Best Friend Playing With My Emotions

[Emotions]

Ive been friends with this guy for over two years, in that short time we have gotten very close. We could know what each others responses were to any question. He helped me out a lot with depression and family issues and i could trust him with anything. Everything seemed perfect, but yesterday things changed. He sent me a message saying he doesn't think we can be friends anymore. I of course asked why and he said he was sick of me, i asked him what did i do and he said it was a long time coming. I kept questioning to try to get more, but he just said that he wants to move on. At this point im devastated, i just lost the person who ive talked to everyday for two years, the person who knows more about me then anyone ive ever known. I have a hard time opening up to people, i have issues with friends. Everytime a friend starts to get close, i find a way to push them a way, but he was different. I've told him everything about me and he just said he didn't want to be friends anymore... Today he calls me and tells me it was just a joke, i told him that it was not even funny and then he just turned into a complete dick. All of this has made me lose trust and confidence in our friendship, i don't want to lose him but i kinda feel like we are growing apart.

[Sailor Mars]

He's a fucking dick. Doing that with someone you know is emotional? No fucking excuse. He doesn't deserve any type of care you have for him. You can't even trust him, what's the point then?

[Bontigo Papi .]

He's a fucking dick. Doing that with someone you know is emotional? No fucking excuse. He doesn't deserve any type of care you have for him. You can't even trust him, what's the point then?

Calm down Mila lmao XD .

Yeah , he is a dick , but its probably better that way . Believe me , he'll try to find a way back to become your friend , you could let him be your friend again , but you probably don't wanna be stuck with the doubt he could hurt you again . Its up to you if you want to get your friendship back , but I suggest you drop it . Its really not worth it.

[Zachary G]

I have always been told that the truth is often told in a joke, so if I were you, Id be leery of him from this point on. It was real dickish of him to play that kind of "joke" on you and it would make me question his integrity and commitment to our friendship. Be careful dude, guard your feelings when it comes to him.

[Melodic]

I had a friend who did stuff like that. Sticking around someone like that will just bring so much negativity and insecurity in your life. Been there, done that. It's best to just let that one friend go before it goes too far.

[Microcosm]

Emotions,

Perhaps try to talk to him less. Step back and see if he cares about you. Don't make efforts to talk to him for a while and see if he comes to you. If he does consistently come back to you, then he probably still cares. If he doesn't, he probably doesn't value you that much.

Friends can turn hostile quickly sometimes. If he starts making you feel bad about yourself because of stupid "jokes" like this, let him go. He's not worth risking your self-confidence and well-being, and he's especially not if he doesn't even value you in the first place.

[West Coast Sheriff]

That's messed up. Slowly distance yourself from him. Besides, it's extremely unhealthy to invest all of yourself in one person.

[NickTheStar]

Slap him. He is a asswipe.

[buttercup75]

You deserve better friends than him. The only reason you want him back is because he was really close to you but you gotta let him go. No doubt he is a dick. You'll find better friends than him, the ones who can be truly trusted. If u want, you guys can sort out things and he can be given another chance but only if u think he deserves it.