View Full Version : I can't tell if this girl in class likes me
USMC276
March 17th, 2016, 04:41 PM
I've made friend's with a girl from Germany in my class. I ended up sitting next to her on the first day not knowing she was foreign and I ended up getting to know her. I almost always get to class before her and she always sits next to me and when I come late, she sits in the same spot next to where I always sit (not really saying that's a sign she likes me.
But I talk to her all the time before class and we always alternate with starting conversations. Sometimes I do make her laugh and I can tell she's pretty comfortable sitting and talking next to me. She often makes very good eye contact with me when I speak and sometimes kind of leans really close towards me during class (since we sit at rows of tables). By leaning towards me, I mean she leans to left pretty close and kind of holds her chin up while listening in class. I mean, if I'm sitting next to a girl I don't like, I wouldn't necessarily lean close to her at all.
I really don't know what to do at this point and I can't tell if she likes me or not. Maybe there are other signs I'm missing that could tell me she does or doesn't like me that I'm missing. I noticed she sometimes mimics my postures and things I do, like if I sit back with my arms folded or I twirl my pen around.
I hate to like a girl a lot and then end up finding out she doesn't like me after months of trying to read her, so can I have some help from anyone?
Meron
March 17th, 2016, 04:51 PM
If she tries to show it off by leaning to you try wrapping your arm around her and see her reaction, maybe that'd show? Also maybe try hinting if she starts to as well.
USMC276
March 17th, 2016, 07:48 PM
If she tries to show it off by leaning to you try wrapping your arm around her and see her reaction, maybe that'd show? Also maybe try hinting if she starts to as well.
That would make an award situation in class bro.
Meron
March 17th, 2016, 07:53 PM
That would make an award situation in class bro.
So what?
If you don't wanna test that in class then test it whenever you guys sit else where, if you actually do.
Also try to check out other activities, that can help.
Sailor Mars
March 17th, 2016, 10:25 PM
If she tries to show it off by leaning to you try wrapping your arm around her and see her reaction, maybe that'd show? Also maybe try hinting if she starts to as well.
^ Dont do this. Seriously. I would hate it if some foreign guy in a new school wrapped his arm around me.
If you want to know, start talking to her. See the things she says and how she acts to you compared to other students.
USMC276
March 17th, 2016, 10:52 PM
^ Dont do this. Seriously. I would hate it if some foreign guy in a new school wrapped his arm around me.
If you want to know, start talking to her. See the things she says and how she acts to you compared to other students.
I know. He's giving me information like a jackass.
And like I said, I do talk to her all the time before class but I'm pretty much the only one she talks to in that class
Sailor Mars
March 17th, 2016, 10:56 PM
I know. He's giving me information like a jackass.
And like I said, I do talk to her all the time before class but I'm pretty much the only one she talks to in that class
Ah gotchu. And also please refrain from insulting other members. Thanks.
Ask her if she likes anyone (but do it casually. Like slide it into a conversation), if she's dated in the past, etc. Something will seem off off if she does like you. Don't be a creep about it tho lol. If she seems uncomfortable or anything just lay off
TonyJoe
March 18th, 2016, 01:06 AM
Would it be worth.... i don't know....
ASKING
Uniquemind
March 18th, 2016, 04:03 AM
Hmm it's hard to tell if she's close to you out of comfort and security or if there's a romantic spark there.
I'd say hang outside of class and flirt there and see what happens.
clairey
March 18th, 2016, 06:07 AM
Silly thought from me but you could just ask her and see what she says. You never know :)
USMC276
March 18th, 2016, 01:18 PM
Silly thought from me but you could just ask her and see what she says. You never know :)
It is ballsy but I guess that would be my last resort if i can't figure out towards the end of the semester
Cristina15
March 18th, 2016, 03:28 PM
I've made friend's with a girl from Germany in my class. I ended up sitting next to her on the first day not knowing she was foreign and I ended up getting to know her. I almost always get to class before her and she always sits next to me and when I come late, she sits in the same spot next to where I always sit (not really saying that's a sign she likes me.
But I talk to her all the time before class and we always alternate with starting conversations. Sometimes I do make her laugh and I can tell she's pretty comfortable sitting and talking next to me. She often makes very good eye contact with me when I speak and sometimes kind of leans really close towards me during class (since we sit at rows of tables). By leaning towards me, I mean she leans to left pretty close and kind of holds her chin up while listening in class. I mean, if I'm sitting next to a girl I don't like, I wouldn't necessarily lean close to her at all.
I really don't know what to do at this point and I can't tell if she likes me or not. Maybe there are other signs I'm missing that could tell me she does or doesn't like me that I'm missing. I noticed she sometimes mimics my postures and things I do, like if I sit back with my arms folded or I twirl my pen around.
I hate to like a girl a lot and then end up finding out she doesn't like me after months of trying to read her, so can I have some help from anyone?
mmm from your description i think she likes you...love is a kind of game...sometime you win sometime not, but you must play
Anonymous2002
March 19th, 2016, 08:40 AM
Ok idk much but with my last gf we were friends for a long time and one day we started playing truth or dare, i asked her she liked after 20 mins of playing and she gave me a weird look and covered her face, i thought i went too far or something but turned out she liked me and we started dating, and also dont just wrap your arm around her or touch her randomly. What i do because im a dumbass is when im with friends just hit on every girl i see (sit next to them put my arm around them, rest my head on them, ect) and most will laugh some will just rest their head on me or hug me. ive never had an actual rejection from this but it is not smart because do it to the wrong person and you can get charged. I suggest becoming good friends with her, finding out if she is single or liking someone if she says yes but doesnt say who, it could be you :) then if its all good just sit close to her, hang out after school, maybe go out to get food (nothing classy just like maccas or some shit, just lay down or sit up with her and maybe get a bit closer or if your walking together maybe hold her hand but only if you really think she likes you. Good luck ;)
Sanchez16620
March 19th, 2016, 10:51 AM
Ask her
USMC276
March 20th, 2016, 04:35 PM
Ask her
I rather see if there are any signs she is giving me first
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