I'm very confused

[Firis]

So, a few months ago, I started questioning my sexuality. There's been a lot of back and forth, with really no outcome. This is really bothering me. I would like to be able to identify as something, so could you please read this and tell me what it sounds like to you and then I can look into it.

In my mind, I always picture myself with a guy first whenever I think about my future partner. I talk and banter with guys a lot more and easier. I prefer the idea of being with a guy. But, whenever I'm hanging out with a guy or I see a guy or something like that, I hate the idea of being in a sexual relationship with them. I immediately get disgusted. With a girl however, I don't. For a while, I've been labeling myself as lesbian, but now I don't know anymore.

I've been thinking hetero-romantic homosexual maybe? What do you guys think?

[lemondrop]

hi,well don't rush with those labels i guess. I would recommend to experiment - try to get in a relationship with a guy ,if u don't like that try with a girl, because your thoughts counters each other. If i were you , i would start to worry about this thing after 18(maybe you're already 18).

[DoodleSnap]

My best advice is to worry less about labels, and instead just keep an open mind and let experience and time guide you towards what you like. I just use bisexual as a catch all term for myself, but even that isn't quite right for me. At the end of the day, I'm just me. Sexuality is a very fluid thing, so don't feel that you have to be defined by a label. Just give yourself some time, and don't feel like you have to put yourself into a box to be who you are.

Good luck.