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okonite
May 5th, 2016, 09:45 AM
Does anyone else have a boyfriend who refuses to take his socks off during sex? It doesn't matter where we are, time of day or season, he never takes them off. I think it's gross and less intimate. I started talking to some of friends about this and some told me that they even sometimes leave there socks on. The only time I have ever done this was in the car and that's so we could get dressed quicker if someone came.
1) Does your boyfriend leave his socks on during sex?
2) If yes, how often?
3) Do you have a problem with this?
4) Do you ever leave your socks on?
Bull
May 5th, 2016, 09:49 AM
I fail to see why this is a problem of intimacy, that is unless you have a foot fetish.
okonite
May 5th, 2016, 09:51 AM
I fail to see why this is a problem of intimacy, that is unless you have a foot fetish.
It has nothing to do with a foot fetish. I just think that complete nudity is more intimate. How would you feel if the girl left her bra on?
Bull
May 5th, 2016, 09:59 AM
Again, unless you have a foot fetish what's the problem? I am not into feet but an sure into tits, massaging, burying my face in them, sucking on them: Yeah that is good. Socks and bras=apples and oranges.
Body odah Man
May 5th, 2016, 10:47 AM
I agree with Billy, it's a really small thing. I'd just let it go if I were you
okonite
May 5th, 2016, 10:49 AM
I was really looking for opinions from other girls but thanks anyway guys
Vermilion
May 5th, 2016, 11:11 AM
Not a girl but it wouldn't bother me if a bf kept his on.
angela1540
May 5th, 2016, 12:09 PM
I've heard that some guys have a sock fetish. My bf doesn't thank god.
okonite
May 5th, 2016, 12:31 PM
Thanks for the responses so far...
Could someone please answer the questions I mentioned?
1) Does your boyfriend leave his socks on during sex?
2) If yes, how often?
3) Do you have a problem with this?
4) Do you ever leave your socks on?
I will add a fifth since some boys seem to be answering...
5) If your a guy do you keep your socks on and if so what is the reason?
ethan-s
May 5th, 2016, 01:57 PM
I'm sorry, but I simply cannot go without socks. I don't plan on taking them off when it goes down. Why does it hurt anything?
gothy
May 5th, 2016, 04:01 PM
i take off one sock to compromise. hahaha kidding no socks for me
Cooper_2001
May 5th, 2016, 04:07 PM
It has nothing to do with a foot fetish. I just think that complete nudity is more intimate. How would you feel if the girl left her bra on?
A bra is not even close to socks..
RJH98
May 5th, 2016, 04:20 PM
Although I don't do it myself, I don't see a problem with keeping your socks on
everlong
May 5th, 2016, 06:14 PM
I see why you'd prefer no socks. I'd agree, though I've never had sex, I'd assume it'd be better that way. Have you ever asked why he leaves them on?
SethfromMI
May 5th, 2016, 09:49 PM
It has nothing to do with a foot fetish. I just think that complete nudity is more intimate. How would you feel if the girl left her bra on?
there is a huge difference between tits and feet. you saying what if I kept my bra on would be like if he kept his shirt on.
PinkFloyd
May 5th, 2016, 11:38 PM
It doesn't sound like a big deal to me, but I wouldn't be able to have sex wearing socks. I really can't even lay in bed wearing socks; it's much more comfortable to not wear them for me.
Tesserax
May 6th, 2016, 05:29 AM
It has nothing to do with a foot fetish. I just think that complete nudity is more intimate. How would you feel if the girl left her bra on?
It's going to sound weird, but I kind of have a sock fetish. It's cute to be honest. Bras are different, they're covering an actual sexual and private part, where the foot is not an organ that is part of or related to the reproductive system. But I respect your preference, everybody is different and clearly you simply don't like socks on. I personally like socks on, but I really couldn't care less as I kind of just like feet in general. God this sounds weird lol.
StoppingTom
May 6th, 2016, 06:19 AM
Wearing socks keeps precious body heat in!
I mean, I understand why it would bother you, so you should at least talk to him about it and get his perspective.
HOWEVER. You're not really seeing his feet, I imagine, so it's not the end of the world.
okonite
May 6th, 2016, 10:01 AM
Wearing socks keeps precious body heat in!
I mean, I understand why it would bother you, so you should at least talk to him about it and get his perspective.
HOWEVER. You're not really seeing his feet, I imagine, so it's not the end of the world.
To me it's all about the skin on skin contact. If I brush up against his feet for some reason I want to feel skin, not smelly socks that have been in shoes all day. If you're doing it right, you shouldn't have to worry about lack of warmth :)
For all the boys that don't think it's a big deal, have you ever stopped and looked at yourself in the mirror? A naked boy in just his socks looks absolutely ridiculous. Especially if they aren't white ankle socks.
I can understand why some guys would find a cute pair of ankle socks or knee socks sexy on a girl because of the whole school girl thing, but when my ankles are resting on your shoulders, I'm sure you would rather be feeling skin and not fabric.
Cadanance00
May 6th, 2016, 10:32 AM
I never thought about having sox on during sex.
I've done it with my shoes on and just my pants down but that's cuz we were outside and if we needed to unhook fast. And once with a girl who said she preferred doing it with only her running shoes on cuz it made her feel more naughty but I don't think it's really a fetish.
Swiftie.13
May 7th, 2016, 12:49 AM
I would leave my socks on tbh, I can't stand feet they gross me out
Moriya
May 7th, 2016, 01:27 AM
Maybe he hates having cold feet.
Bluebyrd
May 7th, 2016, 08:03 AM
Having socks on is gross yet your idea is to have them off? LMAO
okonite
May 10th, 2016, 10:28 AM
I can honestly say that I am shocked by the amount of people on here that have no problem with leaving your socks on while doing the dirty.
Funny enough, when you read some of the threads on here about masturbation habits, almost everyone reports that they get completely naked if they are able. Makes me wonder if they are even counting socks at that point.
I guess to each there own.
ethan-s
May 10th, 2016, 09:39 PM
Hehe, I don't get naked. That's just weird.
Supermeggs12
May 15th, 2016, 09:11 PM
Does that matter?
Typhlosion
May 15th, 2016, 10:08 PM
I also thought it to be weird, but am guilty of this act :P
Talk to him why and about a compromise. It shouldn't be bad.
1) Does your boyfriend leave his socks on during sex? Once, my gf twice
3) Do you have a problem with this? It sounds weirder in theory than in practice. In the moment, I'm thinking about other things...
Uniquemind
May 16th, 2016, 02:00 AM
Doesn't matter to me, the main issue is the socks and feet must not be smelly.
If the feet and socks are washed and he soaks his feet in vinegar it gets rid of the odor.
Socks are more common between us in winter, a lot less common in summer.
Zachary G
May 16th, 2016, 07:44 AM
1) Does your boyfriend leave his socks on during sex? sometimes
2) If yes, how often? maybe 1/2 the time
3) Do you have a problem with this? no
4) Do you ever leave your socks on? sometimes
5) If your a guy do you keep your socks on and if so what is the reason? sometimes do because my feet might be cold or we might be short on time or something.
*some guys could do it because they are foot shy -- they may think they have funny looking feet or something
presh jasper
May 16th, 2016, 02:22 PM
Well am a guy so sometimes i do leave my socks on...... It maybe dat d guy doesn't want to leave DNA prints maybe ... Pls ask him why he does dat ,questions open locked door to good and satisfying answers
ashdyn
May 17th, 2016, 03:13 PM
Just tell him to take them off...or take them off for him lol
I like can't have sex with socks on lmao I can't sleep with socks on either so maybe that has something to do with it. He must have some stank feet if you notice the socks during sex lololol
Kyle37
May 19th, 2016, 12:40 PM
I don't consider myself naked unless I take off socks or shoes if I'm wearing them. I agree that its more intimate if your boyfriend would take off his socks. If i'm with a girl during sex I would expect her to take her socks and shoes off. Would totally be a turn off and kind of rude.
TotalDbag
May 22nd, 2016, 04:54 AM
I can't answer your question, but I can add another perspective. I can't not wear socks. My hands and feet both have really rough skin and they don't hold moisture well. The socks act as a barrier between my feet and the air, allowing them to hold on to their moisture more effectively and to keep them from drying up to the point where it's extremely irritating. Hell, I pretty much wear my shoes all day. I can sleep with them no problem if I wanted to.
Drew Alex
May 22nd, 2016, 03:00 PM
A bra is not even close to socks..
Exactly, dude.
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