I dont know what i am

[Dude1]

Hey guys so I'm straight but have experimented with guys kaus i could never get lucky with girls. I am attracted to girls but if a guy is good looking i acknowledge it. Anyway I strangely like to look at at bulges and view gay things. I dont know what i am and i think maybe i just need more experience with girls to decide. Any advice? or similar stories?

[lemondrop]

Well..you're lacking of confidence with girls, don't be shy ,and if you don't get lucky don't lose the motivation ;) Tom Edison made 1000 unsuccessful attempts at inventing the light bulb :D and you sound totally str8 to me,you said that u experimented with guys and u still want girls so yeah try ,try and try

[KingWavy]

I;m the same way. I'm straight but I know a good looking guy, I'd never fuck one but he's good looking so I know that. Idk I don't think too much about it because a lot of people do it

[West Coast Sheriff]

Sounds like your mostly straight. Here's the thing ..., why put a label on it? Just do you and let your desires decide

[crazyBoyjJ]

I understand what ur going through, because I'm basically the same, but when the right girl comes to u she will, just don't sweat it. Just continue to be you and don't change for anyone

[Dude1]

Well..you're lacking of confidence with girls, don't be shy ,and if you don't get lucky don't lose the motivation ;) Tom Edison made 1000 unsuccessful attempts at inventing the light bulb :D and you sound totally str8 to me,you said that u experimented with guys and u still want girls so yeah try ,try and try

Haha thanks lemondrop!:)

[Dude1]

Sounds like your mostly straight. Here's the thing ..., why put a label on it? Just do you and let your desires decide

Thanks man :cool:

[Dude1]

I understand what ur going through, because I'm basically the same, but when the right girl comes to u she will, just don't sweat it. Just continue to be you and don't change for anyone

Thanks :D

[DoodleSnap]

A lot of people go through the same thing as you have: sexuality can be a confusing thing. My best advice is not to put a label on it. So often, people are afraid to use certain labels because they have negative connotations, or alternatively, they feel they have to 'fit' a label. My advice is to just be yourself, and work out who you are over time.
I use the bisexual label for myself, but sometimes even that doesn't fit perfectly, because my sexuality shifts and changes all the time. If you had asked me whether I prefer girls or guys three years ago, I would have told you that I prefer feminine traits, but now I prefer more masculine traits. What I say is that you should keep your mind open, and learn who you are with some experience.

Good luck.

[ska8er]

Hey guys so I'm straight but have experimented with guys kaus i could never get lucky with girls. I am attracted to girls but if a guy is good looking i acknowledge it. Anyway I strangely like to look at at bulges and view gay things. I dont know what i am and i think maybe i just need more experience with girls to decide. Any advice? or similar stories?


I can relate to u. I consider myself Straight most of the
time til I get these feelings when I c a cute guy or when
one acknowledges me then I'm feeling confused. I like girls
and many flirt with me but I have a steady girl and she is
clingy. I do not stray but could if I wanted to. Girls flash
their boobs in my face-I pop one-so Ok. Then in the locker
room changing or drying off a guy comes up and wants to
help me towel down or touches me-I pop one-so Ok I guess.
I don't mind it. These feelings don't get to me unless I'm
under a lot of stress-so I get off. I mess with my best friend
and I like it but I wouldn't take it further. I mess with my girl
and I like it also but same- we cool it. The only thing I can say
is ride this all out and c where it ends-maybe its good two ways.

[jdhud024]

This was me at first. Ended up playing around with friends, then realized that, damn, I've been missing out on how attractive some guys are.

I was stuck for a while on whether I was bi or gay, but I figured it out because I recently went to prom with one of my ex girlfriends, who at the time didn't know I was gay. Well, I ended up treating her like I was with a friend the whole time, not with a prom date. Later, when I dropped her off at her house, we said goodbye and I hugged her, got back in the car, and drove home.

A few days later we were texting and she was telling me how she was wanting me to kiss her when I dropped her off and all of that stuff. When she said this, it made me start thinking about, well, me. I realized that my relationships with any girlfriend I have had (minus one because she is psychotic) always ended bad because I wouldn't treat them like a girlfriend. When I was thinking back over that, it hit me that I always got broken up with for treating them like I would a friend.

I also came out to her that night via text, because she said she still had feelings for me and I didn't want her to get upset because I just ignored them, and I didn't know if she would think it was something wrong with her.

Basically, I felt that she deserved to know why I ignored her feelings toward me in that way. She was accepting too.

I didn't do it on purpose. But I realized then that I treated them like that because I literally had no attraction towards them other than as a friend.

To put this theory to the test, I went out and found a guy to play around with (you can read about that in my other replies on other posts), and we didn't officially become a couple, but we basically were, as we acted like any normal couple would.

That's how I figured it out.