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untamed
March 27th, 2016, 10:39 AM
Ths guy friend of mine that i like said he didnt want to have a relationship and all he wanted was to make out and leave it there is this disrespectful to me or should i be glad and accept😕

Sailor Mars
March 27th, 2016, 10:52 AM
Do whatever you want. If you're content on just making out with him, do that. If you think he's not worth it, say no.

untamed
March 27th, 2016, 11:02 AM
Do whatever you want. If you're content on just making out with him, do that. If you think he's not worth it, say no.
Doesnt that make me a bit too easy for him

Sailor Mars
March 27th, 2016, 11:08 AM
Doesnt that make me a bit too easy for him

You're only as easy as you want to be. Too many girls worry if they're acting desperate or prude or whatever but who the fuck cares? You're your own girl. You're your own growing woman. Do whatever you want (you know, as long as it's legal).

If you think he's going to take advantage of you in the first place, however, then why is this a question to begin with?

ClaraWho
March 27th, 2016, 11:26 AM
That last sentence of the post above.

All this guy wants is a physical body to toy with for a while then discard. That's not really what is in question. Does it make you 'easy' to just let him do what he wants to you? Sure. But if you're of the same mindset of just wanting something meaningless and physical with him what's the issue?

Or do you want to wait until that intimacy means something and keep it special? Set your limits and have reasons for them, including consequences.

~ Clara

untamed
March 28th, 2016, 05:46 AM
That last sentence of the post above.

All this guy wants is a physical body to toy with for a while then discard. That's not really what is in question. Does it make you 'easy' to just let him do what he wants to you? Sure. But if you're of the same mindset of just wanting something meaningless and physical with him what's the issue?

Or do you want to wait until that intimacy means something and keep it special? Set your limits and have reasons for them, including consequences.

~ Clara
thanks

Irishperson15
March 28th, 2016, 07:13 AM
If you don't want to jeopardise your friendship, just do nothing and stay friends.

Zachary G
March 28th, 2016, 07:29 AM
You're only as easy as you want to be. Too many girls worry if they're acting desperate or prude or whatever but who the fuck cares? You're your own girl. You're your own growing woman. Do whatever you want (you know, as long as it's legal).

If you think he's going to take advantage of you in the first place, however, then why is this a question to begin with?

Im no girl, but I have to say this is pretty on point.

ska8er
March 28th, 2016, 08:10 AM
Don't let him take advantage of u-ur the only
one that knows how far he is going and if he is
just using u or he is acting as a casual friend in
the relationship. R u aware if he has other girls
that he has is doing the same. I don't mean this
in a sexual way but u will get the idea how a
relationship would b if it were sexual. I guess u
can b his friend but don't get hurt.

mcdaniels
March 28th, 2016, 08:11 AM
You do what you feel is best for you, nevermind what they say, be your own independent person

LanaPole
March 28th, 2016, 08:13 AM
you should just do what you want. dont have to worry about being easy or whatever. if you enjoy it then it's fine

eagle18
March 28th, 2016, 09:37 AM
If you want to,go ahead, but remember if you like him and hes only doing it for the kissing,it may give you more feelings towards him and he wont have the same feelings and you may end up hurting because you want more