Why are girls so weird?

[Thijs]

I'm not sure if I'm being pathatic but it's just the way I feel and I wanna share.

A girl I talked to a lot when I had a girlfriend, told me when I broke up with my girlfriend she felt awkward and didn't want to talk to me again. So we didn't talk for quite a while.
And since today she just keeps liking my pictures on instagram and all different things. I reached out to some friends and they think she is using the tactic to get my attention. I think it's weird to be honest but I'd really like your guys opinions.

[Zbmrnb16]

If anyone's confusing you that much, the best thing you can do is to just stop caring about them.

[Xiao.Z]

Maybe she like you. Ask?

[Uniquemind]

She wants a shot, but wanted time to pass so she wouldn't be a rebound girl.

That and then girl politics.

[Cadanance00]

Girls are from another planet. Didn't you know that.

[ClaraWho]

Girls are from another planet. Didn't you know that.

So are boys clearly, you sound like you're speaking out Uranus.

I'm joking xD. Please take that in the good humour it was meant. Just talk to her if you like her, ya know, communicate? There's no great unknown secret, or a code, or weird expressive dance moves - just talk.

~ Clara

[Uniquemind]

So are boys clearly, you sound like you're speak out Uranus.

I'm joking xD. Please take that in the good humour it was meant. Just talk to her if you like her, ya know, communicate? There's no great unknown secret, or a code, or weird expressive dance moves - just talk.

~ Clara

The genders aren't so different from each other.

The best subset of people that I think figure people out and play them and predict them well are salesmen and con-artists.

[kev1998]

Sounds like she is wanting to try being friends again. Very subtle tactic. Start liking her posts as well. That can be your way to let her know you are accepting of her friendship again.

[Cadanance00]

So are boys clearly, you sound like you're speak out Uranus.

I'm joking xD. Please take that in the good humour it was meant. Just talk to her if you like her, ya know, communicate? There's no great unknown secret, or a code, or weird expressive dance moves - just talk.

~ Clara

LOL no offense taken. I always though Uranus was an unfortunate name as I've always been fascinated by the gas giants. (Somehow appropriate to Uranus. Hoo hoo hoo ha ha ha ha!)

[Body odah Man]

She wants a shot, but wanted time to pass so she wouldn't be a rebound girl.

That and then girl politics.

Is that seriously a thing?

[Uniquemind]

Is that seriously a thing?

For some people yes. It just depends on reputation, and where on is placed socially in regards to others.

Of course you have your differences in personality with variances in boldness and shyness, but it's often you can find a situation where someone is holding back or is cautious with a relation be it friendship or romance because person A knows that making a move, might cause strain on another of their relationships with someone else.

It's like that awkward thing where your friend or enemy likes someone who likes you, and you like that person too, but if your the aggressor in making the first move, you run the risk of being a "bad friend" or a "man stealer".

Not sure if guys have the problem of being a "girlfriend stealer" image, guys I think it's almost a + for them, because society still carries a tone of macho bravado, when it comes to obtaining a girlfriend. That combined with the fact that guys are still expected to just deal with grief of breakups etc. but girls have more of that support structure in emotional moments.


Let me also add that having that support structure is very important to a girl, and if she calculates or thinks, pursuing a personal interest might in turn get the majority of her social network to think badly of her, she'll be slow or subtle and cautious.

This isn't a rule for all girls, but it's definitely a variable guys skip over when evaluating the tension of communicating with a girl with the intention to begin a romance in the context of "hot-n-cold" flirting that could lead to something.

[Meron]

"Women, are aliens, man. Aliens!"
- Forth Right MC

Yet they're sweet and no one can live without them. Love the way how this world goes.

[Derek951]

Don't know our situation as far as details, but chances are she does like you or has a crush on you. Some girls are either shy are very worried they'll be seen as being too eager. I'd say talk to her, since she sounds like she wants to get your attention.

[Body odah Man]

For some people yes. It just depends on reputation, and where on is placed socially in regards to others.

Of course you have your differences in personality with variances in boldness and shyness, but it's often you can find a situation where someone is holding back or is cautious with a relation be it friendship or romance because person A knows that making a move, might cause strain on another of their relationships with someone else.

It's like that awkward thing where your friend or enemy likes someone who likes you, and you like that person too, but if your the aggressor in making the first move, you run the risk of being a "bad friend" or a "man stealer".

Not sure if guys have the problem of being a "girlfriend stealer" image, guys I think it's almost a + for them, because society still carries a tone of macho bravado, when it comes to obtaining a girlfriend. That combined with the fact that guys are still expected to just deal with grief of breakups etc. but girls have more of that support structure in emotional moments.


Let me also add that having that support structure is very important to a girl, and if she calculates or thinks, pursuing a personal interest might in turn get the majority of her social network to think badly of her, she'll be slow or subtle and cautious.

This isn't a rule for all girls, but it's definitely a variable guys skip over when evaluating the tension of communicating with a girl with the intention to begin a romance in the context of "hot-n-cold" flirting that could lead to something.

Thanks for the info. That is very complex and devious and hard to get.