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jerrydevo2
April 15th, 2016, 09:56 PM
So this might be stupid but during class one of my classmates next to me was doing something with his pants and he started to adjust it and the movement grabbed my attention in my peripheral. When I looked over I saw his pubes and the base of his penis and he realized that he was being exposed then quickly tried to cover back himself now its become wired to talk with each other now. I assume we should just continue to interact as normal, but what should be done to get rid of the awkwardness? Thanks for your understanding :)

jockeyboy97
April 15th, 2016, 10:48 PM
Be a friend and not say anything. Just act like normal, you would want that if it was reversed. I'm sure he was embarrassed and probably think your going to tell others at school.

eggs2006
April 15th, 2016, 11:03 PM
In order to be even, you have to show him yours......No No No, just kidding.
Just forget the whole thing, act like it never happened and with time, things will get back to normal.

Kory123
April 16th, 2016, 12:09 AM
try ignoring it, legit act like it never happened. make a joke and start laughing and look at him like nothing weird happened. Do something to show that its the past or something liek that. hope you know what i mean XD.

Mikeymic
April 16th, 2016, 04:49 AM
yeah, just pretend it never happened

Harrier
April 16th, 2016, 12:57 PM
Just act normal. It's no big deal. I see friends completely naked after sports all the time. I admit it's somewhat different when you catch people exposed in different situations like in class as opposed to in locker rooms, but ultimately it's no biggie, so you saw some pubes. You're both guys. It's more awkward when I see a classmate or friend's nipple because her bikini top shifted or something, even that gets over with tho.

Canadian Dream
April 16th, 2016, 07:45 PM
The best thing you can do is act as usual. As long as it doesn't seem like a big deal it won't be very awkward between the two of you. Make sure you don't bring the event up in a conversation.

Smokinteen
April 17th, 2016, 12:37 AM
I'm going to disagree with others. Sorry! He knows and you know exactly what happened so no point ignoring it and making things uncomfortable between you any more. If he is your mate and things are weird then you should be able to talk about it. Tell him you don't like how things have been since it happened and that you don't want it to be like that. Tell him no big deal, you saw is pubes and he shouldn't feel embarrassed if he is. Be open and honest. It happened, deal with it.

KingWavy
April 17th, 2016, 01:48 AM
yeah, just pretend it never happened

Yeah just be cool about it, it basically was a mistake and didn't mean it so it's all good man

pacho3383
April 17th, 2016, 03:15 AM
Look the best thing in the world is to be open and honest with ur buddies. Talk with him and if he is embarrassed say that everything is fine and that u didnt seen anything haha lol. No just be honest and open minded and thats it.

Bluebyrd
April 17th, 2016, 04:11 PM
You don't need to do anything. The awkwardness will eventually fade away. Bringing it up might only make it more awkward.

andyh007
April 17th, 2016, 06:25 PM
Accidents happen. Just try to forget about it and act normal

will0c
April 17th, 2016, 07:25 PM
Im thinking the same as everyone else... let time pass it'll work out, don't worry about it

Solid18
April 17th, 2016, 09:27 PM
Act normal that could happen to anyone

Preppy
April 17th, 2016, 09:49 PM
Ignore it but if it becomes too much just talk about it

hairy balls
April 19th, 2016, 12:14 AM
Just act normal. It's no big deal. so he has pubes so have most guys your age . has he seen you nude ?

Kevgpdx
April 19th, 2016, 09:25 AM
I don't know that you can make the awkwardness go away. I just think that over time it won't be that big of a deal.

ValentinClarke
April 27th, 2016, 11:52 AM
So this might be stupid but during class one of my classmates next to me was doing something with his pants and he started to adjust it and the movement grabbed my attention in my peripheral. When I looked over I saw his pubes and the base of his penis and he realized that he was being exposed then quickly tried to cover back himself now its become wired to talk with each other now. I assume we should just continue to interact as normal, but what should be done to get rid of the awkwardness? Thanks for your understanding :)

He might think that you could expose him to others. Try to act normal with him, talk about what you used to. This should help get rid of the awkwardness. Or you could straight up asking, what's up between us atm?, and this could help you...
It's only a penis, that's it... I've been through similar things.
Pm me if you need to,
Valentin

Falcons_11
April 27th, 2016, 02:37 PM
IDK...I'm inclined to think that possibly it was accidental. If this would have happened in any of my classes more than one person would have noticed, including the teacher. That would have really caused an incident and he could have been sent down to the office. But in any case if you were the only one who saw it I would just ignore what you saw and act like it never happened. Let him bring it up to you if he wants to. You know the old expression.."Let sleeping dogs lie".

kev1998
April 27th, 2016, 03:07 PM
I would not mention it. Why make an awkward situation even worse.

kyd13
April 27th, 2016, 05:45 PM
I would just act like nothing happened. I'm sure he didn't mean to do it and it was probably embarrassing for him. Soon enough the awkwardness will just go away

Coolguy2068
May 3rd, 2016, 11:56 PM
hopefully no one else saw and this doesn't blow up into a huge mess for yall