rearley see my girlfriend

[NathanC]

Hi all. So I'm about 8 months into my relationship with my girlfriend and when we first started dating I new she was quite a busy person as she plays alot of sport but I still saw her a good 4 times a week. But since we started college she's joint another sport club and now I only see her 1 or 2 times a week but only for about 3 hours at a time and she always want to go out and see our freinds then as well so I rarely get any time with her just the 2 if us. I'm not a particularly clingy boyfriend I can handle not being around her all the time. But It's getting to the stage now where I'm jumping through hoops and turning down overtime at work just to see her for a few hours when she isn't sacrificing anything to see me. I don't want to make her have to choose between me or her sports but it's getting really annoying now. Any ideas?

[warbit]

When i broke up with my first girlfriend it was because we didn't see enough of eachother. It was mostly my fault but couldn't do much about it cause of homework and all that while she did loads of sports. Perhaps what you should do is say we should meet every Tuesday (for example)??

[West Coast Sheriff]

Tell her how you feel. You want to feel like more of a priority.

[Sports Boy]

Ya, express your feelings to her and see how she reacts. If she doesn't try to meet your needs at least some, it's probably not a relationship you want to be in.

[Zachary G]

Tell her how you feel. You want to feel like more of a priority.

This is the best way and only way to go about it. Tell her how you feel and that you would like to see more of her, but she will have to put forth as much effort as you do. Its only fair.