Why ?

[LITTLEANGEL19]

Why do boys always wonder about their penis size, asking questions like am I big enough etc. Because there is nothing they can do about it :what:

[KingWavy]

Well guys are super insecure about their penis size due to watching many porn videos and comparing. To go along with that, they may just be saying how big they are to humblebrag about "how big they are" so they can be a victim

[ska8er]

Y do girls wonder bout their breast size?

[Bontigo Papi .]

Insecurities, mainly , as KingWavy mentioned .

[Taryn98]

Because they don't understand what's really important to girls

[Jameson9]

Yeah, I agree with KingWavy. They're just insecure about it

[GothSwimmer]

Honestly, I don't know. I'm in no way attracted to "larger than average" penises. Why would I want something inside me that might hurt?

[LITTLEANGEL19]

Honestly, I don't know. I'm in no way attracted to "larger than average" penises. Why would I want something inside me that might hurt?

Good reply Becky X

[everlong]

Insecurities I guess

[yeehaw]

Guys think that girls find it more attractive, but it's usually not the case really

[biancachica]

Its either they are genuinely insecure about their size or they want to brag about it. And most of the time when they brag about it, they lie about their size, which makes me totally clueless about why they even post it in the first place. They should be worrying about other things before they start worrying about their penis size because thats really not important to most girls.

[Canadian Dream]

I think it's because many of us are worried about where they are placed among other guys. Studies have shown that the natural instinct for a female is to prefer males with larger penises because they show a sign of superiority to other males. However this is only taking in consideration the sexual aspect, and when other characteristics come into play this aspect of penis size is greatly reduced. So I think it's natural for a guy to worry about his penis size because his natural instinct tells him that he has a higher chance of getting a partner if he has a greater size. However in today's world, as many girls have pointed out on this thread it's not really what they are looking for in a guy, and I think it's important for other guys to know that and realize it's not what matters the most in a relationship.

[Harrier]

Yes it's insecure and stupid to worry about something you can't control ... but there's something very basic about it. Art/cultures/society has been writing about and drawing about and making statues about the size of penises for thousands of years. It's not just guys either, listen to either female or male comedians tell jokes about huge dicks or tiny dicks ... people love laughing about the size of dicks, and girls often laugh the loudest lol. So while girls may think guys posting dick size threads are stupid (and I agree!) they aren't going away cuz (most) girls and guys both like talking about dick size ultimately.

[Preppy]

I'm incredibly insecure so it's good to know

[TroyH]

It's a combination of human nature and culture. Not every guy is concerned either. For some it's genuine curiosity, others it's insecurity, and for yet others it's about stroking their own ego. But I think there's a certain obsession with sex all across western culture so that certainly plays into it all as well.

[kev1998]

It is a self confidence thing. We need affirmation that we are adequate. Plus most dudes are curious about other dudes if they want to admit it or not.

[RJH98]

This is what I think of this:

The general idea is that larger penises can stimulate girls better. With that (false) idea in mind boys brag to other boys making the others insecure. One guy has an 8 incher and 5 guys feel insecure because they are "only" 7 inches

[Zachary G]

insecurity is all about societies perception of how things are supposed to be, not how they actually are. because of things like porn, there is a lot of pressure on a guy to "measure up" and therefore he is always questioning and feeling inadequate.

[GothSwimmer]

It would make me feel a lot better if guys were just honest about their size. Nobody is going to laugh at those who admit their penis is between four and five inches.

It seems unlikely that women would lie about their breast size.

[playfull-qt]

Because they don't understand what's really important to girls

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[West Coast Sheriff]

We all just want to be good enough. I don't even care about my size because I know it doesn't matter like Taryn98 said. For me, I'm insecure about other things, size isn't one.

[Zbmrnb16]

Thanks to porn and the media, most guys think that they have to be "this big" to pleasure their partner, and haven't learned to accept their penis size, and focus on more important aspects of sex.

[Xiao.Z]

I think it's because many of us are worried about where they are placed among other guys. Studies have shown that the natural instinct for a female is to prefer males with larger penises because they show a sign of superiority to other males. However this is only taking in consideration the sexual aspect, and when other characteristics come into play this aspect of penis size is greatly reduced. So I think it's natural for a guy to worry about his penis size because his natural instinct tells him that he has a higher chance of getting a partner if he has a greater size. However in today's world, as many girls have pointed out on this thread it's not really what they are looking for in a guy, and I think it's important for other guys to know that and realize it's not what matters the most in a relationship.

How can size influence get partner? Unless look for partner with no pant.

[Goat69]

We just like to compare to solve our insecurities

[Canadian Dream]

How can size influence get partner? Unless look for partner with no pant.

I'm talking natural instincts, meaning going back to when we didn't wear pants. I think it's more of a subconscious thing that we don't necesserily realize.

[Xiao.Z]

I'm talking natural instincts, meaning going back to when we didn't wear pants. I think it's more of a subconscious thing that we don't necesserily realize.

My natural instinct can not determine penis size by look at boy. Do not understand how can make boy insecure until we naked but then I already choose base on other factor.

[Canadian Dream]

My natural instinct can not determine penis size by look at boy. Do not understand how can make boy insecure until we naked but then I already choose base on other factor.

I honestly don't know how else to put it. A female's natural instinct is to pick the best mate, and research has show that penis size does make a difference in how a female picks a mate. That's of course assuming that we are living in the wild, thus assuming we are all naked and can compare. Therefore it is a natural subconscious thought for a male to wonder if they will "outdo" the other males in getting the female. This obviously does not apply to today's society in the same way, however a male could be worried of disappointment once the female sees him naked.

[Xiao.Z]

I honestly don't know how else to put it. A female's natural instinct is to pick the best mate, and research has show that penis size does make a difference in how a female picks a mate. That's of course assuming that we are living in the wild, thus assuming we are all naked and can compare. Therefore it is a natural subconscious thought for a male to wonder if they will "outdo" the other males in getting the female. This obviously does not apply to today's society in the same way, however a male could be worried of disappointment once the female sees him naked.

I interest in read these study do you have link?

[ethan-s]

Why do boys always wonder about their penis size, asking questions like am I big enough etc. Because there is nothing they can do about it :what:

i dont care about size. i am who i am, but i see your point.

[Falcons_11]

i dont care about size. i am who i am, but i see your point.

I totally agree. Some of us are big and some aren't. You just have to deal with what your genes give you. So why say you have a big penis when you don't. Just be truthful from the start.

[Canadian Dream]

I interest in read these study do you have link?

http://m.pnas.org/content/110/17/6925.abstract

http://www.cbc.ca/beta/news/technology/penis-size-matters-relatively-speaking-1.1322354

https://www.researchgate.net/profile/Nicole_Prause/publication/279192722_Women%27s_Preferences_for_Penis_Size_A_New_Research_Method_Using_Selec tion_among_3D_Models/links/55e74f2608ae65b638995629.pdf?inViewer=0&pdfJsDownload=0&origin=publication_detail

[Doro15]

Why do boys always wonder about their penis size, asking questions like am I big enough etc. Because there is nothing they can do about it :what:

I think they are inferiority complex.

[jamie_n5]

Insecure and worried that someone will think they aren't big enough I think.
I am for the not how big it is it's how you use theory myself.

[joshua123]

Just having a bigger penis in general is always looked at as good in the guy community though

[Stele]

We are just concerned about wether it will or not be big enough for a girl.

[Alex1s]

For some reason I find that as I've traveled more and more and met more people from around the world, it seems that having a big penis is only really important in western cultures.

My school hosted an exchange student from Kenya and he said no one worries about it there. Like it's not even a thing to show of that you're really big. And when we traveled to Asia the sexual focus on guys tended to be more on their faces and hair and style rather than what was in their pants (That's what I got from the advertising anyway).

[Harrier]

For some reason I find that as I've traveled more and more and met more people from around the world, it seems that having a big penis is only really important in western cultures.

My school hosted an exchange student from Kenya and he said no one worries about it there. Like it's not even a thing to show of that you're really big. And when we traveled to Asia the sexual focus on guys tended to be more on their faces and hair and style rather than what was in their pants (That's what I got from the advertising anyway).

That's probably bc every guy in Kenya is hung like a horse and every guy in Asia is hung like a mouse. Lol jk. No seriously, I agree, it's probably just bc America is repressed.

[volleyballer13]

id say guys are somewhat self conscious about it

[GeneralSkrubz]

I don't know honestly. I don't think ALL guys lie about their size, but when 90% of them say, Oh, you know, 7.3 inches, and then you notice that the US Average is 5.6 you think a bit. Honestly, studies show, longer penises aren't what pleases a woman, but thicker ones. And if you think of it, it makes sense. Something long and thin wont touch much, but average sized, and thick? itd touch a lot more, if that is being clear enough.

[ThomasD]

Because they watch porn with guys having massive dicks that are always hard!

[lockness]

For me it is about that bigger is always better and wanting to be bigger enough to please the girl and so on.

[Trevorkid]

Seems like having a bigger one is more fun for us and the girl.

[Sean4U]

Insecure and worried that someone will think they aren't big enough I think.
I am for the not how big it is it's how you use theory myself.

Y do girls wonder bout their breast size?

Both Good answers. Most guys compare and when they are smaller than another guy then they feel that the "don't measure up" to what a girl/guy would want from the.

But also, ska8er hit in on the nose too. I know a lot of girls that wonder about their breast size just like guys do of their penis. HEY, it's puberty and we have a lot of questions and concerns, male or female.

[wrecked]

I worried when I was younger but i'm good w. the 6" I have now

[Atlantis]

I worried when I was younger but i'm good w. the 6" I have now

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