Girls: do you care if we stare

[Trait]

Girls at my school always wear yoga pants and shirts that show cleavage. Girls do you care if a boy stares at you? Any answers would be great.

[ImAurora]

I do, yeah... which is why I generally don't wear stuff that shows off a lot.
Edit: I mean yeah, I'll take it as a compliment, but if it gets to the point of being creepy...

[Taryn98]

no I don't care
in fact, I consider it a compliment
just make sure to look but don't touch

[Sierra98]

Depends what you mean by stare. I don't mind if a guy has a look.. especially if I put on clothes that I know are gonna show off some things. But if drool starts running out of a corner of his mouth while he has a blank expression on his face with his eyes fixed on my butt or something I might feel a bit awkward :p

[ClaireMarie]

I'll take it as a compliment, but if it gets to the point of being creepy...

Same here !
I love to show off my body, because I'm proud of, so I like when boys and girls look at me...

[becca07]

I think its fine for both guys and girls to take a peek and "sample the goods" so to speak.

Its natural. Girls do it too. However I think when someone stares/lets their eyes linger for more than the avg peek (as Sierra said "drooling" and just does the creepy prolonged stare it can make people feel uncomfortable and I may even take it as there is something on me or wrong with my outfit.

[stacy1203]

Usualy I don't mind, unless it becomes too creepy.

[anyone50]

that would depend on who's doing the staring

[GreyGoldfish]

No guy has ever stared at me. But if they did, I would consider it a compliment.

[loliqueen123]

Guys stare at me all the time! Its fine until they come to talk to me and they are still staring! It gets creepy after a while

[Amber98]

they always stare at me and i like it :P

[Star Wolf]

Yes, I do. I have a very big problem with it. It feels invasive and violating, and I am disgusted by it.

[Allison415]

I love it when guys stare at me! That's why I wear revealing clothes!

[OhSweetMaple]

Why do u think those girls wear that?

[SweetFang]

If you don't look or stare then I'm wasting a lot of time. We stare back but we hide it better. :P

[Karkat]

I feel extremely uncomfortable with sexual attention from males. It throws me off a little bit with females, but I'm a little more open to it (especially if they're attractive, which means most)

The only guy I like staring at me is my guy, haha. Even when I was single I never liked it when guys stared for some reason. That's just me though- I know there are girls out there who love/beg for it, but generally assume that there's a limit. Don't be creepy.

[SixSmith]

I am studying at a catholic school and our school head have rules for what we should wear and what we should not. That's why I'm a bit conservative about how will I look in front of many especially on decent occasions. As a girl, I find it attractive for guys who do not give any malicious look but I think girls should wear appropriate dress if they really want to be respected :). Well for your question, of course I do care. A lot. That's my body you're staring at and I'm not like one of those girls who are so liberated enough to show off their parts. And I'm a virgin, this body is just for my dream guy who I have not met yet and patiently waiting for.

[Curious.kid]

Girls make it distracting to learn in school because of it. I can't help but want to take a peak and just look sometimes. It's the weirdest feeling because it's like I can't control it even if I've looked before I'll want to look a few seconds later.

[Curious.kid]

Yes, I do. I have a very big problem with it. It feels invasive and violating, and I am disgusted by it.

Some times we just can not help it. Sorry! There's just something about it that makes us want to see and trust me it's kind of annoying because it's hard to pay attention in class when you sit across from a cute girl.

[Sarah1996]

I don't mind at all

[Lisa R]

I don't mind if they give me a quick look and not stare.
To me staring is creepy and make me uncomfortable .

[Sminkelaks]

A few looks are ok, I just take it as a compliment. Staring is not ok. That's creepy.

[Sydneyy]

You can look but you can't touch.

[SweetFang]

I am studying at a catholic school and our school head have rules for what we should wear and what we should not. That's why I'm a bit conservative about how will I look in front of many especially on decent occasions. As a girl, I find it attractive for guys who do not give any malicious look but I think girls should wear appropriate dress if they really want to be respected :). Well for your question, of course I do care. A lot. That's my body you're staring at and I'm not like one of those girls who are so liberated enough to show off their parts. And I'm a virgin, this body is just for my dream guy who I have not met yet and patiently waiting for.

I go to Catholic school too and we wear uniforms. Maybe thats why I like when boys stare. They have to be imaging whats under my skirt cause nothing shows. :P

I havent done anything with a guy either.

[carg1415]

I don't care if you looked like quickly or glace a couple of times, I'd also take it as a compliment but if I see a guy staring for a long periods of time or only focusing on that part of me I wouldn't really like it and would really creep me out.

[hotgirlwtits]

Depends what you mean by stare. I don't mind if a guy has a look.. especially if I put on clothes that I know are gonna show off some things. But if drool starts running out of a corner of his mouth while he has a blank expression on his face with his eyes fixed on my butt or something I might feel a bit awkward :p

Yeah lol, I wear yoga pants, like a lot of my friends do, and the thing is guys will always stare if they thing your hot, even if your wearing yoga pants or not.

[Ashley13]

Yea, I usually run into problems like this, especially with measurements like mine. I don't usually do yoga pants, and (especially) tight tops or low necklines, but when someone's staring, I get embarrassed, even though I shouldn't. But, if you're staring (and even if you're drooling) and I don't notice, I'm fine with it, simply because I don't know it's happening, and how could you get offended about something you don't know?

[mattdude_12345]

For what it matters, I wish fewer girls cared :)

[janiceturner]

For what it matters, I wish fewer girls cared :)

I don't!

Girls stare at boys as much as boys stare at girls, so I think its kinda hypocritical when girls who stare at boys think its creepy when a boy stares at them...

[PurpleLips]

only if you do it sneaky:P

[Nanael]

i dont care :) i like it and i smile :)

[yonkers7]

Also depends on what you're wearing...yoga pants and low skirts/low tops = you're asking for it.

[Harley Quinn]

Also depends on what you're wearing...yoga pants and low skirts/low tops = you're asking for it.

Are you actually being 100% serious right now?

[cherylcherylX2]

Well, if you just glance and maybe look for abit, most people don't mind. Obviously don't fucking ogle openly and you should be fine.

[Karkat]

Also depends on what you're wearing...yoga pants and low skirts/low tops = you're asking for it.

Are you actually being 100% serious right now?

Agree with Siobhan! Clothing, or lack thereof, is not a free ticket to sexual harassment or assault. Besides, 'low cut' has a totally different meaning for top heavy girls. Sometimes we can't help but show some cleavage, or else we have to only wear shirts that come up to the collarbone. Seriously.

[ScottishCanary]

I sometimes wish boys would take a look at me more often *hehe*

Though I agree with what others have already said, a little look now and again is quite flattering and I guess everyone does it, I mean I check out boys all the time so only fair the boys get to check out the girls. Though proper staring at someone is just awkward!

[LifeOfLove]

I'm normally not a fan, but I wear clothes that make it a little less interesting to look.

[yonkers7]

Are you actually being 100% serious right now?

I didn't mean to insinuate that girls want to be looked at so they decide to wear these....what i meant was that, with yoga pants in particular, you can't get angry if a guy checks you out....it'd be like if guys wore super tight compression shorts around and got angry if someone mentioned their penis.....this is reality like it or not

Agree with Siobhan! Clothing, or lack thereof, is not a free ticket to sexual harassment or assault. Besides, 'low cut' has a totally different meaning for top heavy girls. Sometimes we can't help but show some cleavage, or else we have to only wear shirts that come up to the collarbone. Seriously.

Checking someone out doesn't qualify as sexual harassment or assault....and i mean blatantly obvious low-cut, party-going clothing

[jess_cunningham]

nopers I don't mind :) unless it starts getting uber creepy and they like start making faces at me or something