Help Needed about a Girl from spring break

[tjt3759]

So I just got back from spring break and I went to another country with just a bunch of my guy friends (Im 19). And while we were there we met this group of two girls who were really cool. We hung out with them the entire week we were there and I really enjoyed them. One of them in particular, I thought was very cool, very cute, and very nice. I liked her a lot. So I was just trying to get closer to her throughout the week and about two days before we left, her friend told me that she wasn't really looking for anything right now. In my head I said "Okay, Ill just stopping trying to pursue her and only be friends." So the next day I didnt hang out with her that much but we still went to the night club like we had been every night and she was dancing on me and stuff, just like a normal night. And then the next day, it was time for both of us to leave and fly home to our respective states, West coast and east coast. We said goodbye, hugged, and went our separate ways. I thought to myself "that was fun, she was cool, I had a good time, too bad I might not see her again" and I got over it. Later that day I saw her again at the airport but as soon as she saw me she ran up to me and kissed me and said "thanks for meeting me" or something like that, I dont remember exactly (too caught up in the moment lol). and then we finally went our separate ways and flew home. But I was just about done thinking about her and had her out of my head until she kissed me. When she kissed me it through my brain into a loop. and now, 3 days after the trip, I still cant stop thinking about her and how great of a girl she is. But it is really killing me that there is a high possibility that i might not ever see her again. I think that she could potentially be a girl for me, a girl that I was looking for. I hate to bring up religious stuff but I like to think that God has a plan for everyone and everything happens for a reason, so He purposely had her and I stay at the same hotel and meet each other for a reason. I just cant get over the fact that we probably wont see each other and each time I think about it I start to tear up or cry (I am a very emotional guy). Basically I just need some advice on how to get through this or what I should do. Like should I just keep talking/texting her and maybe we will be able to meet up in the future. Anything is very much appreciated.

Thank you very much if you made it this far into my story/rant

PS...We have kind of been talking, like texting a bit and snapchatting with each other since we last saw each other.

[Irishperson15]

It sounds like you two hit it off! Glad you had a good time, but you have to consider was it proper romance or just in the moment due to the fact that you were both on holidays and partying, etc. I think you should just continue to chat to her and see how things go. Who knows? It could work out and you could meet her again and plan it all. Or, she could just be a holiday romance. But I suggest you just maintain contact and go from there. Hope it works out :)

[KangarooInMalibu]

I agree with the above post. Cherish and continue to form the friendship you two have already started and, maybe, it will turn into something more in the future. And if it doesn't, then at least the friendship will remain between you two. Good luck! :)