After the blowjob - what do I do

[Rhys2001]

So basically this guy persuaded me to drop my trousers in a party and yeh - alcohol was involved, I think we both regret it. How should I act to him now, would it not be realy awks? Also he doesn't want anyone to know about it so I can't speak to people about it. Any advice would be useful!!


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[ska8er]

Sure its going to b awkward but just
go along like nothing happened and
dont tell anyone. I dont c any other
way. Try and consider it bonding if u
feel regretful.

[pjones]

talk to him privately and let him know you will keep what happened between yourselves

[Rhys2001]

So I texted him this morning and thankfully he can't remember much and is willing to just forget whatever he can remember!

[Harrier]

So I texted him this morning and thankfully he can't remember much and is willing to just forget whatever he can remember!

Yep. Let it never be spoken of again lol.

[Smokinteen]

So I texted him this morning and thankfully he can't remember much and is willing to just forget whatever he can remember!
Are you happy with that outcome? Maybe you don't want to forget?

[KingWavy]

That's good he can't remember.. I think. Just drop it and know that time heals all

[andyh007]

If you both are embarrassed and regret it I say just leave in alone and pretend it never happened

[pacho3383]

If you both are embarrassed and regret it I say just leave in alone and pretend it never happened

Yap that is the right way i would done this too

[pjones]

So I texted him this morning and thankfully he can't remember much and is willing to just forget whatever he can remember!

good news, hopefully you can both move on

[Bluebyrd]

I think you should just act the same as you did before the blowjob to avoid any awkwardness. If you're not too close to him then it shouldn't really matter.

[Preppy]

Talk to him alone it'll definitely help

[hairy balls]

If you both are embarrassed and regret it I say just leave in alone and pretend it never happened but still try to be buds

[Boyfreshx]

Sometimes things like this should just go without being spoken about. In my personal experience at least.

[Zachary G]

Yeah its going to be very awkward to be around eachother for a while, but that will soon pass. The thing is, deal with him like you would normally and just dont speak about it, it was something that happened and is now in the past, so move on and put it behind you. He is still the same guy he was before it all happened and so are you, so carry on like normal.

[Second Chance]

So basically this guy persuaded me to drop my trousers in a party and yeh - alcohol was involved, I think we both regret it. How should I act to him now, would it not be realy awks? Also he doesn't want anyone to know about it so I can't speak to people about it. Any advice would be useful!!


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I agree with the others that you should not bring this up again unless he brings it up. Considering that both of you both regret doing the blow job it is best that you leave things alone especially if you want to continue staying his friend.

I would say in the future be careful with alcohol and sex and never mix the two especially since you had an awkward situation now. If you find that you cannot control yourself sexually around alcohol, then never get to the point where you get drunk.

[Kevgpdx]

Yeah, I would just let it go. Sometimes things like that happen in the moment, but life goes on.

[ValentinClarke]

So basically this guy persuaded me to drop my trousers in a party and yeh - alcohol was involved, I think we both regret it. How should I act to him now, would it not be realy awks? Also he doesn't want anyone to know about it so I can't speak to people about it. Any advice would be useful!!


I'm sorry if this breaks any rules, I hope it doesn't and I'm only after social advice nothing else

Hey
Are you both open about your sexuality? The regret is fine, maybe it would be a good idea to talk to him alone about what happened and tell him that you want to remain friends (if that's what you want). Some people I knew had something very similar happen, and they were fine after a week. They spoke about it. :)
Pm me if you need to talk,
Valentin

[jerrion]

So basically this guy persuaded me to drop my trousers in a party and yeh - alcohol was involved, I think we both regret it. How should I act to him now, would it not be realy awks? Also he doesn't want anyone to know about it so I can't speak to people about it. Any advice would be useful!!


I'm sorry if this breaks any rules, I hope it doesn't and I'm only after social advice nothing else

if i were you , i would go and talk to him explaining that what happened was ok and because u were drunk and that you should both forget it and go on as friends

[Atlantis]

if i were you , i would go and talk to him explaining that what happened was ok and because u were drunk and that you should both forget it and go on as friends

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