Rape Fantasies?

[LastingCare]

Hello everybody,

I am a 13 year old and have just started entering puberty. I have lots of rape fantasies that I masturbate too, and it just really turns me on. I don't want to rape girls in real life, it is just one of my more popular fantasies. Is this normal? I'm scared that I will grow up to be a rapist.

[swimjoey1]

Nah..I think it's just puberty. As long as you don't act on it. I got some crazy fantasies as well.

[JustThatPerson]

I wouldn't call it good, but it probably isn't unheard of. It probably is just something you are going through in puberty.

[Canadian Dream]

Well it does sound unusual, but I wouldn't worry unless it starts affecting your behavior in real life. If you're really conscious about consent and that stuff when you're in a relationship and about to have sex I don't see a problem.

[Mikeymic]

That's pretty intense, I suggest you talk to someone about what youre feeling if it gets more intense. Like classically said, just make a rule to yourself about consent

[ska8er]

Just don't get too horny and
attempt it-control urself-Dude.

[Kory123]

Keep it in your pants!

just kidding, its normal man no worries, been where you are. just puberty ( i think im still going throught it:lol:)

[Second Chance]

Hello everybody,

I am a 13 year old and have just started entering puberty. I have lots of rape fantasies that I masturbate too, and it just really turns me on. I don't want to rape girls in real life, it is just one of my more popular fantasies. Is this normal? I'm scared that I will grow up to be a rapist.

It is hard to say what is normal and what's not in puberty, but I would say try to move away from this kind of fantasy and interest because nothing good will come from it. It is one thing if you like rough kind of sex, but rape is something you never want to get turned on by because it is something that is truly evil and bad in every way. When you masturbate, then try to think of something else because rape fantasies are something that are pretty disturbing. Granted, you are not going to actually go out there and rape someone, but it is still not a good interest to have even in the back of your mind because it can come out when you least expect it. You do not want to develop a rape fetish which can lead to problems later on.

Whenever you think about doing something sexual with someone even if it is only in your mind, then respect always comes first. Anytime force gets mixed up with sex, then it always ends up badly for everyone involved.

[TheLotus]

There's people that are into a lot of different things. This could just be one of those things you are into. Just because you like it, doesn't mean you will actually do it yourself. It's also the start of puberty so hormones will be a little out of control and everything will get you going. Learn to control yourself and you should be fine

[Impressionist1910]

I'm not sure that you will grow up to be a rapist.
And until you do anything to act on any sexual fantasy, it is just a fantasy.
This one however, is a titch unusual.
Just be careful with it, and don't do anything to act on it (unless it's a shared rape fantasy. [Believe me, that's a THING.]).
And if it helps you out, I'm sure it would feel great to talk to someone you trust about it.
Maybe you don't have to,
It's just if you're feeling uneasy about it, maybe talking to a trusted friend would help.

[LFox96]

Okay! Don't freak out! You aren't going to be a rapist, your mind is just mentally engaging in things that make your hormones increase causing you to get horny. I know this because about two months ago I was on a cruise with family and I didn't have the chance to jerk off during the cruise. So one night I actually had a dream about rape, and for some odd reason it turned out to be a wet dream. Just because you fantasize about something doesn't mean that you are going to do it in your real life, that is why it is called a fantasy.

[KingWavy]

I think you're fine because you can prevent yourself from being a rapists, I just think if it starts affecting you more and more as you get older, you may want to check that out.

[jockeyboy97]

it's crazy hormones. Concentrate on kissing and making love to girls rather than thinking about rape. I think you get so horny and your emotions are over the place. Try thinking about girls in a nice way.

[Bluebyrd]

Bro, if you don't want to actually rape people then it's fine. Just make sure you keep it under control.

[everlong]

I guess it's fine as long as you know it's wrong

[Riley2015]

I can't see anything wrong with it as a wank fantasy tbh. Some of my wank fantasies are not particularly ''good'' or ''nice'' either but when i am masturbating for some reason they seem very hot and horny. As soon as i cum they don't seem horny anymore and only turn me on again the next time i masturbate. Nice and normal things seem a bit dull to me when i am wanking

[Zachary G]

Your fantasies may not be about the rape but the dominating part of the fantasy is what may be really getting. The power that comes with subduing someone and having them submit to you.

[Zbmrnb16]

I wouldn't worry about it as long as you understand that you CAN NOT rape someone in real life.

[Londongirl01]

I wouldn't say its fully normal to have a rape fantasy, but that doesn't automatically make you weird either. I think we all have our own thoughts that are a bit off the wall, it doesn't mean that person is bad or odd though xxx

[kev1998]

Different things turn guys on. You may be attracted to the bondage or the forbidden factor of sex which could be carried out through role play. Just don't act on the actual rape thing though.