about my emotions and this seems like a good way to take care of them too :) :D

[DMan98]

really??

i think your moms over reacted.. she had to say absolutely nothing since masturbation is something natural that everyone does. i think you should be proud of yourself and if she talks anymore about it you should tell her that you're a boy inside your room doing your thing and she has no right to say anything about it.

I agree with her. Your mom shouldn't walk in on you unannounced

Bad luck :p


The best thing you can really do is to speak to them, say it is normal. It was probably a reaction because she was shocked. It will not be easy though

Just tell her she does that too so there's no reason to get so upset. And if things turn nasty, just say you'd also be disgusted if you saw her

Bad luck. I'd try and avoid the situation. If she brings it up, remain calm and quiet. I think most mums still see their sons as sweet little boys and probably refuse to accept that puberty, with all the things that go with it are a part of growing up. Hopefully, if she has been speaking to your dad, he may have calmed her down a bit (he would have been a horny teen boy once). Take the lecture if you get one, and just be a bit more careful next time!

just say it is a natural thing and she is going to have to deal with it

Haha.. I've been at it since 10 or 11 and my parents never said this to me. No matter how annoying I find them I guess I'm very lucky, my mum only said she's worried I would turn out like her grandad that raped her because she thinks he watched a lot of porn back in his day too or something. I'm still not too full on the details here

And to this...


Is this the first time you've been caught by her? Because my parents have known not to open my door without knocking ever since the first time I was caught and since then I think they've been fine. I've never had anything taken off me for something bad I did because my mum knows it will only make me worse (and my dad doesn't even threaten to because he's nice like that) so I don't really know how other people feel but I know it's something I would never do to my kids if I had kids which I don't want because I even suck at taking care of myself.

As for something you should say, just tell her you needed a way to relieve your stress or something. And if she asks what's stressing you... I don't know what to do. But I masturbate to relieve stress sometimes because I find it really hard to communicate to people in reality so I can't really tell anyone about my emotions and this seems like a good way to take care of them too :) :D

Thanks for all the advice guys!! She came in my room the other day and told me she was sorry for overeacting, but she was caught off guard. She said she was just cleaning the house and forgot to knock. She said she walked in right as I was cumming and it kinda freaked her out when she saw me watching porn.

But she said she understood and she said that its natural and all boys do it yada yada yada and then she told me its better for me to do that than run around havin sex. So thanks guys!!

[backjruton]

Awesome :yes:

Because at least you can't get an STD from touching yourself. And this makes me laugh a lot because a friend of mine I hadn't spoken to for a while on an online MMO PMed me one day and told me: He had sex with a girl just because he wanted to try it out and got an STI on his first time and had to go to the doctors for a solution. At least you can't get that from what you do by yourself :D

[Zenos]

that was really rude of your mom to invade your privacy like that.

her house her rules,hes the child she's the adult.Respect a parents athourity!
But that being said a bit of politeness on her part would have been right she should have knocked!

[ksdnfkfr]

her house her rules,hes the child she's the adult.Respect a parents athourity!

LOL how old are you?

[nklarke]

Glad it's going on better now.

Sometimes it's difficult for a parent realizes that his preety kid is becoming a man.

[Curious.kid]

I know the feeling. I got caught a few days ago too, and my parents said I'm not allowed to masturbate and they will not tolerate it because it's naughty, dirty and a sin.

[backjruton]

Her house her rules, hes the child she's the adult. Respect a parents authority!
But that being said a bit of politeness on her part would have been right she should have knocked!

Parents suck. Not a very good piece of advice :D
It may be "her house" but it's "your room" ;)

I know the feeling. I got caught a few days ago too, and my parents said I'm not allowed to masturbate and they will not tolerate it because it's naughty, dirty and a sin.
And surely removing the urge this way is better than some of the things you could be doing... Religion is stupid

[Jake Rosenbloom]

I think you should quit porn. it is disgusting. Good thing your mum walked in.

[backjruton]

Porn may be disgusting but masturbating and watching porn at the same time must be better than trying to force someone in to sex.

And masturbating without porn wouldn't be as good because you need to learn about sex somehow, and at least in my school we never had sex education because they thought we were too immature for it :D

[Brown13]

If your parents are anywhere like mine, they would be like "what room? What privacy? Youre x years old you need no privacy. You pay no rent so this is still my room with my tv and my computer"

But thats me