I'm that guy. Could do with some advise.

[Rhys2001]

So basically yeh, I'm that guy who never gets with anyone at parties and that girls (or guys) just don't seem to want romantically in their lives, I'm very close to people it's not that people don't like me as a person; just not in that way. The annoying thing is I really want to be with someone and I don't know how I can do that because I keep getting rejected all the time. Can't help but think it's my fault.

[Cadanance00]

Get a girl to give you some advice. My sister helps me a lot.

[ska8er]

When u meet someone try always to say
Hi or Whats Up? Give them a smile. Ask a
silly question. Start a little conversation.
Act nice-sooner or later someone will
notice. If u consider urself shy don't
overplay it-just a smile might do it.

[ClaraWho]

It may sound obvious... But have you tried flirting?

Being nice isn't flirting.

~ Clara

[Uniquemind]

So basically yeh, I'm that guy who never gets with anyone at parties and that girls (or guys) just don't seem to want romantically in their lives, I'm very close to people it's not that people don't like me as a person; just not in that way. The annoying thing is I really want to be with someone and I don't know how I can do that because I keep getting rejected all the time. Can't help but think it's my fault.

You also want to make sure you aren't giving out "desperate vibes" because those freak people out.

It's read as uneasy, or creepy by others.