FWB's

[kylem]

I kind of hooked up with this girl at a party last weekend and we seriously made out and got pretty much naked when we we're doing it. I want to seriously have sex with her but both of us don't want to be like in a serious relationship. So is it cool to have a fwb and does it change the way you feel about the person and can it mess with what I already have with her as a friend?

[dreamofdante]

I kind of hooked up with this girl at a party last weekend and we seriously made out and got pretty much naked when we we're doing it. I want to seriously have sex with her but both of us don't want to be like in a serious relationship. So is it cool to have a fwb and does it change the way you feel about the person and can it mess with what I already have with her as a friend?

Lucky...:(

To answer your question, it can make you have feelings for her but in the end, if you stick to knowing it's just FWB, you should be okay.

[JollyToes]

It prob will change how you feel about each other. But if you both are just really looking to hook up in don't see an issue. Just be ready if she falls for you or vice versa. It could get weird.

[kylem]

It prob will change how you feel about each other. But if you both are just really looking to hook up in don't see an issue. Just be ready if she falls for you or vice versa. It could get weird.

That's seriously what I'm afraid of is that she will fall for me or I will fall for her!

[JollyToes]

That's seriously what I'm afraid of is that she will fall for me or I will fall for her!

If you are seriously worried it might not be worth it in the end. It'll prob be awesome for a while but in the end it may hurt worse IMO

[Seemyheart]

Just do what you feel is right, if you feel like things are getting too serious, rethink the whole fwb thing.
Wish you the best of luck! :)

[chrisjenkins]

Do what you think is right.

[RachelW]

sex changes everything if you value the friendship then find out what you both wont if its a relationship then great, if not then FWB probably wont end well

[Harley Quinn]

P101 :arrow: Relationships and Dating

[ImagineRepublicCity]

If you liked what you did and everything and she's fine with it, I don't see why not. If you guys do turn out to like each other, it'll be a matter of it's own, and it really just depends on how you want things to progress. Again, I guess it can change your relationship with her, but it all depends on her and her. If you make it change, it will. If you do what you normally do, it should stay the same. Good luck~ c:

[Zachary G]

its totally cool to have a FWB thing with this girl who is also your friend as long as you both agree that what you have is going to be nothing more than physical, but thats the key, agreeing what the terms are and sticking to them.

[Body odah Man]

I personally think that a pure FWB relationship is just wrong. It's degrading to the girl cuz it just means you treat her as someone to satiate your sexual desires with, yet expect her to remain your friend instead of giving her some commitment. It's just too selfish IMO

[ViolinPro]

I agree with bepop.
Honestly, I'm a very open-minded person but one of the very very few things I will not go with and not agree with is FWB.
It's absolute bulls*** and especially for your age (judging by the picture) too many consequences to deal with and then problems with your or her parents. And for the girl it's always worse, and since I'm a girl, I'm siding with the female gender of course :p ;)
I suggest either a relationship with her or let it slide, watch porn, make a hole in a box or something and masturbate in it xD

[kylem]

I agree with bepop.
Honestly, I'm a very open-minded person but one of the very very few things I will not go with and not agree with is FWB.
It's absolute bulls*** and especially for your age (judging by the picture) too many consequences to deal with and then problems with your or her parents. And for the girl it's always worse, and since I'm a girl, I'm siding with the female gender of course :p ;)
I suggest either a relationship with her or let it slide, watch porn, make a hole in a box or something and masturbate in it xD

That's why I was asking for opinions because I've never had a fwb and yeah it does have "benefits", but because I really like this girl I don't want to screw up what we already have, because I respect her. I actually don't think I'll do it, especially just after having been cheated on by my ex, the whole fwb thing was just a random idea and being pissed about being cheated on and hormones.

[ViolinPro]

I had actually had a similar thing happen to me and my current boyfriend, so now I totally understand you. We are actually going out now xD
Maybe you should wait a while and see if you can trust her and then as it goes. I had severe trust issues between me and my boyfriend and things still worked out and it's even better now.
It's never good to be afraid to get hurt, I forgot who said this but everybody will hurt us at some point, we just gotta find those worth it.
Get hurt? Screw it and go on xD but you always gotta try and risk it :P :yeah:

[DarkHorse4eva]

it risks your friendship, and might ruin it, but if you really want to, then take the chance and see what happens