I let him but he won't let me....

[kiwiteen]

Hi me and my friend have been experimenting for about 12 months and had never done anal till recently. The problem is that my BF has anal with me but won't let me have anal with him.

He has come up with a lot of reasons why not but basically he says he doesn't feel gay and so wont let me

Do you think this is fair?

how can I make him let me

[Zachary G]

theres no way you can really talk him into trying it if he doesnt want to. Some guys are more into doing than they are into getting done, its just a matter of preference. It would be nice to be with someone who likes to receive as much as you do, but thats not always the case. You can try talking more with him about it.

[Meron]

Soooo he has sex with a guy but says he doesn't feel gay. Seems legit.

Tell him he ain't touching you until he lets you.

[pjones]

first, please never "make" someone do anything sexual. it def isn't fair, so if he says no i suggest you say no as well. my opinion is he's using you

[MartyG]

There may be some physical issues with him back there. Relating to one of the "other purposes" for the anus. Maybe you should ask him about it?

[ska8er]

No it not fair-he is being-no pun-
an asshole for not letting u share
in the experience. He is being selfish.
Tell him u will hold off on anything
more if he keeps taking advantage.
Its strange he says he doesn't feel gay.

My bestie wants "to do me" but Im not
into it. We have not had anal Keeps on telling me hes
Straight but I wonder. He gets bent out
of shape when I tell him No. Seems like
I have the same prob like u. Btw-he only
wants to top me but does not want me
"to do him". This is a two way deal or no
deal if I was interested-but im not.

Tell ur bud u want some respect.

[Abhorrence]

Asking for sexual tips or asking how to get people to do things with you is inappropriate and not allowed. :locked: