Constantly Friendzoned

[ValentinClarke]

I'm constantly friendzoned and I cannot get a gf/bf. Help?!

[JacobIN]

You may not actually be friend zoned, unless of course they say, "Sorry were just friends" Some people just act differently.

[Synyster Shadows]

You may not actually be friend zoned, unless of course they say, "Sorry were just friends" Some people just act differently.

^this. And also, not everyone will like you that way. Stop thinking they will. I sound harsh, but I don't mean to be rude. That's just the truth. Some people will like you that way and some won't. You'll get a girlfriend/boyfriend eventually. Just relax. You don't have to be in a relationship. You should be in a relationship when you feel ready and have found the right person.

[Eurasian guy]

Stop being so damn nice to them. They'll always see you as an older/younger brother if you keep doing it. I used to get friend zoned so much, by every girl i liked. So then i started acting a little bit as a jerk, not too much cause they hate that. But just like a little name calling, and being a little mean to them when you see them, but as long as they know you aren't being serious it's funny and they like that =P.

[Body odah Man]

I'm constantly friendzoned and I cannot get a gf/bf. Help?!

Better than being BROzoned. I hope u manage to get advice tho-I know how much it sux

[Saint of Sinners]

Stop being so damn nice to them. They'll always see you as an older/younger brother if you keep doing it. I used to get friend zoned so much, by every girl i liked. So then i started acting a little bit as a jerk, not too much cause they hate that. But just like a little name calling, and being a little mean to them when you see them, but as long as they know you aren't being serious it's funny and they like that =P.

I mostly agree with this, but let me clarify a little.

Actually girls like nice guys. They don't, however, like pathetic guys. You can be nice if you want, just don't be a pushover. Remember, doormats will always be stepped on.

[Eurasian guy]

I mostly agree with this, but let me clarify a little.

Actually girls like nice guys. They don't, however, like pathetic guys. You can be nice if you want, just don't be a pushover. Remember, doormats will always be stepped on.

Yep, exactly.

It's not even that complicated.

Girls want to go out with a nice guy. But they still want to go out with someone who isn't push over and can keep them excited. Someone who can protect them if needed but really they want a man, not a boy.

[Harley Quinn]

Dudes, let me make this 100% clear; THE FRIEND ZONE DOES NOT EXIST. You all have this idea in your head that oh she doesn't want to date me, therefore I am friend-zoned. The simply fact is, it doesn't exist. You all use it as an excuse to ignore the fact that there are actual reasons behind a decision to not pursue a relationship or have sex with you or anyone in general for that matter. You know, like not being physically attracted to you/them. Or not being able to connect with you/them. Or maybe it's because they see through your shit and realise that the only reason you guys are even friends with them in the first place is so you can get laid. Honestly. Is it really that unbearable to be friends with a person?

http://yourfriendshouse.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/sex2.jpg

[Plane And Simple]

Agree with Siobhan. Friend zone as you call it are actual reasons.

[KiyoshisIsland]

You should at least try, unless they reject you, you might not be friendzoned

[MoonMan]

Dudes, let me make this 100% clear; THE FRIEND ZONE DOES NOT EXIST. You all have this idea in your head that oh she doesn't want to date me, therefore I am friend-zoned. The simply fact is, it doesn't exist. You all use it as an excuse to ignore the fact that there are actual reasons behind a decision to not pursue a relationship or have sex with you or anyone in general for that matter. You know, like not being physically attracted to you/them. Or not being able to connect with you/them. Or maybe it's because they see through your shit and realise that the only reason you guys are even friends with them in the first place is so you can get laid. Honestly. Is it really that unbearable to be friends with a person?

image (http://yourfriendshouse.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/sex2.jpg)
What a passive aggressive comment. Not to mention you literally just defined the friendzone, and it doesn't just happen to guys. Friendzone is just a label for a situation, not an excuse or a valid reason for that situation, all it means is that the person you are romantically interested in doesn't reciprocate your feelings beyond friendship. Like how "dating" means you are currently in a relationship without necessarily stating why. We don't have to call it that if you don't want to, but the situation exists. Also it's not unbearable to be friends with a person, but it does hurt when someone you like doesn't like you back in the same way. It's a basic human reaction, and it's no one's fault because you can't control who you like. And the "getting laid" part was completely unnecessary, maybe the guy wanted an actual romantic relationship with them instead of a few shags here and there. How do people usually get into a relationships? By building a friendship and establishing a bond to build on. Maybe he did only want to fuck them and, in that case, he would be an idiot who deserves the romantic troubles. But until we know for sure it's unfair to make bullshit generalizations like that just like it's unfair to blame being friendzoned for all of your problems. That image also doesn't fit here quite right since he's obviously bisexual by the "gf/bf" part so it's not just females he's looking to "have sex with."

[Snydergate]

You are not alone, I have been friendzoned by every girl I know....I hate it

[Lune]

Maybe you should try to find out why you are friendzoned ?

Sometimes it's for the reasons Harley Quinn said, "like not being physically attracted to you/them. Or not being able to connect with you/them.", sometimes because you didn't show your crush that you liked him/her, or you didn't do it quickly enough. (there are probably other reasons but I don't have them in mind)

Sorry for my english!

[Dwemer]

I have the same problem of getting friendzones and Its probebly like people say cause I am to nice to them. Its very hard to find the right balance.

[DarkHorse4eva]

you might not have found a girl there see you the way you want them to yet, but it will happen, don't worry