Ok to have a fetish even with a boyfriend?

[thatonekidjacob]

Is it ok for me to have a fetish even tho I have a boyfriend? My fetish is something I get into when alone, not with him. I kind of want to tell him about it but also kinda don't. I don't know how we would react. It's nothing all that kinky but I'm worried what he would think.

[Vermilion]

Nothing wrong with it at all. If you don't think it's that bad tell him if you like :)

[KingWavy]

I think we all have fetishes, he may even have one too

[lemondrop]

well if you have it when you're alone so there's no need for him to know

[Microcosm]

Most people have fetishes and some don't actually tell their partner about them. You're not alone at all.

If you feel comfortable telling him, you can, but remember: It's up to you. You're not obligated to tell him or anything.

[jsands]

I think it can be good to share that kind of thing, there is no point having secrets and maybe something you can enjoy together

[Bluebyrd]

It's fine if you want to tell him but why? I think that there's more negatives that could come out of telling him than there are positives. It's up to you though.

[ZACK0]

It's fine if you want to tell him but why? I think that there's more negatives that could come out of telling him than there are positives. It's up to you though.

I TOTALLY AGREE WITH THIS STATEMENT not that this post really counts for anything

[ska8er]

I wouldn't tell him but if hes is a good
boyfriend and u have trust in each other
y not ease into ur fetish and then u will
know how he feels bout it. He just might
like it.

[pjones]

i don't think there is anything wrong with keeping some things private. you know him best, and i'm guessing you would know the right time to talk about if you choose to

[Zbmrnb16]

You don't have to tell him, but there's nothing wrong with letting him know. My girlfriend and talk about our fetishes from time to time, and sit gave us a better understanding of each other, so it certainly doesn't hurt to tell them.

[Zachary G]

Is it ok for me to have a fetish even tho I have a boyfriend? My fetish is something I get into when alone, not with him. I kind of want to tell him about it but also kinda don't. I don't know how we would react. It's nothing all that kinky but I'm worried what he would think.

Its more than okay for you to have a fetish while you have a bf, everyone has some kind of something that their partners arent aware of. IF you want to tell him, thats up to you, but if he really cares for and loves you, then what you tell him about it shouldnt matter.

[logan4sho]

Maybe he has the same fetish and you guys can share it?

[Almostahero]

The only point I would see in telling him is if you would like to act on the fetish. Plus you can always make him tell you his first, to make you more comfortable. But if you want to act on your fetish make sure you are willing to act on his.

Then of course we all have those fetishes we keep to ourselves lol

[jimbo56]

no problem

[Yubs123]

No problem at all he might even like it 😉

[everlong]

There shouldn't be anything wrong with it

[DoodleSnap]

Its more than okay for you to have a fetish while you have a bf, everyone has some kind of something that their partners arent aware of. IF you want to tell him, thats up to you, but if he really cares for and loves you, then what you tell him about it shouldnt matter.

This is good advice. A relationship is all about trust and honesty, so if you feel comfortable sharing, then it could be good.