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Riechedly
April 11th, 2016, 09:19 AM
I'm 15 year old and in the 9th grade

In the 8th grade this girl was chasing me dropping alot of hints she likes me I flirted back. But I was also acting aloof

She ask me on a date and I forgot it. Next day she pretended we had te greatest date ever.

She also ask as joke to her manly friend if he likes her and he answered very sarcastic
So I tought they were joking. Then she ask me and I said no not at all. But I saw her looking at me very sad and then looked away

1 hour later she tried to hug me but I jumped away. Then she began to be racist cause I am asian.

So I didn't like her anymore. But we would still flirt.

1 year later things got less. December she deleted my phone number and in January we were ignoring each other till she tried to talk to me couple of times

Then when we got 1 Week vacation I texted if she wanted to hangout She thought I was someone else and it was a a joke. Till I showed prove but then she rejected me.

But Monday school started and she came with her friends. 1 screamed Relationship goals and the other ask if I really wanted to date her. I was so nervous I replied it was a joke

But now we didn't ignore each other and we would just say hello when seeing each other.

She also walked alot passed me when having lunch but I was to shy to look at her so I looked somewhere else. She also tried to text me 2 times but I've reacted to late and she would say Nevermind.

2 weeks ago she ask me if I like her. And I said yes she thought I was joking at first. She wanted to talk to me on school about it but nothing happend

The next day I've ask her out
She ask questions like
As friends or
How long you like me
Why didn't you say anything

And then she said ill think about it.

Sunday I texted her if she knew the answer. And she rejected me.

The I ask if she likes me and then she said no I'm sorry man.....

Can anyone explain me this situation and how to fix this cause I really like her

Uniquemind
April 11th, 2016, 08:24 PM
I'm 15 year old and in the 9th grade

In the 8th grade this girl was chasing me dropping alot of hints she likes me I flirted back. But I was also acting aloof

She ask me on a date and I forgot it. Next day she pretended we had te greatest date ever.

She also ask as joke to her manly friend if he likes her and he answered very sarcastic
So I tought they were joking. Then she ask me and I said no not at all. But I saw her looking at me very sad and then looked away

1 hour later she tried to hug me but I jumped away. Then she began to be racist cause I am asian.

So I didn't like her anymore. But we would still flirt.

1 year later things got less. December she deleted my phone number and in January we were ignoring each other till she tried to talk to me couple of times

Then when we got 1 Week vacation I texted if she wanted to hangout She thought I was someone else and it was a a joke. Till I showed prove but then she rejected me.

But Monday school started and she came with her friends. 1 screamed Relationship goals and the other ask if I really wanted to date her. I was so nervous I replied it was a joke

But now we didn't ignore each other and we would just say hello when seeing each other.

She also walked alot passed me when having lunch but I was to shy to look at her so I looked somewhere else. She also tried to text me 2 times but I've reacted to late and she would say Nevermind.

2 weeks ago she ask me if I like her. And I said yes she thought I was joking at first. She wanted to talk to me on school about it but nothing happend

The next day I've ask her out
She ask questions like
As friends or
How long you like me
Why didn't you say anything

And then she said ill think about it.

Sunday I texted her if she knew the answer. And she rejected me.

The I ask if she likes me and then she said no I'm sorry man.....

Can anyone explain me this situation and how to fix this cause I really like her


I did. I explained this to you, why do you keep ignoring my replies?

You burned her by being fickle and now it seems she feels stood up.

ska8er
April 12th, 2016, 05:57 AM
Shes rejected u-take a clue.
Its over-Find someone else.

ClaraWho
April 12th, 2016, 11:11 AM
I did. I explained this to you, why do you keep ignoring my replies?

You burned her by being fickle and now it seems she feels stood up.

Basically the first line of this. We both explained it in depth.

~ Clara