dilemma....

[Londongirl01]

I have a part-time job that I do at a pet food store (fun huh) and there is a guy that also works there that keeps buying me gifts and I don't know how to react to it.... the gifts are only tiny things and not worth anything... like a string bracelet or a bar of chocolate- sweet stuff really. He doesn't do it for any other girl there.
So my question is... is he probably doing this because he he fancies me? I don't want to presume he does as that might make me sound arrogant but I don't want to keep accepting his gifts b/c Im not interested in being with him....

[Cadanance00]

I think you're right in thinking he fancies you, and it's really not appropriated for him to be buying you gifts. There's really no option but to be blunt with him that you're not interested in dating him and thank you for the gifts but you must stop accepting them as you're uncomfortable about it.

It's really not fair of him to put you in that position, sort of making you responsible for his feelings, so you really shouldn't feel like you owe him anything.

[Zbmrnb16]

Just let him know that you're not interested, but if he's getting you all this stuff, then I'd at least spend some time with him to pay him back.

[SethfromMI]

I have a part-time job that I do at a pet food store (fun huh) and there is a guy that also works there that keeps buying me gifts and I don't know how to react to it.... the gifts are only tiny things and not worth anything... like a string bracelet or a bar of chocolate- sweet stuff really. He doesn't do it for any other girl there.
So my question is... is he probably doing this because he he fancies me? I don't want to presume he does as that might make me sound arrogant but I don't want to keep accepting his gifts b/c Im not interested in being with him....

yea he likes you. gently, but honestly say while you appreciate what he has done, you are not interested in him and he should stop buying you those things. simple, gentle, and honest.

[Xiao.Z]

I think he like you but if not interest not accept gift. Not lead him believe chance of relationship.

[Doro15]

I think he like to you and hopes that you will eventually go out with him. Tell him that you feel honored but you do not reciprocate these gifts because you have a boyfriend.