Talking to my brother about this?

[Just a Guy]

I always thought my brother was uncomfortable with tlaking about jerking off but recently he's been mentioning it a lot and making jokes about it around me, should I talk to him about it or is he just being annoying and making jokes?

[Vermilion]

He's probably being annoying and probably wants to talk to

[eagle18]

I always thought my brother was uncomfortable with tlaking about jerking off but recently he's been mentioning it a lot and making jokes about it around me, should I talk to him about it or is he just being annoying and making jokes?

sometimes when I joke about something like that or bring it up, I want to talk about it. is he younger or older? if hes younger he may want to talk about it or ask you questions, but doesn't know how to approach you directly. If he jokes about it again, just say hey u bring it up a lot lately, do you have any questions or want to know anything about it?

[ska8er]

He wants to talk but is going at it at a
round about way by joking cause he
doesn't know how u r going to take it.
Hes testing u-joke with him a bit and
then open up to him-ask him if he has
anything to talk about.

[hairy balls]

hay just give him time and take it gently

[Liven]

I always thought my brother was uncomfortable with tlaking about jerking off but recently he's been mentioning it a lot and making jokes about it around me, should I talk to him about it or is he just being annoying and making jokes?



He sounds like what I used to do - joke about sex and stuff. It's just a phase that some people go through. He will grow out of it eventually.

[Cadanance00]

I think you should talk to him frankly about it. My brother did that with me and I'm grateful for it (one of the few things he did for me out of the goodness of his heart).

[Kevgpdx]

Yeah, I agree with everyone else. He is making jokes because he wants to talk about it. I say don't push it, but be available and be a good bro if he brings stuff up.

[Hermes]

I think it is his way of announcing that he has "joined the club", i.e. reached the point in puberty where jerking off and sex become interesting things. I'd joke back with him to show you are "in the club" too and when that seem comfortable you can always make an offer that if he has any questions to ask.

[Bluebyrd]

If it's something new then I think he definitely wants to talk about it but I recommend not forcing it and letting it come up naturally.

[Just a Guy]

Thanks guys, any advice on how I should talk to him and make him feel comfortable/let him know he can ask me anything and talk to me about it?

[kyd13]

It depends. He could just be joking because he's more comfortable with it. But he also might want to talk about it and this is his way of telling you. It just depends on the situation I guess

[zaccary]

Just do whats most comftorable! If i were you id prob talk about it

[Just a Guy]

Just do whats most comftorable! If i were you id prob talk about it

How should I start the conversation though?

[SethfromMI]

He wants to talk but is going at it at a
round about way by joking cause he
doesn't know how u r going to take it.
Hes testing u-joke with him a bit and
then open up to him-ask him if he has
anything to talk about.

I would say this is very accurate. if you don't react positively, he can just say he was joking. if you are willing to talk about it, well there you go. I guess it is possible he is just joking about it to joke about it, so next time he does, respond and see where the convo goes

[Zbmrnb16]

Next time he does something like that, just start a real conversation about it with him.

[zaccary]

How should I start the conversation though?

Id say do some jokes too, maybe refrence you masturbating, and then just ask him. the worst thing that could happen is that you move on to another subject.

[ska8er]

I would say this is very accurate. if you don't react positively, he can just say he was joking. if you are willing to talk about it, well there you go. I guess it is possible he is just joking about it to joke about it, so next time he does, respond and see where the convo goes

I agree-Thanks for the comment-Seth.

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[presh jasper]

I think you should just call it to his attention and open up , ask him if his ready to talk about it and if he is listen i mean really listen nd you 2 go ahead and have fun Goodluck

[Canadian Dream]

I think as guys start to get through puberty and talk to their friends about it they become more comfortable talking about that stuff. So yeah it's just a regular phase of puberty that's happening with your brother

[kev1998]

Sounds like he may want to talk about it.

[Just a Guy]

Update: he was laughing at memes (Bc we are garbage lol) anyways he showed me this one about jacking off and he said "this is me way too often" ??? I feel like he's joking but trying to let me know that he does do it as well. Any thoughts?

[theyear3000]

Only if you feel comfortable!

[Coolteenboy]

He wants to talk but is going at it at a
round about way by joking cause he
doesn't know how u r going to take it.
Hes testing u-joke with him a bit and
then open up to him-ask him if he has
anything to talk about.

Totally agree with this!!

[Coolteenboy]

Kinda joke back with him, as in something like "awwww...... My bro found out what its for......"
Give him an example of something (truthfully and actual) u experienced, and show ure available and willing to talk without embarrassment.

[Coolteenboy]

Update: he was laughing at memes (Bc we are garbage lol) anyways he showed me this one about jacking off and he said "this is me way too often" ??? I feel like he's joking but trying to let me know that he does do it as well. Any thoughts?

No offense duxe, but DUH!!!!!
He is REACHING OUT to you to open up!
Expose ureself a bit, and Say something like "well, imma once a day guy (when i get home) (when i get to bed) bro. U??"

[BoyOBoy]

just talk to him

[ItsFootballnotSoccer]

I wouldn't know, my brother and I never even mention sex. If you're comfortable go along with, maybe he's just having some harmless fun

[Perc.man_1]

He might want to talk about it. Just bring it up when he makes a joke or something

[NewLeafsFan]

I don't think that he would be trying to be annoying unless these conversation topics make you uncomfortable and he knows it. As far as what you can say, I think that if he brings it up you can tell him whatever you are comfortable saying. Although I don't recommend over sharing.

[Atlantis]

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