Hooked up and dumped all in one night?

[Cadanance00]

Okay, WTF happened here? I went to a party Sat night at my cousins. There was this girl there I didn't know, she doesn't go to my school. She was real friendly to me and we talked a lot & then went out in the back yard and hooked up. After that she acted like she wasn't much interested in me and talked to other people mostly. She wasn't rude or anything but yesterday she won't answer my texts or anything. I'd like to talk to her again but I'm wondering what that was all about. I want to know if it was something I did or just what. I'm kind of strung out about it.

[Uniquemind]

You just met the inverse of what guys stereotypically do to girls.

She used you for sex basically.

She's not interested in a relationship.

[Tesserax]

I've seen a couple of definitions for hookup, but all of them mean "I did something sexual (including kissing) with somebody I thought was attractive for fun with no strings attached". That's all a hookup is, don't look into it too much. If you think she might be interested, just gather your courage and go up and talk to her, and if you have time alone ask her about it, and confront her. Otherwise just don't bother, it was just for fun

[ska8er]

She wanted to test drive u.

[Cadanance00]

I've seen a couple of definitions for hookup, but all of them mean "I did something sexual (including kissing) with somebody I thought was attractive for fun with no strings attached". That's all a hookup is, don't look into it too much. If you think she might be interested, just gather your courage and go up and talk to her, and if you have time alone ask her about it, and confront her. Otherwise just don't bother, it was just for fun

Hookup: sex. I texted her a number of times but no reply. I guess that's that.



She wanted to test drive u.

Obviously she didn't buy. It was a totally great test drive for her too which is why I can't understand what happened. I talked to my cuz & he knows her. He says I got the Frederica shuffle. Like he wasn't surprised. Doesn't make it any easier, I like her a lot n I was looking forward to more than that.

[ClaraWho]

FYI to everyone - if a guy/girl is willing to have sex with you in the backyard at a party, or for that matter, sex after a handful of dates - don't be surprised if easy, cheap, meaningless sex is all they are after.

You won't be the first to get an easy ride and you will never be the last. I'm actually surprised you are surprised.

On a serious note, if she was that willing to be sexual with some stranger at a party then you should get tested for STI's, even if protection was (oh gosh please tell me it was!) used. Just think how many parties she must go to each month...

~ Clara

[ImCoolBeans]

Clara has a good point. If you had sex with someone in the backyard at a party you really should get tested. I really hope you did use protection. I don't mean to freak you out, but better to be safe.

Sorry that she only wanted to hook up. If she isn't answering, try giving her some space. She might not have been planning on that happening, and could be kind of freaked out herself. Who knows, once she has had some time to process, she might contact you. If she doesn't, you should try to let it go because you only met her once and she did ignore you.

[ska8er]

Hookup: sex. I texted her a number of times but no reply. I guess that's that.





Obviously she didn't buy. It was a totally great test drive for her too which is why I can't understand what happened. I talked to my cuz & he knows her. He says I got the Frederica shuffle. Like he wasn't surprised. Doesn't make it any easier, I like her a lot n I was looking forward to more than that.

If ur cuz knew her-he should have given u
a hint of what shes like. :what:

[Cadanance00]

On a serious note, if she was that willing to be sexual with some stranger at a party then you should get tested for STI's, even if protection was (oh gosh please tell me it was!) used. Just think how many parties she must go to each month...

~ Clara

It was totally unexpected and I didn't bring any along, so uh. I'm afraid to tell my mom what happened she'll ground me for a month. Can you get tested w/o rents involved?

FYI to everyone - if a guy/girl is willing to have sex with you in the backyard at a party, or for that matter, sex after a handful of dates - don't be surprised if easy, cheap, meaningless sex is all they are after.

You won't be the first to get an easy ride and you will never be the last. I'm actually surprised you are surprised.

On a serious note, if she was that willing to be sexual with some stranger at a party then you should get tested for STI's, even if protection was (oh gosh please tell me it was!) used. Just think how many parties she must go to each month...

~ Clara

She might not have been planning on that happening, and could be kind of freaked out herself. Who knows, once she has had some time to process, she might contact you. If she doesn't, you should try to let it go because you only met her once and she did ignore you.

I didn't think of that.

Double post merged ~ ImCoolBeans

[Uniquemind]

FYI to everyone - if a guy/girl is willing to have sex with you in the backyard at a party, or for that matter, sex after a handful of dates - don't be surprised if easy, cheap, meaningless sex is all they are after.

You won't be the first to get an easy ride and you will never be the last. I'm actually surprised you are surprised.

On a serious note, if she was that willing to be sexual with some stranger at a party then you should get tested for STI's, even if protection was (oh gosh please tell me it was!) used. Just think how many parties she must go to each month...

~ Clara

This verbatim.

I was embarrassed to bring this up Cade, but I think your mourning your breakup a bit and it's caused you to subconsciously seek a rebound relationship and risky behavior.

But get yourself tested.

Planned parenthood should be able to help you. (Oh wait I see your in TX, planned parenthood might not be reachable for you because your state is republican-dumb dumbs)

You might need to get your parent involved and bite the grounding on this. Go see a doctor.

---

Now that you said you had a bareback one night stand, it's very possible she's pregnant.

I don't mean to freak you out, but if it was a one night stand, and she's dealing with the consequences of that night, that would also explain why she's not contacting you.

Walk away from this situation and learn that sex and love are separate entities.


It was totally unexpected and I didn't bring any along, so uh. I'm afraid to tell my mom what happened she'll ground me for a month. Can you get tested w/o rents involved?





I didn't think of that.

Double post merged ~ ImCoolBeans


Also if she was drunk or on any substance, that lends further probability her judgement was impaired when she was with you intimately.


I have a personal rule never to have sex where alcohol or drugs are also present, I suggest you too adopt that rule, because it leads to "grey sex" and an absolute legal mess if someone accuses another of a crime etc.

[ClaraWho]

This verbatim.

I was embarrassed to bring this up Cade, but I think your mourning your breakup a bit and it's caused you to subconsciously seek a rebound relationship and risky behavior.

But get yourself tested.

Planned parenthood should be able to help you. (Oh wait I see your in TX, planned parenthood might not be reachable for you because your state is republican-dumb dumbs)

You might need to get your parent involved and bite the grounding on this. Go see a doctor.

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Now that you said you had a bareback one night stand, it's very possible she's pregnant.

I don't mean to freak you out, but if it was a one night stand, and she's dealing with the consequences of that night, that would also explain why she's not contacting you.

Walk away from this situation and learn that sex and love are separate entities.





Also if she was drunk or on any substance, that lends further probability her judgement was impaired when she was with you intimately.


I have a personal rule never to have sex where alcohol or drugs are also present, I suggest you too adopt that rule, because it leads to "grey sex" and an absolute legal mess if someone accuses another of a crime etc.

I'm getting slightly worried at how much we are agreeing :P.

I agree fully with everything said here.

I'll add that on the last point, that's my rule too, it's kind of taking advantage of someone in a vulnerable state - who isn't able to think clearly. Kinda a sleazy move.

Imagine how you'd feel if your sister told you this story happened to her. Some role model too.

And Texas is probably the worst place in America to do it... :confused:

~ Clara

[Cadanance00]

I'm getting slightly worried at how much we are agreeing :P.

.... it's kind of taking advantage of someone in a vulnerable state - who isn't able to think clearly. Kinda a sleazy move.

Imagine how you'd feel if your sister told you this story happened to her. Some role model too.

And Texas is probably the worst place in America to do it... :confused:

~ Clara


She wasn't fucked up, if that's what you mean. I didn't take advantage of her. And yes, Texass is a bad place to do anything.

She finally answered my texts. She said,"Stop texting me"

Is there any point in seeing a doctor until I develop symptoms? It occurred to me later that I could have got a massive case of herpes. I think anything else is curable. Is there anything I can do to head it off if I did contract it?

[ClaraWho]

She wasn't fucked up, if that's what you mean. I didn't take advantage of her. And yes, Texass is a bad place to do anything.

She finally answered my texts. She said,"Stop texting me"

Is there any point in seeing a doctor until I develop symptoms? It occurred to me later that I could have got a massive case of herpes. I think anything else is curable. Is there anything I can do to head it off if I did contract it?

'I think anything else is curable'... No. More STI's are without a cure than curable. You could have contracted any one of them. STI's can be transmitted without the person knowing they have it. STI's can lie dormant and be triggered years later. Early diagnosis stops them causing as much damage prior to comencing treatment. If you were 'mature' enough to think you were ready to have sex, you should be mature enough to get yourself tested. It's grounding, you'll live.

Imagine if some guy acted so casually about your sisters health, didn't get himself checked, and gave her an STI.

~ Clara

[Uniquemind]

She wasn't fucked up, if that's what you mean. I didn't take advantage of her. And yes, Texass is a bad place to do anything.

She finally answered my texts. She said,"Stop texting me"

Is there any point in seeing a doctor until I develop symptoms? It occurred to me later that I could have got a massive case of herpes. I think anything else is curable. Is there anything I can do to head it off if I did contract it?

No.

When you get an STI symptoms won't necessarily show.

Get tested ASAP!


It also sounds like the girl has swapped biological fluids with a lot of people so the risk is very high.

[Cadanance00]

Shit all I did was hook up at a part one time now my life is ruined!

[RJH98]

Your life isn't ruined. Just get yourself tested. The sooner the better. If you don't do it soon you'll forget about until 2022 when all of the sudden symptoms do show up.

[jsands]

Shit all I did was hook up at a part one time now my life is ruined!

I think the important thing to remember is that everything is probably fine. But, still get tested just in case.
Surely it's much better to be safe than sorry? Oh and pick up some free condoms while you're there.
Hope everything is okay :)

[Cadanance00]

I think the important thing to remember is that everything is probably fine. But, still get tested just in case.
Surely it's much better to be safe than sorry? Oh and pick up some free condoms while you're there.
Hope everything is okay :)

Know soon. I told mom and got hyper bitched-out. She said it wasn't fair to take advantage of a girl that has such emotional problems that she fucks everything that walks (once). Especially taking a chance making her pregnant since she got condoms for me last year when I told her I was sexually active with L. Yep. I'm grounded like only home and school until further notice and no driving the car. Bummer. Sucks.

[Uniquemind]

Know soon. I told mom and got hyper bitched-out. She said it wasn't fair to take advantage of a girl that has such emotional problems that she fucks everything that walks (once). Especially taking a chance making her pregnant since she got condoms for me last year when I told her I was sexually active with L. Yep. I'm grounded like only home and school until further notice and no driving the car. Bummer. Sucks.

It had to be done.

But for what it's worth I'm sure many here are proud of you for owning up to the responsibility.

[Cadanance00]

It had to be done.

But for what it's worth I'm sure many here are proud of you for owning up to the responsibility.

The problem is I like her and I liked talking to her. She's very attractive and interestind, she's an "artiste et danseuse" and we were talking about modelling for each others drawings sometimes.

I talked to my cuz an he said she'll be friendly etc but she doesn't form relationships with anybody. WTFs going on with her?

[Uniquemind]

The problem is I like her and I liked talking to her. She's very attractive and interestind, she's an "artiste et danseuse" and we were talking about modelling for each others drawings sometimes.

I talked to my cuz an he said she'll be friendly etc but she doesn't form relationships with anybody. WTFs going on with her?

She's the artsy free-spirit type of person. Nothing wrong with her persay, other than her personality type obviously makes her prone to high risk-taking behavior.

If your cousin knows she has a "open or broad" sexual reputation with many people, that only proves my point.

She also doesn't answer your texts.

You should also send her one last text asking if she was on birth control from earlier when you guys did the deed. That gives some explanation for why you wanted to get in touch with her.

She obviously isn't healthy for you though, and it does look like you annoyed her with the way she finally responded to you because you weren't reading the non-verbal silent treatment message.

Just be satisfied with whatever memory you have of her and move on.

[Cadanance00]

She's the artsy free-spirit type of person.

Yep, you called that right. She is certainly that and that's why I like talking to her. She's interesting.


You should also send her one last text asking if she was on birth control from earlier when you guys did the deed. That gives some explanation for why you wanted to get in touch with her.

Mkay. Will do.

She obviously isn't healthy for you though, and it does look like you annoyed her with the way she finally responded to you because you weren't reading the non-verbal silent treatment message.

Just be satisfied with whatever memory you have of her and move on.

Right on all counts. There really wouldn't have been anythiing there given the age difference I didn't know about at the time. There's something about her, though. I feel like a moth attracted to a candle flame. I would fly into it knowing I would get burned.

[Uniquemind]

Yep, you called that right. She is certainly that and that's why I like talking to her. She's interesting.



Mkay. Will do.



Right on all counts. There really wouldn't have been anythiing there given the age difference I didn't know about at the time. There's something about her, though. I feel like a moth attracted to a candle flame. I would fly into it knowing I would get burned.

Then in this case I would psycho-analyze yourself to understand what about her personality and what traits draw you into such a personality.

People and personality types have patterns, within those, you can begin to "forecast" your future or sense trends in social group behavior, and sense within yourself what is a crush, love, platonic admiration, intellectual stimulus, and drive.

The first step is knowing yourself, the second is knowing how and why you are drawn into a person, the third step is bracing for reality's good growth or bad shattering of those built up expectations.

Both genders do this to a degree and usually breakups occur after the "honeymoon swooning; usually a lot of sex happens early on" phase ends.

[Cadanance00]

Then in this case I would psycho-analyze yourself to understand what about her personality and what traits draw you into such a personality.

People and personality types have patterns, within those, you can begin to "forecast" your future or sense trends in social group behavior, and sense within yourself what is a crush, love, platonic admiration, intellectual stimulus, and drive.

The first step is knowing yourself, the second is knowing how and why you are drawn into a person, the third step is bracing for reality's good growth or bad shattering of those built up expectations.

Both genders do this to a degree and usually breakups occur after the "honeymoon swooning; usually a lot of sex happens early on" phase ends.

I've thought about that. It seems like I'm attracted to girls that aren't that attracted to me. My first gf wasn't exclusive with me. I don't think that bothered me as much as her on-again off-again feelings about me. Sort of.

There are a couple of girls I had crushes on until people told me they were lesbians and I didn't have a chance. Too bad. They are attractive and smart. I wonder if it's not being able to have something that makes me want it.

[Uniquemind]

I've thought about that. It seems like I'm attracted to girls that aren't that attracted to me. My first gf wasn't exclusive with me. I don't think that bothered me as much as her on-again off-again feelings about me. Sort of.

There are a couple of girls I had crushes on until people told me they were lesbians and I didn't have a chance. Too bad. They are attractive and smart. I wonder if it's not being able to have something that makes me want it.

Your former girlfriend was less promiscuous than the girl from the party.

There's a certain monogamy your looking for I think emotionally, and that is worth exploring about yourself, and then take that and add on the real world reality that people tend to want to explore sexually and romantically. Real life romances are rarely the monogamy that Disney portrays, just look to those older than us (adults) and listen to all the divorce drama.

Humans are messy and it doesn't get better overtime.

Imho, it does seem that as people age, in many cases people settle for what the can get. When people are young and at the height of attractive youthfulness, it's like a stock trade, people swap people around like currency.

Just what I've noticed.

[Cadanance00]

Your former girlfriend was less promiscuous than the girl from the party.

There's a certain monogamy your looking for I think emotionally, and that is worth exploring about yourself, and then take that and add on the real world reality that people tend to want to explore sexually and romantically. Real life romances are rarely the monogamy that Disney portrays, just look to those older than us (adults) and listen to all the divorce drama.

Humans are messy and it doesn't get better overtime.

Imho, it does seem that as people age, in many cases people settle for what the can get. When people are young and at the height of attractive youthfulness, it's like a stock trade, people swap people around like currency.

Just what I've noticed.

Yeah, I know. I'm the product of a non-monogamous marriage. I wonder if that could have something to do with it.

[PinkFloyd]

Dude, you were used for sex. It goes against the norm for sure, but yeah.

[Cadanance00]

Dude, you were used for sex. It goes against the norm for sure, but yeah.

That's what. I feel used. Now I understand what it's like when guys do it to girls.

[Uniquemind]

Don't try to imply that's what the majority does, 'cause uh no. I mean it's cool to have a fuckbuddy in like a casual relationship, but in a marriage? nah, that shit's gotta stop by then.

No it's about 50/50 I think. By the time people get married by our standards as teens, they're "old and settle down".

Also the average number of sex partners is around 4 I think last time I read that sociology and sex study.

[Cadanance00]

No it's about 50/50 I think. By the time people get married by our standards as teens, they're "old and settle down".

Also the average number of sex partners is around 4 I think last time I read that sociology and sex study.

'K. I think I'm ready to move on to No. 3 if the last on counts as a sex partner. I'm burned out on trying to love somebody. Maybe I'll just look for a fuck buddy.

[Body odah Man]

Okay, WTF happened here? I went to a party Sat night at my cousins. There was this girl there I didn't know, she doesn't go to my school. She was real friendly to me and we talked a lot & then went out in the back yard and hooked up. After that she acted like she wasn't much interested in me and talked to other people mostly. She wasn't rude or anything but yesterday she won't answer my texts or anything. I'd like to talk to her again but I'm wondering what that was all about. I want to know if it was something I did or just what. I'm kind of strung out about it.

Wow, that's just weird

[Body odah Man]

No it's about 50/50 I think. By the time people get married by our standards as teens, they're "old and settle down".

Also the average number of sex partners is around 4 I think last time I read that sociology and sex study.

And here I am still a virgin. I hope to find a nice potential marriage partner soon

[Uniquemind]

Don't try to imply that's what the majority does, 'cause uh no. I mean it's cool to have a fuckbuddy in like a casual relationship, but in a marriage? nah, that shit's gotta stop by then.

Well think about it, of your friends and people you know, how many have divorced parents, or single parents, or if not caught someone's cheating on the side. The divorce rate indicates what's going on here for those older than us.

I have no idea how many marriages are monogamous but I'm willing to bet humanity hasn't really changed all that much in the past 100 years or so. We still suffer from the same flaws and temptations on a mass broad scale.

My family does know of a few couples though who are married legally, but practice serial monogamy "get out of jail free" cards.

Every couple is different and the details of what makes or breaks a relationship are complicated, but there's definitely patterns.

[Just JT]

you got a lot of good advise here. But going forward, please, for everyone's best interest, get some condoms, that way your like a Boy Scout and always prepared for when the like head is telling the big head what to do

One night stands.....if you hook up like that, then take it for what it is, do you really want a long term relationship with someone who does that?

When you see your doctor, talk with him privatly, with out mom, and ask him, if in the future will he be able to keep such things private between you and him. The HIPPA laws are pretty clear that parents have the right to have access, but does not mandate they report things to the parents.

Also, not to freak you out, but she didn't return your texts, then told you to stop, mom said you shouldn't take advantage of girls like that.....I see a theme, a pattern here....be careful, she could claim rape, and in her position, might be an easier convo to have with her parents if she's pregnant. Especially when it was outside in the back yard like that. So if your cousins know her, I'd ask them about what's up....maybe even get a new cell number if that's the only way she knows how to contact you. Kinda shady, but hey..... But if she knows how to reach you some other way, even through a mutual "friend"'or what ever, even if it's possible, then don't do it, it'll make you look guilty as hell.

Also, they probably won't test for herpies u les you show symptoms because of how expensive the test is, so be aware of that to. Yeah, been there....

Just take this as a teachable moment, I hate to say that cause it's used with me a lot, but it really applies here bro. It's a shitty end to shat sounds like coulda been something good, or you wanted to be good.

Good luck, keep us up to date, think we'd like to see how you make out here.
And remember, mom was only pissed cause she loves you, ya know?

[Cadanance00]

One night stands.....if you hook up like that, then take it for what it is, do you really want a long term relationship with someone who does that?
Yeah, I thought a lot about that. Makes me sad.

When you see your doctor, talk with him privatly, with out mom, and ask him, if in the future will he be able to keep such things private between you and him. The HIPPA laws are pretty clear that parents have the right to have access, but does not mandate they report things to the parents.

Too late for that. I already told mom. Got bitched out royal by the doctor, too.

Also, not to freak you out, but she didn't return your texts, then told you to stop, mom said you shouldn't take advantage of girls like that.....I see a theme, a pattern here....be careful, she could claim rape, and in her position, might be an easier convo to have with her parents if she's pregnant. Especially when it was outside in the back yard like that. So if your cousins know her, I'd ask them about what's up....maybe even get a new cell number if that's the only way she knows how to contact you. Kinda shady, but hey..... But if she knows how to reach you some other way, even through a mutual "friend"'or what ever, even if it's possible, then don't do it, it'll make you look guilty as hell.

Not worried about that. My cuz knows her and says she's just a flake, that she doesn't do drama.

Also, they probably won't test for herpies u les you show symptoms because of how expensive the test is, so be aware of that to. Yeah, been there....

Just take this as a teachable moment, I hate to say that cause it's used with me a lot, but it really applies here bro. It's a shitty end to shat sounds like coulda been something good, or you wanted to be good.

Yeh, doc says if I got herp, there's nothing he can do about it anyway except some drugs to suppress it or treat the symptoms. Nothing so far. Cuz says she does everybody once. *fingers crossed*.

Good luck, keep us up to date, think we'd like to see how you make out here.
And remember, mom was only pissed cause she loves you, ya know?

Mom was pissed cuz she bought me condoms when I didn't have any money & started being sexually active. Said she didn't raise me to be stupid.

Still, I like her. She's creative and good looking and interesting to talk to. I just wish she wasn't so fucked up. But...there wouldn't be anything there anyway due to the age gap. I guess I was just flattered that she took an interest in me.

[Uniquemind]

Yeah, I thought a lot about that. Makes me sad.



Too late for that. I already told mom. Got bitched out royal by the doctor, too.



Not worried about that. My cuz knows her and says she's just a flake, that she doesn't do drama.



Yeh, doc says if I got herp, there's nothing he can do about it anyway except some drugs to suppress it or treat the symptoms. Nothing so far. Cuz says she does everybody once. *fingers crossed*.



Mom was pissed cuz she bought me condoms when I didn't have any money & started being sexually active. Said she didn't raise me to be stupid.

Still, I like her. She's creative and good looking and interesting to talk to. I just wish she wasn't so fucked up. But...there wouldn't be anything there anyway due to the age gap. I guess I was just flattered that she took an interest in me.

She got problems I think, or the constant attention from boys and men make her feel worthy of something.

If I had access to her "life story" like a librarian would have access to a book, I would bet there's been some kind of abuse in her background or in her family growing up. There's a thrill-seeker-self-destructive behavior quality about her.


Good luck with not having herpes, I know you'll keep us updated, and I guess this means the doctor didn't want to test for it?

[Just JT]

Yeah, I thought a lot about that. Makes me sad.



Too late for that. I already told mom. Got bitched out royal by the doctor, too.



Not worried about that. My cuz knows her and says she's just a flake, that she doesn't do drama.



Yeh, doc says if I got herp, there's nothing he can do about it anyway except some drugs to suppress it or treat the symptoms. Nothing so far. Cuz says she does everybody once. *fingers crossed*.



Mom was pissed cuz she bought me condoms when I didn't have any money & started being sexually active. Said she didn't raise me to be stupid.

Still, I like her. She's creative and good looking and interesting to talk to. I just wish she wasn't so fucked up. But...there wouldn't be anything there anyway due to the age gap. I guess I was just flattered that she took an interest in me.

I knew mom already knew, you told her, and in the bigger picture, that was the right thing to do. That's what moms are for when you need help like that, but it comes with consequences really, you know that.

But what I was referring to was for in the future, that way you could contact him on your own for more privacy, worth a phone call...

[Cadanance00]

She got problems I think, or the constant attention from boys and men make her feel worthy of something.

If I had access to her "life story" like a librarian would have access to a book, I would bet there's been some kind of abuse in her background or in her family growing up. There's a thrill-seeker-self-destructive behavior quality about her.


Good luck with not having herpes, I know you'll keep us updated, and I guess this means the doctor didn't want to test for it?

I think you're right although I can't imagine what the abuse would be since I know a little about her family. Course that's no guarantee of anything. Hurts all the more since I like her and care what happens to her.

[Cadanance00]

She got problems I think, or the constant attention from boys and men make her feel worthy of something.

If I had access to her "life story" like a librarian would have access to a book, I would bet there's been some kind of abuse in her background or in her family growing up. There's a thrill-seeker-self-destructive behavior quality about her.


Good luck with not having herpes, I know you'll keep us updated, and I guess this means the doctor didn't want to test for it?

I knew mom already knew, you told her, and in the bigger picture, that was the right thing to do. That's what moms are for when you need help like that, but it comes with consequences really, you know that.

But what I was referring to was for in the future, that way you could contact him on your own for more privacy, worth a phone call...

Yeah, doc says come back if I get a lesion as there's drugs that will help, but not cure it. Said keep your dick in your pants or wear a bag.

My sis asked why I was grounded and I told her. She said,. 'you're a slut, slut, slut.' and laughed at me.

[Uniquemind]

Your sister is just giving you a hard time.