Boyfriend's mom hates me?

[brookelauren]

Ever since me and my boyfriend started dating his mom seems to hate me. I don't know what I could have possibly done because me and her hardly talk. I mean we say hi and all that but never a full on conversation. It really bothers me. She always refers to me as "THAT girl" never by my name.. It honestly freaking hurts and makes me want to run away from her. I'm scared of her I don't know if she wants that or just hates my guts. Is she overprotective over her son? I can understand that but I would never hurt my first boyfriend of 9 months. She always says we won't get married? But is't that the idea? dating is for getting to know and find your future husband. She says negative things to my boyfriend and he tells me because he doesn't keep things. She always says it's fake love... that honestly truly hurts as hell.. So what can I do to make her stop thinking that? :(

[West Coast Sheriff]

I think she's skeptical of your relationship. Her son is still her boy in her eyes and she's watched you become very important to him. She might feel threatened that he loves you more idk. The best way is to just prove her wrong by staying with him and whenever you see her, being polite as possible.

[xMetalxMachinex]

How old aare you two may I ask?

[lliam]

It's not you. It's law of nature. :D

moms hate their boy's GF
dads hates their girl's BF.

Guess, that's natural ... kinda.
Usually until they get used to it.

[Zachary G]

I dont think there is anything you can really do to make her stop not liking you, but there is something your bf can do and that is for him to tell him mom that she should stop bad mouthing you to him. I know shes his mom, but youre his gf and someone he supposedly cares for a lot, so he should put his foot down about it. As far as you go, keep killing her with kindness and being your polite self because thats what youre supposed to do, and just keep loving your bf and being there for him.

[Amybaby9]

She sounds immature as hell.

May I suggest next time your alone with her. Or even with your bf there. Come out and ask her whats the deal? Be polite but be firm. Its 2016 the lady needs to chillex

[jockeyboy97]

Continue to be polite, don't let her break you down. If the opportunity arises you may want to ask her if you have offended her in anyway. Or may may give it some time for her to get use to you and get to know you. Invite your boyfriends family to a family barbecue or dinner at your house. That would give her an opportunity to meet your family and see where you come from.