Need help soon!

[Tesserax]

Hey guys, I'm going to keep it short with a bit of backstory.

Basically I met a girl, and I kinda liked her, we've been chatting for a bit, so we've decided a date would be a good idea. We're aiming for some time this weekend, though we haven't made the actual date official yet (but it probably won't be today).

However, there lies a problem. I realized over the last couple of days that I don't really find myself attracted to her. She's pretty cool, but she's not the best conversationalist, and I find myself being less and less attracted to her because, well, it feels like I've been putting effort in while she's been sort of just, giving me a thumbs up when I ask her about plans and stuff.

What should I do? Should I go through with the date anyway? Or just call it off and tell her I'm not really feeling it. I don't want to hurt her, and I have a feeling that if we actually met in person it might be better than talking over Messenger all the time.

Thanks for reading guys, I'm really clueless here. As always, good luck in your ventures, and may you be guided to Eternity

[Vermilion]

I'd go with it but don't call it a date. And see how it goes ?

[Tesserax]

I decided to say nothing to her and wait it out. I realized that she doesn't seem to really like me that much, never initiates conversation, never really seems to actually give any effort. I told her to tell me her schedule and which time would suit her best and she just gave me a thumbs up.

She hasn't said anything, so hopefully what it is, is the feeling is mutual and there is no attraction, and we'll just forget each other eventually.

[lliam]

What should I do? Should I go through with the date anyway?


just give it a try. one date means nothing.

If you really get the impression that'ts the one and last date with her as your potential GF. Without having to point it out directly you can show her just by your behavior that this date wasn't a date but just hanging out as friends .

Of course, you shouldn't act disinterested, dismissive or such. That would be rude.

[Xiao.Z]

You not do this. No reason make her think relationship happen if you not interest. Waste time everyone. My opinion only. Good luck.