Girls preferences and insecurity

[john_sartre]

Does anyone let these threads on circumcision preferences upset you? And do you believe the people who make claims like "most girls prefer..." as well? I'd just like to talk about this, since there are definitely some members who are making claims like this and I don't think it's contributing to anything good, except making others feel bad. Post here about how you feel it about this and if you'd like to discuss it. Anyone can contribute.

[Cooper_2001]

I'm cut, and my girlfriend enjoys having sex.. She said she doesn't have a preference, mostly because she lost her virginity to me, as I did to her. I don't think it matters, and the guys that say that sex feels better with an uncut dick, you don't even know what it feels like to have a cut cock.

[Xiao.Z]

What does it mean cut?

[john_sartre]

What does it mean cut?

Cut means circumcised. I would like to point out that this thread isn't so much about what girls prefer, rather it's how these preferences can affect others. Say whatever you like though.

[BlackParadePixie]

I've never been with a guy who was uncut...so I wouldn't know.

[Taryn98]

If someone asks what people prefer, and they give and honest opinion, why are you getting upset? They're giving an answer to the asked question. If you're afraid of what the answer will be, then don't ask the question.
Everyone is different and while there may be large percentages of people who believe in or prefer whatever, that doesn't mean everyone does.
Sounds like you're too sensitive.

[RJH98]

I agree with Taryn. If someone on the forum ask which way someone prefers things you just give your opinion. Everybody is different and so are their opinions. There are no intentions to make others feel bad about themselves (I assume)

[john_sartre]

If someone asks what people prefer, and they give and honest opinion, why are you getting upset? They're giving an answer to the asked question. If you're afraid of what the answer will be, then don't ask the question.
Everyone is different and while there may be large percentages of people who believe in or prefer whatever, that doesn't mean everyone does.
Sounds like you're too sensitive.

I didn't say I was personally upset, but I was asking if anyone else was. I'm not blaming anyone for having a preference, but opinions like "most girls prefer..." can cause insecurity and I just don't think they have the right to speak for most girls. I just wanted to state to anyone affected by that kind of attitude that they have absolutely no reason to worry. I think you're assuming too much about why I posted.

[Xiao.Z]

Cut means circumcised. I would like to point out that this thread isn't so much about what girls prefer, rather it's how these preferences can affect others. Say whatever you like though.

I not know what circumcise mean so maybe not topic for me.

[jen698]

as far as it goes for me. i dont care ether way if its cut or uncut. as long as the guy keeps him self clean.

[playfull-qt]

I've never been with a guy who was uncut...so I wouldn't know.

me neither, sorry :confused::confused:

[Doro15]

I not know what circumcise mean so maybe not topic for me.

I think Wikipedia (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Circumcision) help you

[Supermeggs12]

I don't mind circumcised or uncircumcised.

[BellaS.]

Does anyone let these threads on circumcision preferences upset you? And do you believe the people who make claims like "most girls prefer..." as well? I'd just like to talk about this, since there are definitely some members who are making claims like this and I don't think it's contributing to anything good, except making others feel bad. Post here about how you feel it about this and if you'd like to discuss it. Anyone can contribute.

I think that most girls prefer it because its kind of what you think of when you think of a penis (it being circumsized) But I think it shouldn't matter

[Katie NYC]

If someone's preference makes someone else feel bad, then it's that someone else's problem. People like what they like.

[KellyNC]

It's not anything to get upset about, personally it really doesn't matter but a preference is a preference not an attack or something that anyone should take offense to. I mean don't take a guy saying that he prefers blondes to brunettes offensively.

[Sasha M]

Not like it matters to the girl physically though!

Right?
(uncut btw, dont cut my d plz)

[ClaraWho]

Just some facts;

1) There's no benefit to circumcising a penis foreskin. The whole 'less risk of STI's' is yet to be comprehensively shown if the individual simply practices basic hygiene. Same as a woman.

2) The entire purpose of circumcision is to blunt the pleasure that can be gained from sex, as decreed by religious texts. Less pleasure receptors & drier gland = not as good. Nobody can argue against that. There are medical occurrences when the penis is abnormal in growth, such as an overly tight foreskin, but these are not mainstream.

3) As the above 2 are true, it seems highly disturbing a girl would want her sexual partner to feel less pleasure and more discomfort during sex. It would be the same as the removal of the clitoris hood. Why would men want a mutilated women right?

Yet still you get 'I prefer circumcised', even though in practice both can look the same whilst errect. Anyone saying 'Oh it's just a preference to like mutilated boys' needs to take a long look in the mirror and reflect on their morality.

~ Clara

[everlong]

They're just stating their opinions, there's nothing wrong with that. You shouldn't let opinions get to you.

[john_sartre]

I was addressing the generalizations some people were making, I don't have a problem with people speaking for themselves on their preferences. Others shouldn't say "most people prefer..." because that implication can be harmful and it's just not true in most cases.