Too big

[heylo]

Hi. I'm 16 and one week ago my girlfriend told me I'm too big for her. My ex didn't say anything, so is that because of her and not of me? I mean, it's 7.5 inches, it's not that big, right? What should I do? Should I talk with her or something? I'm so confused right now

[birdbrain01]

Sounds like a good problem to have.

[dysterian]

You're 7.5, that's a good size. I don't believe it is too big for sex, so ask your girlfriend if she isn't ready to have sex. Who knows? maybe she isn't ready.

[ska8er]

She should b happy with ur size-ur
above average. Talk to her and ask her
why-maybe ur too rough with her. There
has to b a reason. Its not Ur prob-its hers.

[Second Chance]

Hi. I'm 16 and one week ago my girlfriend told me I'm too big for her. My ex didn't say anything, so is that because of her and not of me? I mean, it's 7.5 inches, it's not that big, right? What should I do? Should I talk with her or something? I'm so confused right now

Like guys have different penis sizes girls are shaped differently down there, too. My guess is that your ex might have been a slightly bigger person and was able to handle a larger penis whereas your current girlfriend might be petite and probably cannot handle a large penis without pain.

I would definitely talk with your girlfriend and be open about the situation. Sex is all about feedback between the partners, and if she is freaked out about having sex right now, then just be patient and see if you both can do other things. You might need to take baby steps to having sex with her, and if and when you two have sex, then you have to take things really, really slow especially if you have wide girth. Talking to your girlfriend is the only way to go, and only do what she feels is comfortable. It just might take time for her to get used to your penis, and just don't pressure her because that will only make her dig in her heels. Whatever you do, don't compare her with your former girlfriend because that will only get her upset. I am sure she will come around, and if you are patient and understanding with her, then she will get confidence and trust you.

[KingWavy]

Sometimes girls are just too tight due to age, body type, etc so the more you do it the better chance you have at her getting comfortable with your penis

[birdbrain01]

Hi. I'm 16 and one week ago my girlfriend told me I'm too big for her. My ex didn't say anything, so is that because of her and not of me? I mean, it's 7.5 inches, it's not that big, right? What should I do? Should I talk with her or something? I'm so confused right now

What is your current age

[Rhys2001]

That is a great size, however I think you need to be gentler than what you may normally do because it is big, and if it were really rough then it would be uncomfortable, however i'm sure she'd have a great time if you warmed into it more perhaps...

[chetbonare]

Hey man, as said before she may not be ready for it yet. And was just shy of the idea.

But you're built fine, and in fact guys be jealous to compare with you in the locker room lol. I'm the same size far as length and I have no worries about sex when the time comes.

Hope this helps bro.

[nklarke]

Maybe she has a small vagina.

[Uranus]

One's loose and ones tight problem solved

[Bluebyrd]

Actually, 7.5 is big so don't be surprised if you're turned down in the future :P

[JediUnicornDXD]

Yeah, First of all nice one; genetics have looked upon you favorably. And yeah if she says your too big it could be a whole host of reasons. I heard of a friend of mine once asked her Ex what his size was to make sure he measured up. I dont recommend that exactly but maybe if she did have an Ex she may be under the assumption that boys penises are not as big as yours and her body isnt quite ready yet.

[Canadian Dream]

Well honestly I would start by telling her you can't do anything about it and just leave it at that. If however she keeps bringing it back up in your conversations or refuses to have sex for that particular reason, I don't think it's worth staying with her. To me a girl should not care what my penis size, and it goes both ways, too big or small.

[Jameson9]

She should b happy with ur size-ur
above average. Talk to her and ask her
why-maybe ur too rough with her. There
has to b a reason. Its not Ur prob-its hers.

I agree

[Kevgpdx]

Haha. I want to have that problem! I say find someone that appreciates you.

[harristhetank]

Every girl is different. Some can take bigger dick some can't. You are indeed on the large side of the spectrum. Don't worry about it too much though I am sure you will find someone who would enjoy every inch of you!

[presh jasper]

:wub: for you too enjoy having sex with you partner u both have to be emotionally and physicaly ready dont force her or compare her with ur ex cuz girls hate dat , rather be open discuss ...... Am open PM me:yeah:

[hairy balls]

Hey man, she may not be ready for it yet. And was just shy of the idea.

[Zbmrnb16]

That's a fairly large size, and it's not like you have to put it all in. Just discuss those kinds of things with her. Communication is a huge deal in sex.

[Mrsaxoman]

7.5 is big. Some people are just not comfortable with one that big.

[Thatkidsean001]

Be thankful for what you got

[nwtnguy]

You can never be too big or rich

[Coolguy2068]

Definetely should talk to her. Get lube and stuff