Experimentation aftermath

[Dude1]

Hey guys, so i experimented with my best friend a few years ago and we later became friends with benefits. So we became good friends. Anyways these days he doesnt want to talk to me and has severed all communication with me. Did I do anything wrong? can i fix our friendship? Tips?

[nnoooooooopppeee]

I would just give some space for a while and let him cool off. Also this (http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=25631) may be worth looking at.

[NZPerson]

Maybe hes just embarrassed and he dosnt want others to find out.

[will0c]

I agree with other postings. He probably needs some space. I know I did.

[pjones]

you need to talk with him to sort things out. it's not like you had one sexual experience and weren't friends afterwards. to me there might be some other reason he's moved on

[TheLotus]

I would say you should just go up to him and talk about it since it sounds like he blocked you from online communication

[Second Chance]

Without knowing the whole situation it is hard to comment, but I am guessing that clearly during one of your sexual encounters with your friend something may have happened that crossed the line that made your friend feel so badly that he refuses to deal with you. My recommendation is that you might want to try something old school and actually write him a letter if he has blocked you completely electronically letting him know you are sorry if you did anything wrong and that you will give him space if that is what he wants.

At this stage there might not be a whole lot you can do if your friend is so upset he refuses to deal with you, and giving him space is the best thing to do. There really is not much else you can do if the person does not want to interact with you though I know that must really hurt. Sometimes a person gets so worked up that they need time to work things out. If this person is truly a friend, then he will eventually try to work things out with you.

[ska8er]

U don't say how old u guys r. I would give him time
to come around and c if he still wants to b friends but
don't get too clingy with him cause u Will scare him away.
Its possible that he matured a bit and he feels a little
embarrassment with the experimenting. If he still doesn't
want to b ur friend its his loss.

[Bluebyrd]

When did he stop talking to you? If he continued to experiment for a while then I doubt he had any problems with it and so him not talking to you probably had nothing to do with this.

[Canadian Dream]

I would just give some space for a while and let him cool off. Also this (http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=25631) may be worth looking at.

That's a very good link right there, I don't think I would add much more.

[birdbrain01]

Hey guys, so i experimented with my best friend a few years ago and we later became friends with benefits. So we became good friends. Anyways these days he doesnt want to talk to me and has severed all communication with me. Did I do anything wrong? can i fix our friendship? Tips?

How old are you guys back then and how old are you now?
Are you actually gay?
If your gay do others know?

[Zachary G]

Just give him his space and respect his decision to separate himself, he probably has a lot going on in his head that hes trying to figure himself out. Just give him some time and let him come back to you.

[Dude1]

How old are you guys back then and how old are you now?
Are you actually gay?
If your gay do others know?

We were like 16ih and now we are about 19. I'm not gay

[Dude1]

Alright. Thanks guys :)