Can't get over him

[logan4sho]

My boyfriend and me broke up two months ago. When I was mad at him it was easy to be done with him. I'm not mad anymore but now it hurts and I miss him. Feels all wrong. How do I get over him and move on?

[Body odah Man]

My boyfriend and me broke up two months ago. When I was mad at him it was easy to be done with him. I'm not mad anymore but now it hurts and I miss him. Feels all wrong. How do I get over him and move on?

Sadly, the only thing that helps is time.

[Uniquemind]

Sadly, the only thing that helps is time.

That and the ability to learn apathy.

For me that last one really helped me but I in contrast had to make sure I didn't lose the ability to feel good emotions as well.

[Body odah Man]

That and the ability to learn apathy.

For me that last one really helped me but I in contrast had to make sure I didn't lose the ability to feel good emotions as well.

How did you do that? I only have the apathy, or negative/ crazy emotions lately.

[Hudor]

If you think things might have gone wrong from your side and are seeking closure, then probably let him know about your feelings and apologize. Guilt can make it very hard to stop thinking about the person and move on.
Generally though, as others said, give yourself time. Go out, do some fun stuff with your friends or family and do something to engage your mind otherwise.

[Fiction]

Unfortunately only time and that can take a while.

2 months isn't a long time at all, especially if it was a long relationship.

[Bull]

Maybe you don't need to get over him. Maybe the two of you need to talk over the conflict that caused a break up. If he has not moved on then definitely have the talk. If it hurts and you miss him then tell him how you feel and see what happens. Friendships are two important to just trash. Just my opinion. Good luck.

[logan4sho]

I can't get past whatever it is that's keeping me from talking to him.

[Bull]

I can't get past whatever it is that's keeping me from talking to him.

First: identify the "whatever". Once you do that you should be able to have the conversation. Man, this is too important to your well being to not tell him how you are feeling. It will eat you alive until you come to some kind of resolution.

[logan4sho]

First: identify the "whatever". Once you do that you should be able to have the conversation. Man, this is too important to your well being to not tell him how you are feeling. It will eat you alive until you come to some kind of resolution.

I know. Does this mean I'm still mad at him somehow? I don't understand this.

[Bull]

I know. Does this mean I'm still mad at him somehow? I don't understand this.

Ok, go back over the events leading up to the breakup. What mad you so mad? Were you mad at him or yourself? What has been happening in the two months since the breakup? Have either of you dated other guys during this time? Does it seem that he has moved on and away from you? Do you see each other on a regular basis, like at school, and how does that go? Review these and other questions in your mind. Write down the pros and cons of telling him how you are feeling. Man you have just got to resolve this.

[logan4sho]

I texted him. He didn't answer.

[Supermeggs12]

I texted him. He didn't answer.

He might just be busy?

[logan4sho]

Or he doesn't have time for me. It's whatever.

[hockeyboy2000]

My boyfriend and me broke up two months ago. When I was mad at him it was easy to be done with him. I'm not mad anymore but now it hurts and I miss him. Feels all wrong. How do I get over him and move on?

Im curious but me and my gf just broke up and i get what you mean, i try to be nice to her but she is making it really hard.

[logan4sho]

Im curious but me and my gf just broke up and i get what you mean, i try to be nice to her but she is making it really hard.

I'm trying to move on but there's something still in my heart for him. It hurts. I don't cry a whole lot but thinking about him makes me cry.

[Living For Love]

You still haven't told us why you guys broke up. The way you say you still miss him and how it "feels wrong" makes me think it was probably not the best decision, or it was something done in the heat of the moment. You really should try to talk with him about it, and I don't mean texting or over a telephone call, I mean face to face. It's easier to move on if you make peace with him.

[FuTo]

My advice? Find a better guy. It took me four years to get over this guy until I found guys that I liked. Once u find someone new u will forget him and move on. Best of luck.

[logan4sho]

He texted me back. Didn't seem happy to hear from me. I guess now I know.

[SethfromMI]

He texted me back. Didn't seem happy to hear from me. I guess now I know.

sometimes these things take a lot of time man. sometimes, it sadly just doesn't work out. it may always hurt a little bit but eventually you are going to find a guy you and he loves you and you will be incredibly happy with him

[logan4sho]

sometimes these things take a lot of time man. sometimes, it sadly just doesn't work out. it may always hurt a little bit but eventually you are going to find a guy you and he loves you and you will be incredibly happy with him

I don't know why I bother. so may guys just want to hook up.

[SethfromMI]

I don't know why I bother. so may guys just want to hook up.

sadly that is the case. but there are guys out there who want to be in a relationship. at our rage, it is rare to find the person you will be with forever, but you never know. there are good people out there. patience is key. I know how hard it can be to wait for this type of thing though