church?

[Xiao.Z]

Tomorrow family force me attend religion service I am not believe. I not wish go to church. Please help for reason stay home. Ill not good. I must prove ill or force to go and punish for lie. Need perfect reason.

[Typhlosion]

Hey Xiao... I read a lot of your posts, and I feel so sorry for your situation. I read about your adoptive parents being negligent and school people abusive. I know it might help much, but hey, at least you got an outlet. I'm not the best socializer or advice-giver here (by far) but it's great that you found VT. Try and enjoy here, people here are so much nicer and kinder than some people you know. Focus on the better parts of life. I know 5 years or less is a lot, but it's bearable, and then you will be able to have a life for your own. So try to thrive for yourself, and yourself only. Enjoy the most out of your dance and time online.

I can't say that there's any answer for your problem here. A lot of people are fanatic for churches and trying to disagree will be a trouble not worth it and then they'll try to force it even more. Just be quiet and agree with the church, you don't follow it and you know that, that's important. Unfortunately, many other kids have to go through this too, but confronting makes things worse. I'm sorry I can't say much more to help.

[Xiao.Z]

Church waste my time I do not listen. I most dislike stand for sing. I not know music of song. Wood bench make pain. Sit or stand both make misery.

[Cadanance00]

I think you should go anyway even if you don't believe it. It's a good place to make friends. You won't find the kind of bullying at church that you get at school.

[Atlantis]

Xiao.Z
I find Church a sort of a safe haven, away from all the stress of the outside world. It is a quiet peaceful place where you can relax. Don't worry about not knowing the words to the hymns (religious songs) in my Church there is a lyric book and there will probably be one at your church too.

[Cadanance00]

Xiao.Z
I find Church a sort of a safe haven, away from all the stress of the outside world. It is a quiet peaceful place where you can relax. Don't worry about not knowing the words to the hymns (religious songs) in my Church there is a lyric book and there will probably be one at your church too.

You don't have to sing if you don't know the words. You can just sit and have a sexual fantasy if you want to. About the preacher's daughter if she's hot.:yummy:

[Xiao.Z]

You don't have to sing if you don't know the words. You can just sit and have a sexual fantasy if you want to. About the preacher's daughter if she's hot.:yummy:

I not have so many sexual thought. I never think girl that way. Sometime I admire girl that pretty face or fit body that all.

I do go despite waste my time adopt family force to go. I not make friend when church. Always sit where family sit. Never opportunity speak other children.

[Cadanance00]

I not have so many sexual thought. I never think girl that way. Sometime I admire girl that pretty face or fit body that all.

I do go despite waste my time adopt family force to go. I not make friend when church. Always sit where family sit. Never opportunity speak other children.

You can go to the Sunday school for your age group. Also, there are other activities you might be interested in. Ask who the youth director is and say you would like to be active in something.

Life is a process of reaching out to other people. The more you keep to yourself, the more you will be lonely.

[Xiao.Z]

You can go to the Sunday school for your age group. Also, there are other activities you might be interested in. Ask who the youth director is and say you would like to be active in something.

Life is a process of reaching out to other people. The more you keep to yourself, the more you will be lonely.

I do not know this possible. Family take me for main service only. I not interest in extra church speak and tell me of suffer punish in eternity. Not difficult believe so many people bad but I not do bad why punish. Also more children for shun not sound joyful for me.

[Cadanance00]

Doesn't sound like a happy church to me.

You mentioned an adopt family. What is your situation? Are you visiting or were you adopted by this family? How long have you been here? It sounds like you're very lonely.

[Freckles]

Were you born somewhere beside the midwest? Your English doesn't seem too good. I have a few friends that came from other countries. Personally I go to church and love it. It sounds like you've convinced yourself you don't like it so you won't let yourself like it. I think if you got involved you'd be happier and you could have some support for your life at home.

[Xiao.Z]

Doesn't sound like a happy church to me.

You mentioned an adopt family. What is your situation? Are you visiting or were you adopted by this family? How long have you been here? It sounds like you're very lonely.

Adopt by family at 10. American citizen now. I extreme isolate.

Were you born somewhere beside the midwest? Your English doesn't seem too good. I have a few friends that came from other countries. Personally I go to church and love it. It sounds like you've convinced yourself you don't like it so you won't let yourself like it. I think if you got involved you'd be happier and you could have some support for your life at home.

I born China. My speak English better of write English.

I not like many reason. Not my religion. I instruct of Buddhism and Taoism. These I trust. So much hypocrite of church. Not know same god of Islam and much hate for Muslim people. Many other and no time must prepare to school.

[Cadanance00]

Yes, there is a lot of hypocrisy. It amazes me that people can say their god is love and kill those who disagree with them.

[Xiao.Z]

Yes, there is a lot of hypocrisy. It amazes me that people can say their god is love and kill those who disagree with them.

Yes so confuse at people action not align believe. And much respect of Muslim for devote of faith. Not imagine Christian pray at church 5 time daily.

[Atlantis]

Not imagine Christian pray at church 5 time daily.

We don't.

[Xiao.Z]

We don't.

Yes this I know. My intent to show devout of Muslim. I respect devote they bring for faith.

[Doro15]

... About the preacher's daughter if she's hot.


god condemned you for this sinful thoughts

[Cadanance00]

god condemned you for this sinful thoughts

LOL How do you know what God did?

[Xiao.Z]

Uhg.... Church again today.

[swimjoey1]

Adopt by family at 10. American citizen now. I extreme isolate.



I born China. My speak English better of write English.

I not like many reason. Not my religion. I instruct of Buddhism and Taoism. These I trust. So much hypocrite of church. Not know same god of Islam and much hate for Muslim people. Many other and no time must prepare to school.

Where are your birth parents? I think you should just go to church until you are 18 than they can't force you. Maybe you can move out to the school dorm or something.

[Jinglebottom]

Lol I feel ya, I've been forcibly taken to church many times throughout my life. I just don't care about that stuff.

[Xiao.Z]

Where are your birth parents? I think you should just go to church until you are 18 than they can't force you. Maybe you can move out to the school dorm or something.

Birth parent not alive since 6. Live orphan 4 year until adopt. I keep memory. Mother so beautiful and kind. Father work difficult employ factory. Make sad when America speak for cheap Chinese product. China labor much for product America only put trash.

Lol I feel ya, I've been forcibly taken to church many times throughout my life. I just don't care about that stuff.

Such waste time and bench make pain for back. All sit and stand and sit and stand. Not understand song word. Man on stage speak quiet and yell. No relax alway fear to sleep. I hide in hoodie when let me. Usual must dress nice. So bored.

[ethan-s]

You don't have to sing if you don't know the words. You can just sit and have a sexual fantasy if you want to. About the preacher's daughter if she's hot.:yummy:

Hehe.....:eek::D

[Xiao.Z]

Another Sunday morning waste in church. And parent plan grill out for afternoon and I not like meat. And must pretend grateful of adopt mother never talk with me. Whole day waste.

[SubEruanna]

when I became Wiccan, going to my local christain youth group was my only regular way to see my best friend of several years, from primary school. They sung christian songs and i didnt like singing them. so i found some wiccan songs on Youtube and Spotify, listened to then with my headphones for about an hour before i left, and then sung them to myself whenever they sang christain songs. it definitly made me feel better about being at the youth group, and i still get to see my best friend! :)

maybe you could do a simmilar thing with some songs that you like

Double post merged. ~ Xander.

[Xiao.Z]

The grill did not happen for rain. So now stuck inside with parent.

[Just JT]

When I was first placed in my foster home, I was kinda forced to go to church to. I really didn't mind to much. I hadn't really ever been, and I found I really liked it. I went to a baptism about a month ago at another church, a lot smaller, and really liked it there. They have a really active youth there, and there really welcomed me. Like someone else said, you can to to Sunday school for your age, and other fun stuff to. People are really cool and nice, no bullying bullshit at all.

You never know, you may not have found the right mix of people and stuff for you. If you give it an honest chance you might find you like it and get something out of it even if you don't believe in a god. Historically, I think it's pretty cool.