It's all so confusing..

[Discover]

Hello,

For I guess a few years now I've been questioning my sexuality. When I was younger I never really thought about this. When all my friends began talking about girls and stuff.

One moment I think men are attractive and good looking and the other time I find girls good looking and kind of attractive but If I see a picture of a woman or something I don't really think it's hot or something.

I can't really explain it. How do I know for sure what my sexuality is? I don't want to be insecure about this all the time. Or do you have any tips for me? I'd like to hear them.

[lemondrop]

Hi,hmm.. You might be bi towards boys ? Not sure

[Elliott_hn]

I'm the same pretty much. Sorry I can't offer any advice brah. Yeah you could be bi towards boys?

[DoodleSnap]

Sexuality is very confusing for everyone - you're not alone in being confused.
I went through something similar to what you're going through a couple of years ago, where I found out that I liked guys. It took me a while to come to terms with it, but the conclusion I have come to now is that sexuality is a very fluid thing, something that changes a lot. I sometimes find myself liking girls more, I more often prefer guys, but even within the attraction to different genders, the role I perceive myself to occupy in sex changes very regularly. My best advice is to ignore the concept of labels, and just let time and experience guide you towards working out what you like. A label should describe you, not define you, so just keep an open mind and forgo being constrained by a label.
I sometimes use the bisexual label to describe myself quickly to others, but even that doesn't perfectly fit me. I just try to see myself as me, regardless of any of the boxes that society want us to occupy. Just do what feels right to you.

Good luck.

[ska8er]

When u find out please private message me.
I wish I can explain it but I cannot.
I get hot with girls and guys-Idk y.

[Hudor]

Hello,

For I guess a few years now I've been questioning my sexuality. When I was younger I never really thought about this. When all my friends began talking about girls and stuff.

One moment I think men are attractive and good looking and the other time I find girls good looking and kind of attractive but If I see a picture of a woman or something I don't really think it's hot or something.

I can't really explain it. How do I know for sure what my sexuality is? I don't want to be insecure about this all the time. Or do you have any tips for me? I'd like to hear them.

Being 19, you're probably reaching the end of puberty and the influence of hormones will probably start lessening soon.
Have you tried dating yet? You could try dating both guys and girls and see what you like more.
There's a sticky thread explaining sexuality at the top of this section. You could check it out. I found it helpful.