This dude

[xMetalxMachinex]

Don't know whether to call him friend or not.

I've known him for a year. If you can call him known. He's so distant, always haa been, yet the last time I talked to him (month or two ago) he says how he wants to be friends- But called me clingy and used the excuse he has trust issus. Never texts or called first.

Just truly wanted to vent and give an example of how not to be a friend.

[Moriya]

Don't be his friend. He'll drop you a day later.

[West Coast Sheriff]

Yeah, I would just ignore the motherfucker

[TonyJoe]

He sounds pretty shitty. What the fuck, don't even talk to him.

[ska8er]

I don't agree to the above advices to a degree.
He has issues with making friends. They r his
issues not urs. If u really want to b friends with
him-I don't know if u do-continue of what u r
doing and then after awhile if he still avoids u
keep ur distance and he will get the message.
I think he wants to b friends with u but he
is not comfortable with making friends.

[xMetalxMachinex]

I don't agree to the above advices to a degree.
He has issues with making friends. They r his
issues not urs. If u really want to b friends with
him-I don't know if u do-continue of what u r
doing and then after awhile if he still avoids u
keep ur distance and he will get the message.
I think he wants to b friends with u but he
is not comfortable with making friends.

Can u say 12 months? I've been patient with him for 12 months. No reciprocation.

[ska8er]

Can u say 12 months? I've been patient with him for 12 months. No reciprocation.

Then tell him if he doesnt want to b friends ur
not playing games tell him to find someone else.
I wouldnt put up with him for that long. Tell him
straight out but not in a mean way. As I said-he
has social issues with making friends.

[Zachary G]

I think its time to just leave him be and move on with your life and not worry about his. You have your own issues to dedal with, why add someone elses to the mix.

[Meron]

Abandon him.

[Freckles]

It's clear he's playing games with you or he's so unsure of himself. Either way I don't see a fun friendship or even someone you could hang out with. I say follow your instinct.

[Falcons_11]

It sounds like to me the dude has issues that you don't know what they are. It seems to me that he is avoiding you on purpose. IMHO..you could still try to be friends with him. But in all probability it won't work out for the best given his present attitude. My advice is to distant yourself from him and if his attitude improves then there might be something there to rebuild your friendship with him.

[Brit4love]

Stop talking to him