is it wrong to want to have sex

[untamed]

Idk but i really feel the urge to have sex but my Christian religion says no so im really confused now

[nnoooooooopppeee]

No it's not wrong, most people get sexual urges.

[birdbrain01]

Idk but i really feel the urge to have sex but my Christian religion says no so im really confused now


How old are you?

[ska8er]

No it is not wrong if u r ready for it
and u have to have feelings for ur
partner and not take advantage of
them just for ur own selfish needs.
Also u don't rush into things.

[Abhorrence]

Puberty for Boys :arrow: Puberty for All

You're a female...

[ClaraWho]

It's okay, there's no evidence the christian or any god exists, so no reason to make yourself miserable over stories.

If you insist on believing then why would he make you horny in his image if he didn't think you'd want to have sex, unless he's cruel and vindictive. Sex is a normal desire, and so long as it is safe, consensual and with someone who you are in love with and loves you back - there are no negatives and only a multitude of benefits (including masturbating).

~ Clara

[Meron]

Not at all. It's a natural thing, I'm religious as well and I usually feel the urge of having sex, but I know how to control myself.

[LITTLEANGEL19]

It's not wrong as long as it's LEGAL.

[mattsmith48]

Theres no God and if there was one I think he would have better thing to do then punishing people to have sex.

[eagle18]

Its all based on how you feel, your should never feel guilty or bad about sexual urges or masturbation because of a religions teachings. It is a natural human function and its healthy to masturbate regularly or have sex. Having sex requires you be mentally and physically ready to deal with it and any consequences that may arise from havng sex. Such as pregnancy or stds. If you are old enough and think you are ready make sure you use protection or theres birth control involved. Condoms are always best because it can help stop transfer of mostly anything that can be transmitted

[NZPerson]

Theres no God and if there was one I think he would have better thing to do then punishing people to have sex.

If she chooses to believe thats her choice, dont make her feel bad for it

[Zachary G]

Its a natural thing for you to have sexual urges and there is nothing wrong in having them, its not like its a sin or anything. So I think you ll be okay.

[eric2001]

if it feels so good, how can it be wrong?

[mattsmith48]

If she chooses to believe thats her choice, dont make her feel bad for it

Im still right that if theres a God he has better stuff to do then punishing people for having sex

[West Coast Sheriff]

It's normal to want to have sex. You're human and part of being human is being attracted to other humans. The important factor to ponder is whether you act or ignore those urges. If you believe you shouldn't have sex, then it's okay to believe that and fight those urges. Skeptics saying not to worry because they don't believe in God may not be the best advice. God is also very forgiving and if you make mistakes, he has endless mercy. If you do choose to have sex, it should be with someone you love. Don't just hook up to try it. That will devalue the intimate act of sex.

[Vanilla Cupcake]

It's not wrong to want to have sex, as long as the other person is willing and the right age then go for it and have fun, be safe and use protection of course.
It's too bad that so many religions brain wash people.
I'd be willing to bet that more then half of all religious people don't follow their religion.

[everlong]

Not wrong

[NZPerson]

Im still right that if theres a God he has better stuff to do then punishing people for having sex

Fair enough just dont judge for her beliefs

[Vermilion]

It's not wrong and keep with what you feel is right.

[seth_hunt]

Religion and sex often come into conflict with each other. However, even the most faithful people get sexual urges, so you should just embrace it.

[Irishperson15]

No, certainly not. It is part of your changing hormones and increasing sex drive and sexual awareness. Just don't jump into anything though.

[redrider12]

I'm a practicing Catholic, belonging to one of the most adamantly anti-sex-before-marriage faiths on Earth. Do I think wanting to have sex is wrong? Absolutely not. Sex is a basic human need - if there was never a desire to have sex, I couldn't see the human race lasting for many more years.
Now the carnal desire vs. the action itself is another issue entirely.
Part of puberty is hormones. Hormones like crazy. I've been drunk, high, and on some pretty weird drugs. But nothing I've taken gives me such a rush of feelings and emotions as hormones. It's absolutely appropriate to experience sexual urges throughout that time - any human alive would be lying if they said they never have. What's important, right now, is understanding what do do about those desires. And for a majority of teenagers who feel it, the proper action is not to go find the nearest member of the opposite sex and go to town. Sure, that's possible. And for many people, it wouldn't be hard. But not every feeling or desire needs an immediate carnal response.
I don't believe in waiting for marriage to have sex, I think that's bogus. I also don't believe that having intercourse should be treated as a way to get to know someone, which seems to be a common mindset among my friends. When you meet the person who's right for you, and she feels the same, you'll know it. THEN it becomes more acceptable to act on sexual fantasies.

[KingWavy]

It's not wrong, its called hormones so it will happen, it;s up to you if act on it or not

[LanaPole]

i think it's perfectly fine to have sexual urges and have sex. in the end, it's up to yourself, depends on how serious you take your religion. but be safe

[Bontigo Papi .]

I know if you're Christian you live by the idea of sex after marriage (I know this because I'm a good Christian boy myself) , but its not wrong to have sexual urges , I've had many sexual urges myself , and you're not forced to keep your dick in your pants , if you want to have sex , go ahead , no one is telling you its wrong , its only the consequences you need to be aware of .

[hesaidhesaid]

While our Lord would wish you wait until marriage (refer to Paul's first epistle to the Corinthians), the appropriate verse ironically actually means that people cannot control their urges for having immoral reasons to have sex outside of marriage. All I recommend is that you be happy and do it in legal, safe terms.

Let me know if you would like more guidance on this. God bless.

[NickTheStar]

Its not wrong. Use a condom. No glove no love.

[Ashwells9991]

not wrong at all, pretty natural i think

[Thatkidsean001]

Wanting to have sex is human nature

[Sweeper]

I'm Christian too. The answer would depend on what kind of Christian you are, but most types don't mind so long as you aren't sleeping around randomly. Remember that the rules are more like guidelines for living a good life, and being too loose can cause problems, so it's recommended that you don't sleep around too much.

If you're in a committed relationship, there's no problem.

[Claire Asteroid]

I'm Christian and I haven't had sex even though my ex-boyfriend wanted to because I want to wait until I'm married. I think sex is something for marriage, but if you want to do it it's up to you.

[ethan-s]

It's fine as long as you don't imagine have it with a particular person. The Bible prohibits lust, but it doesn't prohibit sexual urges. Just don't think about smashing your gf and you'll be fine.:metal:

[Zbmrnb16]

It's all part of how we function. Humans need to reproduce, so we desire sex through most of our lives.

[PinkFloyd]

It's human nature to want to have sex. It's up to you if you want to stay true to your belief system or not.

[Falcons_11]

It's not wrong and keep with what you feel is right.

This is the way I feel about it too. It is normal thing and should never be forced on another person.

[Almostahero]

Idk but i really feel the urge to have sex but my Christian religion says no so im really confused now

I am also a Christian and I have read A LOT about this. No it is not wrong or a sin to have the urge to have sex. If it was why would God give it to you. Doesn't matter age or anything else, it is a part of being human. Male or Female.

If you want to have any discussion on this PM me and we can chat. Like I have said, I have read a lot about sexuality in Christianity.

[iamsilkspectre]

It's perfectly normal. Don't feel bad about it.

[NickS]

no theres nothing wrong with it everyone gets these feelings and theres nothing wrong with acting on those feelings

[Xiao.Z]

Urge normal but must take care for safety if pursue. I not Christian so this not worry for me but you must make decide that you live with.

[Jameson9]

It's okay, there's no evidence the christian or any god exists, so no reason to make yourself miserable over stories.

If you insist on believing then why would he make you horny in his image if he didn't think you'd want to have sex, unless he's cruel and vindictive. Sex is a normal desire, and so long as it is safe, consensual and with someone who you are in love with and loves you back - there are no negatives and only a multitude of benefits (including masturbating).

~ Clara


I agree with Clara

[BeautyBelle]

There's nothing wrong with wanting to, Christians have the same desires as anybody else. Whether or not you actually do it or not, that's between you and God. Good Christians can disagree about it, you have to decide what you think is right.

This is actually something that I've spent a lot of time thinking about, because I'm religious but I've also been sexually active. I don't know what to think about it sometimes.

[kev99]

There is nothing wrong with it. If you are a Christian, then you believe God created Man. So he must also have created the desire to have sex. As long as you are not causing any harm to someone else, that's perfectly ok.

[FuTo]

It's natural for teens like us to want to have sex. I dont suggest rushing in unless you really like the person. And one last thing if u do use protection.

[Supermeggs12]

It's natural.

[jamie_n5]

I don't think it's wrong to have sex.

[FuTo]

Idk but i really feel the urge to have sex but my Christian religion says no so im really confused now

Trust me when I say your god has worst offenders to attend to. Most of my friends have already lost their virginity at the age of 15-16 and they are religious

[ethan-s]

No it is not wrong if u r ready for it
and u have to have feelings for ur
partner and not take advantage of
them just for ur own selfish needs.
Also u don't rush into things.

Did you not see the part about being Christian? Of course op wants to have it. But that's OK every one does. You can wait.

[Fleek]

I have to quote Gaga on this one... 'God makes no mistakes, you were born this way'

[Devinsoccer]

Idk but i really feel the urge to have sex but my Christian religion says no so im really confused now

I have this same feeling, its ok if you want to have sex. If you want to have sex with your bæ, nothing is stopping you. Religion may have some say weather or not you should have sex, I appose premaritail sex, but if you want to do whatever you want. Have fun!

[jerrydevo2]

Well for the Christian religion there is nothing wrong with wanting to have sex but they say not to have sex before marriage so your choice