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Cadanance00

April 24th, 2016, 05:23 PM

I really do. She's 29 months younger than me. She's called me Ca'en since we were little. When she's mad at me I'm unhappy until we make up. I'd rather hang with her than any one of my friends. She likes me to brush her hair out after she washes it and I don't mind doing it for her although I'm afraid of hurting her when I pull on the tangles. She just comes in my room and sits down and hands me the hairbrush.

My friends think I'm weird - except the ones that want me to get them a date with her. Am I weird?

Jinglebottom

April 24th, 2016, 05:34 PM

Cadanance00

April 24th, 2016, 05:46 PM

Oh wow. My sister and I emotionally abuse each other all the time. I call her my "sharmouta" (skank) and she calls me her "khara kleb" (dog shit). I've honestly never met a pair of siblings that were that close to each other, especially opposite-sex siblings. The majority of those I've met would just ignore each other in favor of their friends, each actively seeking to avoid their "annoying and embarrassing" brother/sister. It's just unusual to me.

Me and my older brother are like that. He's always been condescending to me. My friends say they fight with their sisters like cats and dogs. I guess it's the way she is. She would cry if I called her a name.

Cadanance00

April 24th, 2016, 06:48 PM

Well, I guess you see her more as a friend than a regular sister.. I guess. Brushing her hair tho, lmfao.

Don't know if I'd call it weird, but it ain't to common.

She used to ask me to do it. Now she just assumes. My mom's got the same dark brown long hair and my dad brushes out her tangles. I'm sure that's where she got the idea. Anyway, I don't mind unless I want to be doing something else.

everlong

April 24th, 2016, 07:20 PM

As long as you don't love her romantically

Cadanance00

April 24th, 2016, 11:56 PM

That's debatable. Let's try not to open up another can of worms, ya know for the OP's sake.

I don't have sex with my sister if that's what you mean, nor am I going to. Altho I do think about sometimes what it would be like, like if I were her bf..

But I wish I could find a girl like her for a gf.

That's why I wonder if I'm weird, cuz I don't hear anybody else say that.

Xiao.Z

April 25th, 2016, 12:23 AM

I not believe topic awkward he so sweet to young sister. I can imagine how pleasant a life with this kindness can be. I find jealous I can not have such sibling.

Leprous

April 25th, 2016, 12:29 AM

You know, aslong as it doesn't get out of hand here I don't see a huge problem. However, don't try to let this grow into real romantic love. To me it just seems like you guys get along really well and there is no problem in that, and it's not weird.
vBulletinboards I don't see what's wrong with brushing her hair, they just get along really well.

ClaraWho

April 25th, 2016, 04:25 AM

As long as you don't love her romantically

Why?

I don't have sex with my sister if that's what you mean, nor am I going to. Altho I do think about sometimes what it would be like, like if I were her bf..

But I wish I could find a girl like her for a gf.

That's why I wonder if I'm weird, cuz I don't hear anybody else say that.

There are a lot of things people, especially guys, don't outwardly confess. Look at the whole comedic gangster jokes where they love their mum's and have the tatoos. In this vein some guys or girls hope to find a partner that reflects a lot of the qualities of that gender parent, which seems odd due to my perspective.

Not that there is anything actually wrong with a romantic sibling relationship if both above at least 16. But to me it just sounds like you admire her and she's the closest person in your life, it sounds like a lovely bond and I know only 1 set of siblings close like that. Anyone calling it 'awkward' or 'weird' should be jealous of not having that in their life.

~ Clara

Cadanance00

April 25th, 2016, 09:06 AM

Not that there is anything actually wrong with a romantic sibling relationship if both above at least 16. But to me it just sounds like you admire her and she's the closest person in your life, it sounds like a lovely bond and I know only 1 set of siblings close like that. Anyone calling it 'awkward' or 'weird' should be jealous of not having that in their life.

~ Clara

It's good to be understood, I think. I don't see us havin a romantic relationship after we're both 16. I'm not interested in that. She's having her life and I'm having mine. We did experiment when we were younger. It didn't lead to penetration but we satisfied our curiosity about each other. Now I can go to her ant tell her how I fucked things up and she won't be judgmental even if she does lecture me.

I can see it in her eyes when I say or do something stupid that hurts her so i've learned to be a little more careful.

ClaraWho

April 25th, 2016, 02:36 PM

It's good to be understood, I think. I don't see us havin a romantic relationship after we're both 16. I'm not interested in that. She's having her life and I'm having mine. We did experiment when we were younger. It didn't lead to penetration but we satisfied our curiosity about each other. Now I can go to her ant tell her how I fucked things up and she won't be judgmental even if she does lecture me.

I can see it in her eyes when I say or do something stupid that hurts her so i've learned to be a little more careful.

It sounds like a great bond to have, it's only 'abnormal' because other people usually clash/butt heads with their siblings, and can't understand how you two could just 'get on' for want of a better term. You're close, you're lucky, ignore what others think. That was the reason behind this post right? Reading too much into what others might say about your bond? Who cares.

It sounds like she makes you try to be a better person.

~ Clara

Porpoise101

April 25th, 2016, 03:00 PM

But I wish I could find a girl like her for a gf.
Me and my cousin (like a sister to me) have a similar relationship. And I've thought the same things. Personally I think it's good to have good relationships with your family. It may come back to bite you if you don't. My other siblings are ok also.

Cadanance00

April 25th, 2016, 03:08 PM

It sounds like a great bond to have, it's only 'abnormal' because other people usually clash/butt heads with their siblings, and can't understand how you two could just 'get on' for want of a better term. You're close, you're lucky, ignore what others think. That was the reason behind this post right? Reading too much into what others might say about your bond? Who cares.

It sounds like she makes you try to be a better person.

~ Clara

Yeah, she's my conscience and my anchor. In many ways she's more mature than I am. I check out what's normal with her. She says, 'Caen stop being so insecure'.

I but heads with my older brother. I think I have more of a common sibling rivalry relationship with him. He thinks if he comes down to my level he's somehow diminished. He doesn't miss a chance to fuck with me. No matter how much I've tried to look up to him he just blows me off.

It has it's ups and downs with her. Sometimes we sleep together and tell secrets and sometimes she's very private. More private about personal stuff in the last year, but she's getting older and more and more stuff is 'none of my business'. But she still wants to know everything I do and give me advice, which is okay since I probably need the advice.

Uniquemind

May 4th, 2016, 05:14 PM

I know a few sets of siblings that are close like this, but they also have their spats too.

I've found that siblings that have to depend on each other a lot, and might not have the best home life sometimes have that connection for survival purposes.

They kind of become each other's confidant, that a parent figure would fulfill but can't provide due to whatever reasons.

SethfromMI

May 4th, 2016, 08:17 PM

to be honest, after reading the title, I am relieved it is just brushing her hair

john_sartre

May 5th, 2016, 11:11 PM

I'm kinda close to my sister, although we're twins. I'm not sure if that matters or not.

Cadanance00

May 6th, 2016, 10:41 AM

I'm kinda close to my sister, although we're twins. I'm not sure if that matters or not.

I often wonder what it would be like if we were twins. I know a set of M/F twins and they fight like cats and dogs. I'm glad it's not the case with us.

Turns out she's just my half-sister. I only found out about that last year but I wonder if that has something to do with it since were not 100% siblings. We are very different. Maybe that helps.

Yeah, we do have spats but both of us feel bad until we sort things out. We used to sleep together a lot when we were kids and we hung together so much my mom called us the two musketeers. It's been a long time since she slept with me since she's gotten big but if I asked her to she would. Sometimes we get together and whisper secrets.

We've both thought about what it might be like if we had a sexual relationship but we both agree that it would be extremely messy and complicated and all around a bad idea. I don't want anything to change what we have now. I have the advantage of being intimate with a girl and not all the complications of a bf/gf thing. I know that seems a bit incoherent but that's the way it is.

TheFutureDoctor

May 7th, 2016, 09:14 AM

I often wonder what it would be like if we were twins. I know a set of M/F twins and they fight like cats and dogs. I'm glad it's not the case with us.

Turns out she's just my half-sister. I only found out about that last year but I wonder if that has something to do with it since were not 100% siblings. We are very different. Maybe that helps.

Yeah, we do have spats but both of us feel bad until we sort things out. We used to sleep together a lot when we were kids and we hung together so much my mom called us the two musketeers. It's been a long time since she slept with me since she's gotten big but if I asked her to she would. Sometimes we get together and whisper secrets.

We've both thought about what it might be like if we had a sexual relationship but we both agree that it would be extremely messy and complicated and all around a bad idea. I don't want anything to change what we have now. I have the advantage of being intimate with a girl and not all the complications of a bf/gf thing. I know that seems a bit incoherent but that's the way it is.

Woah man you're quite lucky. I have a smaller sis as well who's exactly (to the date) 1 and half yrs younger than me. We love each other in our hearts even though we quarrel quite a lot. But yeah if I shout at her, I feel guilty and go apologize. So overall we're like friends. But I don't share secrets with her and all that.

But I see nothing weird in you so don't mind. Just live your life well dude. I'm almost jealous of you! :)

Cadanance00

May 9th, 2016, 09:42 AM

Woah man you're quite lucky. I have a smaller sis as well who's exactly (to the date) 1 and half yrs younger than me. We love each other in our hearts even though we quarrel quite a lot. But yeah if I shout at her, I feel guilty and go apologize. So overall we're like friends. But I don't share secrets with her and all that.

But I see nothing weird in you so don't mind. Just live your life well dude. I'm almost jealous of you! :)

I think you should tell her you love her sometime and see the reaction you get. I think you'll like it.

TheFutureDoctor

May 9th, 2016, 09:19 PM

I think you should tell her you love her sometime and see the reaction you get. I think you'll like it.

Well dude I don't know, these things make me feel awkward. But we both know we love each other although we may not say it out loud. Like we quarrel like any normal bro/sis. We even sometimes swear not to talk to each other but 10 minutes later we forget it and make up.

Cadanance00

May 10th, 2016, 09:22 AM

Well dude I don't know, these things make me feel awkward. But we both know we love each other although we may not say it out loud. Like we quarrel like any normal bro/sis. We even sometimes swear not to talk to each other but 10 minutes later we forget it and make up.

So you say things out loud arguing but it's awkward to tell her you love her. I think you should try it. It's awkward and a little bit scary but it's worth it.

TheFutureDoctor

May 12th, 2016, 11:55 PM

Okay. Will do man Cadanance00

Cadanance00

May 13th, 2016, 09:56 AM

Okay. Will do man Cadanance00

When I first told my sister she was defensive but she thought about it and came back later and told she loved me too.

Just JT

May 13th, 2016, 11:06 AM

Cadanance00

May 14th, 2016, 09:13 AM

You guys have a very special relationship. I got no siblings, and I always wanted one, and have a super close relationship like that, it's a bond.
You also touch on a real taboo topic as well. I say taboo cause it's not "socially acceptable" in our culture. But, I think it is more common than we like to talk about to

So just be who you are and don't worry what evening else thinks or feels, so long as everyone involved is happy about it.

That's an issue. I'm sort of insecure and think a lot about whether I'm normal or not, like what other people are like to compare myself with. None of my friends get along with a sibling like I do, except one guy who hangs with his older brother a lot. Course nobody has a sister like mine. It doesn't help if somebody asks if I fucked my sister and they act like they don't beleive it when I say no.

ClaraWho

May 14th, 2016, 11:23 AM

That's an issue. I'm sort of insecure and think a lot about whether I'm normal or not, like what other people are like to compare myself with. None of my friends get along with a sibling like I do, except one guy who hangs with his older brother a lot. Course nobody has a sister like mine. It doesn't help if somebody asks if I fucked my sister and they act like they don't beleive it when I say no.

I know how myself posting here can skew the entire thread in the wrong direction, but hopefully people don't twist my responses.

In terms of somebody blindly believing you are having sex with your own sister, doesn't that say a lot more about their mindset than anything else?

I mean where does one have to be coming from to arrive at that conclusion?

This is when the mature response just says it all so much better. Just look at them with confusion and like they just said something incredibly stupid, shake your head in bewilderment and walk away. If they keep bringing it up, ask why they are so obsessed with fantasising about you both, and can they keep it to themselves.

When they grow up they'll regret not establishing this bond, and they'll realise there's nothing unpleasant about having true family. I know of a couple of siblings who are really close, instead of feeling insecure, own and be confident in how lucky you feel, how meaningful that bond is.

I'm rambling.

~ Clara

Cadanance00

May 14th, 2016, 04:08 PM

I know how myself posting here can skew the entire thread in the wrong direction, but hopefully people don't twist my responses.

In terms of somebody blindly believing you are having sex with your own sister, doesn't that say a lot more about their mindset than anything else?

I mean where does one have to be coming from to arrive at that conclusion?

This is when the mature response just says it all so much better. Just look at them with confusion and like they just said something incredibly stupid, shake your head in bewilderment and walk away. If they keep bringing it up, ask why they are so obsessed with fantasising about you both, and can they keep it to themselves.

When they grow up they'll regret not establishing this bond, and they'll realise there's nothing unpleasant about having true family. I know of a couple of siblings who are really close, instead of feeling insecure, own and be confident in how lucky you feel, how meaningful that bond is.

I'm rambling.

~ Clara

They're not obsessed. They're just immature and saying anything to get me going.

Jane Eyre

May 15th, 2016, 04:21 AM

wow... i wish i could have had a brother as protective and caring as you are... it's actually quite rare to see such understanding among siblings... you have got a truly amazing sister so just be happy... don't let your friends or anyone else define the way you should have this amazing relationship... yeah but do remember that no matter how close you be to her, you two are after all siblings.... be a friend and protector for her... don't go beyond that... it may seem logical to you but can mess up everything... I hope you don't get me wrong :-D

Cadanance00

May 15th, 2016, 02:41 PM

... you have got a truly amazing sister....

Yup. know that.

... don't go beyond that... it may seem logical to you but can mess up everything... I hope you don't get me wrong :-D

No. I don't get you wrong. We talk about everything so we talked about it and she said she'd thought about it too since I was "safe" but rejected the idea for obvious reasons.

Supermeggs12

May 15th, 2016, 04:49 PM

Aww, this is actually so sweet

Uniquemind

May 16th, 2016, 02:25 AM

I just want to add that the bond you two share, reminds me of the same dynamic that fraternal twins "sometimes" have.

Cadanance00

May 17th, 2016, 09:32 AM

I just want to add that the bond you two share, reminds me of the same dynamic that fraternal twins "sometimes" have.

"Sometimes" is right. I know a twin brother & sister my age and they can't even talk to each other without trading insults. Even weirder cuz they are the minister's kids.

I never thought about it before but it is like we're twins. We're different ages and we look different but we like the same music, doing the same things (swimming, biking, camping, art museums, reading) and we both like stepping outside the boundaries of convention, as mom calls it, and get in trouble over the same things. Only I'm insecure and she's very practical and self assured. Wish I had more of that.

Aside from her being able to wear (out) my jeans, though she has to roll the cuffs up, we don't look much alike. I'm a skinny dishwater blond (heavy on the dishwater) and she has lots of mom's luxurious chestnut brown hair and slightly bushy eyebrows that I love.