Me and shanice...

[Esimmons95]

Okay, I usually don't like posts. But me and my girlfriend of 4 years recently broke up. I took it really hard. During the break up it seemed as if she was crushing on someone else, this was for the better half of a month, maybe a month and a half. Then discussions of getting back together came up. So now its like she'll say i get a week chance then arguments happen and she takes it back. but then she'll give it back. I try hard to make everything perfect to get her back but throughout talks she always tells me how i did wrong in the relationship. When i tell her I feel she doesnt love me anymore she gets really aggravated. When i asked if she misses me she says she doesnt know. What should I do?

[leenntallguy16]

girlfriend of 4
years that has already been a lot of time! Dump her, be a stud and njoy ur life man!

[Sailor Mars]

Dump her, be a stud and njoy ur life man!

^ Way to be blunt...

If you both aren't commited, then it isn't going to work out. No matter how much time or effort you put into trying to make it work, it won't. If she doesn't love you back then don't try to force it. Just let time decide. If it doesn't work out, it doesn't work out. If it does, good for you, it does work out.

[Meron]

A moment of silence for our fallen brother.
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Right, first off you might wanna give her her space for the time being and cut communications for an amount of time until it's the right time to talk and discuss things again. Try to be close to her while doing so and try to show how much it means to you. Try to make the thing emotional a little bit and try to make her realize the value of what is she about to lose. If she really loves you then she will come back to you eventually, you can tell from what you see from both of you being together for more than four years.

If nothing works then it's time to pack your bags and move on, maybe she's not meant for you, maybe you'll meet a way better partner in the future.

Most importantly - keep your head up. Don't lose hope.