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thatcountrykid
April 25th, 2016, 11:34 PM
Ok sot the girl I asked out about a week ago has been working on the same shifts as me the past few days and even after she said she wasn't interested we have been talking a lot more than we did even before i asked her. Part of me hopes she just said no for another reason than not liking me back. Do you guys think I should try to get her to hangout for something just as friends maybe like a baseball game or something and be extremely clear its just as friends
Microcosm
April 25th, 2016, 11:45 PM
thatcountrykid,

I think it's worth a shot to just try and develop a friendship with her outside of work and such like you said. If you have mutual friends with her, you could all hang out as a group so that it doesn't seem so much like a date to her.
Cadanance00
April 26th, 2016, 07:25 AM
thatcountrykid,

I think it's worth a shot to just try and develop a friendship with her outside of work and such like you said. If you have mutual friends with her, you could all hang out as a group so that it doesn't seem so much like a date to her.

Yeah. Just let a friendship develop. Nothing to lose, right?
Zbmrnb16
April 26th, 2016, 05:14 PM
I doubt anything would change after a week, but if you want to build some sort of friendship, then go for it.
Uniquemind
April 27th, 2016, 05:55 AM
No because I sense you still like her.

She's friendlier with you because she is beginning to feel that perhaps the crush is filling or is burnt out for her so she begins to relax and be more at ease with you.

You are projecting your wish and desire for that friendliness to mean willingness for another shot.
Vermilion
April 27th, 2016, 06:35 AM
As a friend I see no problem handing out with her.
thatcountrykid
April 27th, 2016, 03:37 PM
No because I sense you still like her.

She's friendlier with you because she is beginning to feel that perhaps the crush is filling or is burnt out for her so she begins to relax and be more at ease with you.

You are projecting your wish and desire for that friendliness to mean willingness for another shot.

Yeah I do still kinda like her but I'd much rather just stay a friend than have her move away and us never talk again
Xiao.Z
April 28th, 2016, 09:36 AM
Friend good but friend not develop to relationship intimate. Good luck for you.