Experimentation with friends

[Zbmrnb16]

I have a friend (female) who,has never masturbated before, but is interested in trying it. However, she's scared of being thought of as a slut, and doesn't feel comfortable doing it by herself. I want to help her explore her body, but I also don't want to hurt our friendship, and I'm not sure how to address the issue without sounding perverted. What do you think I should do?

[ska8er]

Is she Bi? How well do u know her?
If she is comfortable with u-I guess u
can ask but don't if u r just casual
friends. My girl and I masturbate
each other and find that is a good
way to relieve stress but she is my
steady. I think she is Bi but has
not told me. She masturbates with
her girl besties but wont let me get
in on it.

[Zbmrnb16]

Is she Bi? How well do u know her?
If she is comfortable with u-I guess u
can ask but don't if u r just casual
friends. My girl and I masturbate
each other and find that is a good
way to relieve stress but she is my
steady. I think she is Bi but has
not told me. She masturbates with
her girl besties but wont let me get
in on it.

We're really close friends, but I just don't know how to talk to her about it. She's bi, but I'm not sure what that has to do with it.

[ska8er]

We're really close friends, but I just don't know how to talk to her about it. She's bi, but I'm not sure what that has to do with it.


If she is Bi then I would think that
it would be easier for her to ask one
of her girl friends to get each other off
than it would b for u to do it. Like I said
my girl does it with her besties but wont
tell me thinking that I would think less of
her. I have gotten off with my best bud and
I haven't told her for the same reason I guess.
I don't know how she would take it cause with
me she is very clingy. She might b jealous or
angry with me. If u think ur friend will find u
helpful then ask her but unless ur her boyfriend
she might b considered easy. Idk- u know her
better. :confused:

[kev1998]

I think it would make things very weird between you. Been there done that.

[Cadanance00]

I think it would make things very weird between you. Been there done that.

Yeah, it's possible depending on the friendship. Seeing that you've talked it over I think it'll probably be all right.

I had a good experience with it and we're closer if anything but there's all kinds of people and all kinds of experiences. But like what are friends for? Experimenting is a normal part of life. It's a safe way to do something cuz if it gets weird in any way either party can stop it.

[kev1998]

Yeah, it's possible depending on the friendship. Seeing that you've talked it over I think it'll probably be all right.

I had a good experience with it and we're closer if anything but there's all kinds of people and all kinds of experiences. But like what are friends for? Experimenting is a normal part of life. It's a safe way to do something cuz if it gets weird in any way either party can stop it.

I'm a very introverted guy and shy very about my body as was my friend. I totally agree with you that it is depending on the friends and the personality types represented there. It took us a very long time to be able to make eye contact again and be comfortable with each other.

Kev