Sex in gay relationship

[Beach_Blonde]

I was just wondering does anyone notice that for whatever reason there seems to be more sex in a lesbain/gay relationship then a normal one.

I have been dating a girl, and we click emotionally but it also seems somewhat sex driven too. Idk i like it I just think its different was wondering if anyone else noticed this

[Iri_dium]

I'm not sure that that's true. I think it depends on the personalities of those who are in the relationships and besides the age :)

[lemondrop]

I'm not sure that that's true. I think it depends on the personalities of those who are in the relationships and besides the age :)


Totally agree

[Bull]

I'm not sure that that's true. I think it depends on the personalities of those who are in the relationships and besides the age :)

I would also add the availability of privacy to engage.

[KingWavy]

i think because you are so in tune with each other, you want to have sex. Like it sounds weird but you're so attracted to that person, you want them 24/7 so you want them at all times.

[SethfromMI]

I am dating a girl and I am quite active with her

[Beach_Blonde]

i think because you are so in tune with each other, you want to have sex. Like it sounds weird but you're so attracted to that person, you want them 24/7 so you want them at all times.

We are very intuned, I know when something is wrong when she isn't even near me, its crazy how it happens

I'm not sure that that's true. I think it depends on the personalities of those who are in the relationships and besides the age :)

whats the besides the age part

I would also add the availability of privacy to engage.

and we are in the closet so there is alot of privacy

[Uranus]

Yea that's not true. There's so many things wrong with that statement. Plus, why does it matter?

[Bull]

and we are in the closet so there is alot of privacy

What I meant was how often the two of you have an opportunity to engage in sexual activity. Some people have time daily when there is no one home, others have a hard time finding a time and place to be alone and away from prying eyes.

[Serra]

no I think its different for every relationship.

[LiamC]

My relationships have been about 50/50, I think it depends on the person. Some people just end up being really sex driven and I can deal with that but it can be offputtng to me. I want both, I was with one guy who'd just talk about sexual stuff allll the time and it's just too much :lol:

[northy]

The people in the relationship are what determines what they do. Some people may not want sex, only at certain times. This is relevant to both gay and straight relationships and I don't see what it has to do with sexuality.

[Beach_Blonde]

What I meant was how often the two of you have an opportunity to engage in sexual activity. Some people have time daily when there is no one home, others have a hard time finding a time and place to be alone and away from prying eyes.

no thats what i was saying....our parents don't know we are in a relationship they think we are just friends so we have a lot of privacy to do what we want

[Cadanance00]

I get that impression. From what my sister says of her friends they start earlier and do it more often.

[DoodleSnap]

As Billy says, in a closeted gay relationship, the parties will have more privacy, time on their own, and thus opportunities to engage in sexual activity. If the parents don't know, they'll let them sleep in the same room, etc: they won't even expect a thing.

However, if the parties in the relationship live on their own, I guess that it entirely depends on the personalities of those involved.

[Hermes]

no thats what i was saying....our parents don't know we are in a relationship they think we are just friends so we have a lot of privacy to do what we want

That's probably the explanation, then, rather than the sex of the partner/

[ImCoolBeans]

What information are you basing that off of? It seems to be a pretty huge generalization and I'm fairly certain it's not true.

[Zachary G]

I have never really paid much attention to it, but there is a possibility that you could be correct in your observation.

[iamsilkspectre]

I don't think that's true.

[RichD]

idk this is just my opinion but to me it seems that society in general has historically lumped together sexual activity and homosexuality under "vices" which still has repercussions today, in that most people who are shall we say "liberated" enough to disregard the traditional societal norms about homosexuality also choose to disregard the norms about sex. the other homosexual couples, perhaps they just really don't have interest in sexual activity.

note that for this discussion, I am excluding heterosexual sex within marriage, which has traditionally not been included as a vice.

again this is all just my opinion so please do not quote me on this for your thesis essay or whatever :P

---Rich

[kev1998]

Before I make my statement, don't take it the wrong way because I consider myself bi-sexual and see nothing wrong with gay or lesbians. I think that gays and lesbians do tend to have more sex because the majority of society looks upon their relationship as being forbidden and that makes sex much more erotic and exciting because you are going against what society interprets as the "norm". Perhaps we look at it in a non-sexual way. I have some friends that just turned 21. They would drink alcohol and party like "rockstars" when they were underage because it seemed fun and going against the laws and against society. Once they turned 21 they changed their outlook, they still drank but the forbidden factor went away as did some of the excitement. Back to the sexual stuff, if you get 2 guys together, we are always horny and wanting to have sex especially the age I am now. I may be totally wrong in my opinion but it is just that, my opinion.

[JellyBelly31]

I think the reason for gays is that guys are much more hornier than girls. But I can't say anything about Lesbian sex.