Shy in a new relationship

[Cyclin]

Hi all,

I've started dating a girl and we've met only 2 times so far but we chatted a lot and almost know everything about each other. I am too careful about my words to her. I asked her if I can kiss her next time in a joking way, and she said yes. She never said any sexual or attractive comment to me which make me wondering. I always try but kinda afraid to say too much that she think I only want sex. I am going to see her soon in her house and I wonder what should I do ? I want to be physically close to her and I am not sure about her. Any advice please

[Microcosm]

Cyclin,

If you want to keep her, chances are that you're going to have to be more confident in yourself. Girls like confident guys who make them feel confident.

I have made this mistake before: Asking a girl before kissing her. Looking back on it I probably looked so fucking lame. It was back in like 8th grade. At the time I didn't realize it, but now I do. If you're going to kiss her, just do it. Make it spontaneous and out of nowhere. She's even given you permission now.

Take her out on dates and appreciate her. Sex isn't everything. A good girlfriend is really something to hold on to, man. Try to make every move count.

[Zbmrnb16]

As someone who used to always have that issue, the best thing you could possibly do is to stop putting as much thought into your words, and say whatever you really feel. It might be awkward at times, and you might slip up on occasion, but the more comfortable you are with talking to her, the better you two will get along.

[StoppingTom]

First off, you need to be confident in yourself, because confidence is attractive. Second, and this is advice I got from a friend, is that you're dating this person now. You don't have to be afraid or nervous, because you two are already dating. Don't be afraid to be spontaneous, as long as you use your common sense and know what she's comfortable with.

[Xiao.Z]

Why not make try. Possible she want relationship. Find out. Good luck

[Dark_Desires]

I had a similar situation and i know the best bits of advice could have had
was be confident in yourself but most importantly communication is key.
If you feel like its the right thing to do then ask to kiss her there is nothing wrong with it at all but try to be confident, Easier said than done i know.

[Emerald Dream]

OP banned. :locked: