Advice on my little brother asking me about puberty/masturbation

[Mikeymic]

Not going into story telling, but suffice to say we share the same bathroom. He caught me literally right as I was finishing. Yesterday he told me that last week he had a wet dream and that was his first time cumming. He knows that I was jerking off and heard about it from his friends and stuff(hes 2 years younger than me but hes not stupid) but he was asking me if I could show him how to do it or do it with him for his first time. I kinda have mixed feelings about it because hes my little brother and that's weird for me. but at the same time weve always had an amazing relationship. he looks up to me and ive pretty much taught him everything he knows from biking, to cooking to strategies in video games.

[zaccary]

Although its a but unusual, its not uncommon, lots of guys learn to masturbate from their big brothers, and if you two guys are close, then i shoulnt be that weird. Id say, if you guys are already comftorable in intimate situations Id give it a try if I were you!

[Cloud_Strife]

Not going into story telling, but suffice to say we share the same bathroom. He caught me literally right as I was finishing. Yesterday he told me that last week he had a wet dream and that was his first time cumming. He knows that I was jerking off and heard about it from his friends and stuff(hes 2 years younger than me but hes not stupid) but he was asking me if I could show him how to do it or do it with him for his first time. I kinda have mixed feelings about it because hes my little brother and that's weird for me. but at the same time weve always had an amazing relationship. he looks up to me and ive pretty much taught him everything he knows from biking, to cooking to strategies in video games.

Hi Mikey,

Hope you've been well! I partially agree with what Zaccary mentioned here:

Although its a but unusual, its not uncommon, lots of guys learn to masturbate from their big brothers, and if you two guys are close, then i shoulnt be that weird. Id say, if you guys are already comftorable in intimate situations Id give it a try if I were you!

I've also had friends who had learnt from their older brothers. Your younger brother approaching you means that he trusts you in that regard, that he would want to learn from you. The more important part to consider now, would be how comfortable you yourself are with the situation. It would differ from person to person. Strategy games, biking and cooking are certainly nowhere near as personal as the topic surrounding masturbation. I personally wouldn't be comfortable, but that's me; and I see why you're a bit conflicted about it.

If you are unsure, perhaps you could choose to sit down with him privately to discuss about it in the first instance. The good thing about the internet nowadays is that there are many resources online as well, which primarily cover this kind of topic to young teens for introduction purposes. Perhaps you could use that to bridge the topic instead, if you are uncomfortable?

Either way, I think this might be able to get you to the step where you'd better gage what your brother thinks and how you both stand on the situation - the next course should then follow.

Hope that helps!!!

[ska8er]

I don't c anything wrong with it
he trusts u so hes asking for help.

[kev1998]

Just be honest with him but don't do anything to make your relationship with him uncomfortable.

[Harrier]

Just use your common sense. My kid bro is about 3 years younger and idk what I'd do if he asked me.

[ethan-s]

Although its a but unusual, its not uncommon, lots of guys learn to masturbate from their big brothers, and if you two guys are close, then i shoulnt be that weird. Id say, if you guys are already comftorable in intimate situations Id give it a try if I were you!

just dont tell anyone, though.

[thekidd_dub]

this actually happened to me when I was around 15 and my brother was 13 he asked me what and how to masturbate so i told him a what it was that day but it took 2 weeks for I'm to decide if I'll show him and I ended up showing him and after I feel as though he knows now he can trust me and ask me any questions he may have

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[Canadian Dream]

It's totally up to how comfortable you feel with him. I can understand how it can be awkward, but since you've taught him so many things and have a good relationship if you feel ok teaching him then go ahead. Otherwise if it's something you really don't want to do then suggest the internet.

[andyh007]

I'd say even if you are uncomfortable actually doing it with him you should at least be there to talk to him about and answer whatever questions you can. I know I wish I had an older brother to ask about that kind of stuff.

[pjones]

similar situation with me and my brother, and because we are very close and share a bedroom i taught him, just like a friend taught me. made us closer.
as long as you feel comfortable with it, i don't think it's wrong

[Boyfreshx]

I wouldn't necessarily say do it with him, however talk with him about it and explain to him how it works. Let him find out on his own.

[bfldworker]

It isn't unusual. However I am the younger brother and it was my older brother who asked me. He started puberty 2 years after I did (I started at 11 and he started at 14). He caught me and I explained it to him. He couldn't cum yet even though I could. After him getting over his bruised ego, he finally tried it and he hasn't stopped yet.

[Bluebyrd]

It's clear that you're not completely comfortable with it so seek other alternatives. Maybe point him in the direction of porn.

[Kory123]

"accidently" let him watch diy masturbation videos or porn... lol:P

btw you look viet:yes:

[Solid18]

I should have ask my older brothers before they left for college

[Schnopps]

I never learned from my brothers, but I never asked. If he seems open to ask you, and you feel comfortable doing it, then go ahead!

[hairy balls]

Just be honest with him but don't do anything to make your relationship with him uncomfortable or illegal

[Second Chance]

Not going into story telling, but suffice to say we share the same bathroom. He caught me literally right as I was finishing. Yesterday he told me that last week he had a wet dream and that was his first time cumming. He knows that I was jerking off and heard about it from his friends and stuff(hes 2 years younger than me but hes not stupid) but he was asking me if I could show him how to do it or do it with him for his first time. I kinda have mixed feelings about it because hes my little brother and that's weird for me. but at the same time weve always had an amazing relationship. he looks up to me and ive pretty much taught him everything he knows from biking, to cooking to strategies in video games.

I think you should be honest with the kid especially since he is probably around 12/13 and is not clueless about sexuality. I would not recommend jacking off with your brother, but you can give him pointers on what to do and how to masturbate. If masturbating with him is something that really creeps you out, then be honest with him that while there is nothing wrong with masturbating that as brothers it would not be a healthy thing to do with each other. However, you can be in the room with him coaching him on what to do and providing him guidance as a half way point if he really wants you to help him.

More than anything be your brother's friend and let him know that there is nothing wrong with him and that he can talk to you about anything. It is far better for him to learn things from you rather than some strangers and to develop a negative sexuality. Let us know how things turn out with your brother.

[Boyfreshx]

I think you should be honest with the kid especially since he is probably around 12/13 and is not clueless about sexuality. I would not recommend jacking off with your brother, but you can give him pointers on what to do and how to masturbate. If masturbating with him is something that really creeps you out, then be honest with him that while there is nothing wrong with masturbating that as brothers it would not be a healthy thing to do with each other. However, you can be in the room with him coaching him on what to do and providing him guidance as a half way point if he really wants you to help him.

More than anything be your brother's friend and let him know that there is nothing wrong with him and that he can talk to you about anything. It is far better for him to learn things from you rather than some strangers and to develop a negative sexuality. Let us know how things turn out with your brother.

Said perfectly.

[Zachary G]

Although its a but unusual, its not uncommon, lots of guys learn to masturbate from their big brothers, and if you two guys are close, then i shoulnt be that weird. Id say, if you guys are already comftorable in intimate situations Id give it a try if I were you!

I feel the same way.

[Dead Account]

Do what you feel is right.

[Mark2000]

You got lot of good advice.

Keep us informed

[Kevgpdx]

I agree with some of the advice above. You don't have to do anything with him or cross any lines. But I think it's cool when brothers and guys in a family can be open with each other and just talk about stuff. It's good to have someone like that.

[Mikeymic]

Update: So my little brother and I talked about it and I decided I'd probably show him how I do it just once.

[bfldworker]

Just remind him not to let any of it dry on the pubic hair. It can hurt like hell if you just put your underwater on and then take it off when it drys.

[Second Chance]

Update: So my little brother and I talked about it and I decided I'd probably show him how I do it just once.

You did the right thing by talking to him, and being supportive and understanding of him no matter how embarrassing are is the way to go. I hope your brother appreciated your help and that you were able to help him.

Let us know how things turn out with your brother.

[bfldworker]

I have learned that unless there are extraordinary circumstances that siblings can confide in each other and talk to each other about almost anything. Especially if they are the same gender.

[Zbmrnb16]

Just let answer any questions you can. The more he knows, the better.

[Coolguy2068]

I think its good you're being informative, i wish i would've had my brother be more open and direct with me. would've saved me from a lot of confusing situations

[JellyBelly31]

If he asks that means he trusts you can teach him so he's looking up to you again. You'd be the only one making it awkward. Brothers masturbate together all the time.