Crush(es) Advice

[TiorTristan]

I have a crush on two girls in my grade, both aren't the wiser about it. I just need a few questions answered and advice when it comes to not screwing up. I'm far from the best when it comes to relationships, but I'm funny, smart, etc.

Girl 1. Outgoing, pretty good looking, funny, smart, we joke a lot about stuff, etc. I see her a lot as wee have half our school periods together.
Gril 2. We flirt a lot, pretty much whenever we are around, though I'm not sure if she's 100% serious. She says that she's going to be my date for Homecoming next school year, and at first I thought she was joking but turns out she's actually serious, assured me multiple times. Bad thing though is we only have one class together.

Both girls have called me cute/handsome openly, which I don't know if that's a good or bad thing, funny, etc. So I think there is at least some interest, especially when they go out of there way to be around me or tell me goodbye.

First, how to I get into a conversation to get their phone numbers naturally? I have girl 2's number from last year but we didn't text at all and I don't want to seem like a creep.
Second, what signs should I be looking for from them?
Third, any advice for what I should do?

Much appreciated
-Ti

[lemondrop]

For phone numbersjust say: can you give me your phone number ? Or: do i have your phone number?

About the signs i would say that they like you

And advice would be- go for it YOLO

[Uniquemind]

Girl number 2 seems interested.

Girl number 1 doesn't give off any signs other than she's willing to try a good friendship.

That's just my sense based on things described above.

But yeah as for asking for numbers, just ask and don't make it a big deal.


To get closer with anybody, just chat via text semi-often/regularly, and like spend time together.

[Microcosm]

Real relationships(i.e. not middle school flings) really need time spent outside of school. It helps to keep the relationship active and more personal. I'm not sure what grade you're in though, and I'm also not sure what depth of relationship you're looking for. So, I'll just assume all such factors are neutral.

First, you've got a great start with both of these girls and their affection towards you is definitely valuable. I'd agree with Uniquemind on how to get their phone numbers. I've asked girls I'd hardly known for a while for their numbers in a non-affectionate way, but in a more friendly way. I like to just be able to communicate with people easily. So, if she gets weirded out by you asking for her number, just tell her you want it so you can talk to her if something important comes up. However, I highly doubt either of them would make a big deal of that given that they've both expressed some interest in you. They'll probably be quite flattered.

My advice is to pick the girl that you're most comfortable with, fits your needs and you seem to fit her's, and that seems the most loyal.

Best of luck to you. Hope I helped.

[TiorTristan]

Real relationships(i.e. not middle school flings) really need time spent outside of school. It helps to keep the relationship active and more personal. I'm not sure what grade you're in though, and I'm also not sure what depth of relationship you're looking for. So, I'll just assume all such factors are neutral.

First, you've got a great start with both of these girls and their affection towards you is definitely valuable. I'd agree with Uniquemind on how to get their phone numbers. I've asked girls I'd hardly known for a while for their numbers in a non-affectionate way, but in a more friendly way. I like to just be able to communicate with people easily. So, if she gets weirded out by you asking for her number, just tell her you want it so you can talk to her if something important comes up. However, I highly doubt either of them would make a big deal of that given that they've both expressed some interest in you. They'll probably be quite flattered.

My advice is to pick the girl that you're most comfortable with, fits your needs and you seem to fit her's, and that seems the most loyal.

Best of luck to you. Hope I helped.
Thank you, I'm coming towards the end of my sophomore year in HS so I know that dating isn't just sitting together during lunch. Ironically, both have their drivers license but I don't because I'm the second youngest in my grade xD. Only difference that makes is I will graduate at 17 and I won't get my license till September. Thanks for all the advice though!