Sharing

[Daniella98]

Hi
Not many days ago I posted a thread called: Being shared.
Its about having sex with another guy while your boyfriend is watching...

Im reading a book by Sasha Grey called: The Juliette Society (to the best of my translation)
Around the middle of the book the main character has a fantasy of seeing her boyfriend having sex with her friend, and it got me wondering a lot, cause I just posted a thread about it, in reversed order.

Is there any of you who would be turned on by sitting beside the bed watching your boyfriend have sex with another girl (maybe a friend of yours)?

If you decide to answer this, please answer the other thread: 'Being shared' too. And dont be affraid to have double standards. Thats okay for me.

Thanks

[Jennboh]

i've fantasized about it. like ive fantasized about my bf fucking my best friend, and then me giving him a bj right afterwards so i can taste her on him. i dont know if id ever actually do it though....

[Daniella98]

i've fantasized about it. like ive fantasized about my bf fucking my best friend, and then me giving him a bj right afterwards so i can taste her on him. i dont know if id ever actually do it though....
Would you be affraid of losing him to her if they had sex?

[anyone50]

I tried the sharing thing a little while back and my bf watched actually it was more like a orgy and I think it would have been better to leave as a fantasy

[Sminkelaks]

I don't think I would. When I get a boyfriend, I want to keep him for myself. :P

[Daniella98]

I could find it sexy to see it from outside, what he usually does with me and to see what it does to another girl. It could actually make me want him even more.
My perspective on sex is that its not a minefield. Our hearts can easily belong to eachother regardless of sexlife. And if sharing turns some couples on, its just one more factor which enhance the sexlife.

[Abnormal]

Well, to be honest, I've thought about it. But the only one I'd ever consider sharing with is my best friend. And...it would have to be under special circumstances. Like, if she needed a boost in self-esteem. I'm cool with it.

[Jennboh]

Would you be affraid of losing him to her if they had sex?

i dont know. maybe. Thats prolly why i wouldnt actually do it.

[ninja789]

take away the videotape and I'd do it probably

[mDavis97]

No way to me it'd be like being cheated on if he's my boyfriend I should be the only one he's fucking.

[Karkat]

Nah, I want to keep him to myself. Besides, in reverse order (me fucking someone else) it wouldn't even work because I wouldn't want to to begin with. I'm not sexually interested in anyone else, and I really don't care if I ever am.

[clairey]

I don't have a boyfriend yet but no way would I want to share.

[cherylcherylX2]

I think in a healthy relationship, sharing would be fine, if both parties are loving and consent to such an action. I cannot speak personally as I've never experienced a healthy experience of sharing, but I know people that have open relationships such as that, and I don't think there's anything wrong with it.

[Nanael]

i wouldnt mind doing that :)

[Lisa R]

I have a bf and there is no way i would share. I feel if I'm not good enough for him or if i don't make him happy then we shouldn't be together.
I'm a one man girl and he had better be a one girl man.

[anyone50]

No way to me it'd be like being cheated on if he's my boyfriend I should be the only one he's fucking.

Just curious but what about the idea of you having sex with another girl while in a relationship with a guy. I'm bi and my bf doesn't have a problem sharing me with anther girl in our bed and I am equally open-minded if he wants to join us as long as it's ok with her.

[mDavis97]

Well I mean I do that too but it's totally different if you're a guy and you're fucking another girl because there's actual penetration in that.

[KaraaaHope]

If it's mutual, no harm done.

[anyone50]

Well I mean I do that too but it's totally different if you're a guy and you're fucking another girl because there's actual penetration in that.

I can understand if he's out there looking for girls to fuck without you knowing that just wrong but if I'm with a girl and she's bi I'm ok with him penetrating her vagina. I don't see how it matters if he enters her vagina as long as your their otherwise it's a double standard

[juanita]

For me it's best left as a fantasy. Having another person involved might create unexpected feelings and destroy the initial relationship, although I guess it could make a new better one

[Rainbowfairy]

I've done it before it was fine as we both agreed, you have to set rules like will
He cum in you or her,
Will u just watch and not touch atall
Is he allowed to do stuff with her that u and him don't do

My biggest one has to be don't ask if she is better

[Danagal]

I have had sex around other people and them around me and we watched one another but not a so called boyfriend.

[shelby_caligurl_2000]

Well, to be honest, I've thought about it. But the only one I'd ever consider sharing with is my best friend. And...it would have to be under special circumstances. Like, if she needed a boost in self-esteem. I'm cool with it.

Couldn't have said it better!