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Hundred Spirited God
February 14th, 2014, 11:53 AM
I had a girlfriend about a month ago,well shes not my girlfriend anymore,but our relationship didn't work out so she went to her old boyfriend,and she told me I looked cute but it turns out she lied to me and played with me the whole time ive been with her,so i think she was just saying that to make me feel better,so whenever someone says i look handsome or cute,i think they just say it to make me feel better

Miserabilia
February 14th, 2014, 02:13 PM
Not sure what you mean, but I know the feeling of low self esteem... Once you get there, it's hard to get out but that's what the internet's for *rainbows*

mouse23
February 17th, 2014, 07:34 AM
just cuz she lied to u doesn't mean evryone wud do!
dont give up on urself, just cuz she messd u around!!:no:
:eatarrow:

Hundred Spirited God
February 20th, 2014, 07:22 PM
i wish it was that easy,and this was my first time being in love :(

Karkat
February 20th, 2014, 07:32 PM
I'm sorry you had to go through that.

I always feel like people are trying to make me feel better when they compliment me. Especially when they say that I'm "helpful", or "good" at something, or "a great friend".

I just feel like everyone knows I'm depressed and have low self-esteem and they're just trying to fix it. It's a noble effort, but I can't help but feel a little lied to.

Ironically most people don't lie about things like that, because most people don't have a reason to, or would rather be truthful. Self-esteem is kind of a rocky journey, but I'm right in there with you. Best of luck.

Hundred Spirited God
February 20th, 2014, 07:46 PM
its okay,and i know what you mean,i ask my sister how she is most of the time and i can feel that shes lying ,and thank you

Karkat
February 20th, 2014, 07:48 PM
its okay,and i know what you mean,i ask my sister how she is most of the time and i can feel that shes lying ,and thank you

No problem. Yeah, it happens sometimes.