View Full Version : How long is the average person supposed to last?
CynicalHats
March 29th, 2016, 12:43 PM
This is a really weird and awkward topic, which is why I don't bring it up around my friends, and I'm thankful for online forums like this.
Anyway, how long is the average person supposed to last? I lack a lot of confidence in this area...
jam98
March 29th, 2016, 12:55 PM
I don't think there is a set amount of time, to be honest with you - it all depends on the person and how horny they are (and to a certain extent how much control they have).
But, it's different for everyone; personally I usually last anywhere between 10 and 20 minutes, however I have lasted both much longer and much shorter in the past.
I really wouldn't worry about it...
CynicalHats
March 29th, 2016, 01:05 PM
Usually I last for 2-3 minutes (of constant jerking), but if I actually have time to slow down and take my time, I can last 10-20 minutes if I'm not constantly jerking.
Bluebyrd
March 29th, 2016, 03:12 PM
To do what? Jerking off or sex? Either way, they're quite similar and surprisingly, it's not very long so don't worry if you only last a few minutes or less.
andyh007
March 29th, 2016, 03:37 PM
For me it depends on how horny and how long since I last came. If it's been a couple days since I jerked then I'm a hair trigger. Had an accident in my shorts before cause of that. Everybody's different.
Hermes
March 29th, 2016, 03:39 PM
Usually I last for 2-3 minutes (of constant jerking), but if I actually have time to slow down and take my time, I can last 10-20 minutes if I'm not constantly jerking.
That seems fine to me. There isn't really any specific amount of time you should last. If you only have a few minutes but feel so horny you need to cum then it's fine to do it fast. My fastest was 1m40s. If you have longer you can stop & go - get close to cumming, stop for a bit, then continue until you are close again etc. - for much longer. The longest I have done that was about 4.5 hours. The advantage of doing that is that the orgasm is even more intense and pleasurable. I often spend about 20-30 minutes which is a compromise between the two and reserve the longer sessions for when I have nothing else I need to do.
Michael75
March 29th, 2016, 05:53 PM
The average for a lad is about 3-5 minutes. Average for a girl is around 15. (That could be completely wrong, I just thought I read it somewhere) of constant tugging, I come in about 2-3m. However I can edge to like 45 minutes
KingWavy
March 29th, 2016, 06:10 PM
Its all up to the person and how long its been. When I did it my first time, I lasted an hour and a half. Now if I do it, I'd be lucky to last 35 min. Like it all depends on your feelings and how "excited" you are
ska8er
March 29th, 2016, 07:40 PM
I cum usually 15 minutes but when I
edge I can go for an hour sometimes.
Idk if there is a normal time cause again
everyone is different under different
circumstances.
Ricky.h
March 30th, 2016, 11:00 AM
This is a really weird and awkward topic, which is why I don't bring it up around my friends, and I'm thankful for online forums like this.
Anyway, how long is the average person supposed to last? I lack a lot of confidence in this area...
For sex or jacking off
CynicalHats
March 30th, 2016, 03:55 PM
For sex or jacking off
Jacking off
BobJefferson
March 30th, 2016, 11:27 PM
I can ejaculate in a few minutes or take my time and make the jerking last 2 or more hours if I want.
Rhys2001
March 31st, 2016, 06:26 AM
I'm one of those guys who can really vary their time, I can be really quick and last about 2 minutes, however if you take it slow and relax I can last 20 mins if not longer, so if you want to last longer when jacking, to practice for sex just relax more, because when wanking or having sex your body becomes really tense
Canadian Dream
April 2nd, 2016, 02:45 PM
Usually I last for 2-3 minutes (of constant jerking), but if I actually have time to slow down and take my time, I can last 10-20 minutes if I'm not constantly jerking.
That actually sounds exactly like how long I last. I don't think there's a set average, some guys last longer than others.
rioo
April 3rd, 2016, 04:26 AM
I can get it quick if I already horny before I touch it. But I can go longer if I want to jerkin more relaxed. same when I doing sex.
shark_attack
April 3rd, 2016, 03:29 PM
To do what? Jerking off or sex? Either way, they're quite similar and surprisingly, it's not very long so don't worry if you only last a few minutes or less.
Depends how much experience you have aswell I think, first time usually about 35 seconds then up from there
Ragle
April 3rd, 2016, 03:47 PM
Anyway, how long is the average person supposed to last? I lack a lot of confidence in this area...
If you talk about sex, I think, if it just lasts as long for you as for your partner, then it doesn't matter whether it really lasts 2 seconds or 2 hours.
But if it's just about masturbation, it remains the same. As long as you have fun, it doesn't matter, how long it really lasts.
Kevgpdx
April 21st, 2016, 07:53 AM
I think it varies person to person. I can go really fast if I'm just going at it and want to shoot. But I can also last a long time if I edge and draw it out.
justin007
April 21st, 2016, 04:44 PM
This is a really weird and awkward topic, which is why I don't bring it up around my friends, and I'm thankful for online forums like this.
Anyway, how long is the average person supposed to last? I lack a lot of confidence in this area...
i can last from 2mins to about 20. usually its about 10 minutes. my friends are similar. i think everything is okay as long as you can enjoy it :D
Not Matt Damon
April 21st, 2016, 11:20 PM
It really depends when I jerk off, but I'd say at least 5 mins. The first time I had sex I thought that I wouldn't last that long, turned out I lasted for a good 45 mins lol
hairy balls
April 21st, 2016, 11:51 PM
it's different for everyone; personally I usually last anywhere between 10 and 20 minutes, however I have lasted both much longer and much shorter in the past.
ValentinClarke
May 1st, 2016, 04:49 PM
This is a really weird and awkward topic, which is why I don't bring it up around my friends, and I'm thankful for online forums like this.
Anyway, how long is the average person supposed to last? I lack a lot of confidence in this area...
Hey,
it depends on how fast I go. I can cum in 2 minutes, or 12 minutes. And anywhere between that, I could go longer, but I see no need for it at this current point in time.
Valentin
Dave2u
May 1st, 2016, 07:32 PM
it is timed by the need and the as is bases of where you can do it. i like to take a long time like 20 min but in a small house it is not always that private. so the 2 to 12 minute is most likely amount of time
Trumpetplayer
May 2nd, 2016, 10:08 PM
I don't think there is an average, because it changes on your mood
Thatkidsean001
May 2nd, 2016, 10:12 PM
Depends on my mòod
Coolguy2068
May 3rd, 2016, 07:52 PM
This is a really weird and awkward topic, which is why I don't bring it up around my friends, and I'm thankful for online forums like this.
Anyway, how long is the average person supposed to last? I lack a lot of confidence in this area...
lmao i literally last like 2 secs haha. jk usually at least like 5-10 minutes
MMDcurious
July 18th, 2016, 02:14 AM
I think it varies person to person. I can go really fast if I'm just going at it and want to shoot. But I can also last a long time if I edge and draw it out.
What does draw it out mean? Draw what out?
Leningradyets
July 18th, 2016, 11:45 PM
I usually don't last more than 2 minutes, but I think I can last much longer if I keep stopping and doing it. Never tried, though.
Vyktor
August 2nd, 2016, 05:35 AM
Here my record is 5h with very small breaks, but usually 2h ( I love long sessions, lol)
I don't think is an average time amount, it depends on mood
JohnC
August 2nd, 2016, 10:54 AM
On average 5 to 10 minutes or so for me. Depends on what I am thinking about or if I am in a hurry
Biomicro
August 2nd, 2016, 05:02 PM
I can last for like 9 minutes
pageninetynine
August 2nd, 2016, 06:27 PM
I usually last about 10-20 minutes.
BrendonOH
March 10th, 2017, 03:28 PM
On average 5 to 10 minutes or so for me. Depends on what I am thinking about or if I am in a hurry
Yeah about the same for me but i have gone for 30 mins one time. I hear boys eventually develop the ability to do it for hours if they want to.
Brightwolf
March 11th, 2017, 11:05 AM
This is a really weird and awkward topic, which is why I don't bring it up around my friends, and I'm thankful for online forums like this.
Anyway, how long is the average person supposed to last? I lack a lot of confidence in this area...
I usually go for 30 minutes when I jack off, I don't know about sex. But I've heard that if you last 10 min. you're good.
Zachary G
March 16th, 2017, 11:43 AM
This is a really weird and awkward topic, which is why I don't bring it up around my friends, and I'm thankful for online forums like this.
Anyway, how long is the average person supposed to last? I lack a lot of confidence in this area...
There really is no average, there are a lot of variables that come into play when it comes to "lasting". Some guys last longer than others, it just depends on the person and the circumstances. If you arent confident in this area, you could always use masturbation as a way to practice. Edging usually works for a lot of us, so you might want to try that and see how long you can go before you HAVE to orgasm.
Coolteenboy
March 21st, 2017, 04:37 PM
Depends on my degree of horny!!!
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