help with girls

[Mippie]

Hi i am a freshman in high school who has never kissed any one or ever had a gf Right now there is this girl that I have a crush on. Whenever i see her in the hallways of school she says hi to me and we flirt a little when we talk but i dont really know if she likes me back so could you please answer a few of my questions.

1 does she like and what tells you that she like me
2 How do I ask a girl out

Thank you in advance
-Mippie

[Tesserax]

First things first, does she *ENJOY* talking to you?

Look carefully at the way she acts when you two talk. Texting and messaging online can make it easier to tell. Generally if girls give larger paragraphs they're probably interested, for example, this conversation between me and a lady friend I'm planning on asking out soon:

Me: And I didn't know you played the Violin, do you play in an Orchestra?

Her: yeah i play violin. I used to play in the orchestra...like last year but i'm not doing that this year cause i have stuff on. I'm mainly playing the violin forr fun this year

Me: Ah yes, I understand that. Personally I find band both fun and relaxing, the only reason why I'm staying on, though we do have to work hard

Her: that's good for you. The other thing is my violin teacher i had for many years left last year. She was running the orchestra and she made it fun. The person who runs it now is a lot more serious

As you can see, Her responses are of decent length, and are similar in length to mine. This does not necessarily shows that she likes you, but at least that she is interested in you (as a person) and considers you at the least a friend and somebody she likes to talk to.

Next you might want to flirt a bit more obviously and see how she reacts. Tell her directly that you like the way she did her hair that day, or find a way to tell her that she's pretty (without making it seem like you just ogle her), for example, she'll say something about how she can't get a date, or how she had a bad day because people called her ugly or something, and so you deny her statement and tell her. Observe her reaction and try to work it out from there.

Another good sign is if she smiles at you happily when you walk past each other to class, and bonus points if she waves. Waving especially shows that she is filled with energy when she sees you walk by, and you can infer that she is happy when you're nearby.

Don't look into it too much though, you might end up doing what I did and see attraction where there is none. Sometimes you'll automatically try to exaggerate her actions in your mind, so be careful of that.

As to how to ask her out, just ask her to hang out or go do something. Ask her if she's free and wants to go see a movie on the weekend, perhaps you might ask her if you could go over to hers and study together. Maybe you might find something you both share as an interest and do it together on the weekend, like drawing or something.

If you have any questions just ask me, I'll gladly answer