Am I being strung along?

[Jackr117]

So I need some advice from some people who may know better than me.

So I met this girl online about a year and a half ago, we talked for a little while but soon lost contact, I think I deleted the app I used or something. So recently we started talking again, and it kicked off really well, we both had similar interests in music etc and I was very happy. She lives in London and I'm from Aberdeen so we live a whileish away but she really wanted to meet, like really wanted to meet. But due to work and the fact that I haven't really done stuff like that before, I told her I would probably have to wait till the summer time or so, but she asked again and again for a while but suddenly stopped. I then told her that I wanted to meet but I just couldn't right now and she said that was fine, but suddenly she's just started killing our conversations through text, like I'd say "Hey how are you doing :)?" And she will say "fine wbu". Now she never really used to do that before and it worries me, am I just being stung along here? Like is she really interested in talking to me? I tried to snapchat her tonight and she replied once but then ignored me twice in a row.. I'm really confused on what I should do, even though I don't know her all that well, I kinda like her you know :/ I just wanted to get to know her better but she seems to think otherwise.

Anyways if anyone could please help me out here, also just ask any questions because I was bound to miss something out here, thanks :)

[Uniquemind]

She might've moved on, feelings are fickle like that.

[West Coast Sheriff]

People, especially females, like to know that they are wanted. By not making her a priority and postponing meeting her until summer, she probably feels some level of rejection or at least doesn't feel important enough. She's either A found another guy who gives her that attention or B isn't willing to wait for you. As a guy who's been in that "she's lost interest phase", I know that holding on will only bring a fool pain. It's best to let go.

[Tesserax]

She said "Fine wbu", that's not killing the conversation, that's telling you that she's fine and then asking how you are. That's plenty to have conversation from, tell her about your day, ask her if anything interesting has happened, ask her if she's planning anything over the holidays so you might be able to arrange a meetup. Worst case scenario, a girl you never knew in real life lost/isn't interest(ed) in you, pick your feet up off the ground, stand on your two feet, tell yourself "I'm going to keep going" and find somebody else. I know it's hard to do that, but you just have to, there's not really another way if she just isn't interested

[ClaraWho]

If someone isn't interesting in talking to you, they aren't interested in you.

Have you seen her live on Skype or FaceTime? She may not even be who she claims or is just after sex. Either way, not worth knocking yourself out on a brick wall over.

~ Clara